i'm really confused right now. my boyfriend and i have been going out for a really long time, and i love him more than anything. but i find myself wondering what it would be like to just have like a few week fling with some other guy. my current bf is the only guy i've ever dated, so the only relationship i've known has bee like a 2 year one. i don't want to do anything to ruin what i have with my bf, but i don't know what i should do about these feelings. we don't live near each other (we're both in college), so technically, if i wanted to i could date someone else for a little, because we're not ACTUALLY dating...but we are...it's complicated. im not sure if the reason i'm feeling like this is just because i miss him, or if i really am curious about having another relationship. what should i do??? i want to meet more guys, but i'm really shy and i'm not good at approaching them. i need some good advice. thanks to anyone who answers.
Well, I think you should date other guys for a while. Becuase you never know who's really the one if you don't date more than one guy. You just need to get out there and see what's really out there for you. Good luck with making your decision. And you never know you may date other guys and still can't get over with your *Current* boyyfriend and may date him in the future. You just don't know. Hope I helped a little!
Shannon
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I have this friend who can get on my nerves so much because she just tries to control everyone! well many people i know complain about her and it is so annoying. she is always in my face like am i your best friend and i made you a picture but im not gonne give it to you and do u hate me, and AHHH ITS IS SO ANNOYING!!! i like want to scream my head off when im around her and answer all her questions "truthfully" and AHHH!!!!!! but i cant because she like gets my friends mad at me and why do i care? AHHH WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
Well, you need to tell her to stop. Like to let her know that she's not controlling you. If you don't tell her soon about how you feel it will get worse so I would just say something now and help yourself in the near future.. Its always good to go with what your heart tells you too. Good luck with that :) Shan
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ok to understand my question here is what happened before...Sorry it is long!!!
my friend kristina is dating this guy named richard. Well they dated for about 1 year before breaking up because he is constantly a jerk to her. He was possesive and always jealous. When she would talk to her friends while talking to him he would flip out and he would flip out if she talked to other guys. Well, many times before she wanted to break up with him but he would always say he loved her so much and that he would change but he never did. Even her parents hated himZ Well, right before school started he wanted to get back together with her. (**Me and Kristina talked every day**)She wasnt sure if she should because of how he used to treat her. I kept telling her not to because she would only get hurt again. Well, she is dating him now and she totally changed. SHe never talks to me or her best friend Kayliee anymore. We both said that if she keeps this up that when she needs we might not be there anymore. What can I do to make her see what is going on and that he is a jerk without hurting her feelings or anything.
Well, you have to say what you have to say. Don't worry about hurting her feelings because later on she will understand and thank you. Just say what you feel and she might listen if she doesn't she will learn from the mistake or just live with it. But eventually she should come around and thank you. Good luck with that though.
Shannon
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