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i am a 17 year old female who is a good friend. i like to help people, and i love music. i am very involved in my school, i know a wide variety of things, so i hope to help someone!

Juelz

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my friend needs some help because she likes this boy and she's too afraid to tell him. She wants to know how she can get him to notice her without being too obvious that she likes him at the begining but she eventualy wants to show him that she does.. but first she wants to talk to him and have him get to know her.

please help!

well, if the two of them are friends already, then half the work is done. juss have her invite him along to do stuff as friends with friends. or juss tell her to hang out with him a bit more and get to know him. liek with the guy i like, i invited him to go to a choir concert and soon to a carnival. juss have her find fun things that they can enjoy together, like a carnival or a party.
but if they dont talk yet...juss tell her to start talking about somthing that she knows he's into while he is within hearing distance. its what i did to snag my ex. i was hanging out with my friends and we all watched wrestling, and so did he, so i saw he was close, and juss went "Hey Karina, did you see RAW last night?" and he was like "You watch wrestling?" and the ice was broken.
basically find common ground the guy. good luck with your friend. and i hope she gets the guy. and i also hope i could help.

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Ok, I have this friend who isn't really nice. Whenever I invite her over she makes my room messy like she is Godzilla or something. Well whenever she invites me to come over she may invite one other person and then I am invisible the rest of the time that other friend of hers is over and she yells at me for nothing blames me on stuff to my parents even though she did whatever and everything is all about her. She is so selfish. What should I do?

if i was you, i would ditch her...she is obviously using you ofr her own sick humor! dont put yourself in that position.

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I have a friend who is kinda in movies and t.v. shows, what gift should I send her.

i would send her something handmade. something that money couldnt buy anywhere! maybe some handmade candles...or a shirt u make urself...or even a cute college of pictures of the two of you. something original. hope i helped!

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Well I broke up with my ex because I thought He didnt love me anymore and now I really want him back but when i ask him about us its always I dont know but he did tell me he still loves me, he thought i broke up with him for someone else so when he tells me he doesnt know is he hurt by us being over or does he not want me anymore? help plz!!

well, from my experience, if he still talks to you maybe is willing to forgive and forget. you need to ask him if the two of you being apart hurts him as much as it hurts you. if so, then maybe you guyz should give it another shot...
hope i helped
Juelz

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my cat snores....is that normal??!?! lol
(btw she has asthma)

well, my kitty (Stella Jean) snores...and my pug (Majic Marvin...lol) snores to, and so does my stepdad...snoring is normal in animals as long as she doesnt start doing other things like you were talking about...as long as it is just a snore, yopur cat should be fine.

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Ok, my boyfriend and i just broke up .. and the thing is, I still love him to death but i have this "thing" for this other guy that i've been talking to.. I'm a freshman and the other guy is a senior .. He likes me or so he says and he's not that type of guy that wants "action" .. he's stilla virgin.. but .. what should I do? I can I handle this?

well, im not really an expert, but if you and your "bf" broke up, there was a good reason right? even if you do still adore him (going through the same thing) you still need to get out there and date other guyz. i think i went out with 3 different guyz and adored like 4 others since we broke up, but none of them could compare to him. thats how you know its really love, no matter who your with, you think of him. just try to widen your horizens, date other guyz and see how you feel. i hope you get through this and feel free to ask me personally in my column. i would love to try and help you more. :)

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i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :(

i know what your going through. i went through the same thign with Ex-Flame John. we went out for 4 months, but never even tried, and we really liked each other. i guess we were both scared. but, you could do it one of 4 ways...the romantic way, or the old fashioned way, the quick and painless way, or the long boring way.

romantic way: ask him "is there anythign you have ever wanted to do but never erally could get up the nerve to do." and when he agrees, kiss him and when hes says yeah (which he should) be like, "well this is mine" and juss do it!!!

Old-Fashioned Way: tell him that you want to kiss hiim but are afraid to make the first move...then he should be so flattered that he will kiss you!!! he should be so flattered that you want ot kiss him and maybe he was scared cuz he didnt know if you wanted it or not, and didnt want ot push you too far.

Quick & Painless: JUSS DO IT!!!!!! juss close your eyes, pucker up, adn move in.

Long & Boring: wait for him.

the choice is yours, but i hope that i was of help!!!

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