okay... so im 13 and my boyfriend just turned 14 he want to do setain thing that im afraid if i do i will get pregnant but the thing is i havent started my period so do think i will get pregant if i havent started my period.
How long have you been dating him; how do you know he really loves you? Regardless you at least want a solid relationship even if you don't plan on being together for life to spend your first time with. You are too young right now; trust me a guy i thought was the sh** at 13 is really sh** now so wait until you can see things in a better light and be with a more stable down to earth guy you want to give it to a man when you're a woman not a boy when you still have so far to go. When it is time than you'll really enjoy it. Having sex this early can get your name in the streets don't let anyone take advantage of you .
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I am not indpendent at all, and I get embarrased over the smallest things. Even if its just walking to togos to order a sandwich I get embarassed unless I'm with my friends. I get embarrassed ordering food from restaurants and paying for clothes and i feel i'm not independent but i need to learn to be. I really have no friends at school (there all really mean to me and are obnoxious to be around with) what are some ways to help with that with the embarrassment and independence problem; i keep reminding myself you''ll never see these people again, but it bugs me SOrry if its in the wrong category.
I am very shy and still haven't completely got over it but you have to take initiative at least give it a try try to be by yourself a little more often and do the things that you desire while you are alone such as ordering food and etc. Just keep telling yourself that you'll never have to see those people again I did I graduated got my diploma and went to an out of state school and now realize i might as well have done what i needed to do because those people aren't here to hurt or hinder me now. You are just as good as any one else and don't subject your self to insults and unhealthy relationshios to those who hurt you you don't have to be rude but only if you feel that you can pull away from them in the most discreet way. Try to stand up for yourself without hurting other people because you will always regret it. Take Initiative! Just do it! You might as well like I said earlier in 3 years this'll be all over and all you'll have is memories you'll want to look back and remeber the times you handled what needed to be handled to make you happy and mentally and emotionally healthy so do it!
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Mostly like clothing.. shoes.. anything of that sort with fashion. I'm a 13 year old girl so I like to be trendy, and Im going shopping soon. and yeah I do get stuff just because I like them, so dont tell me to just be original and stuff.. because thats not what Im asking for.
That and any other things that are in style... thanksss! :]
For 13 maybe some tight jeans some tight little sweater shirts boots with managable heels any type of cute shoes with heels that you can walk in and anything cute and reasonable. For extra help look at some pictures of J.Lo and Beyonce' for inspiration
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My best guy friend who hangs out with me everyday has been blowing me off this past week. Usually he calls everynight and we hang out everyday. Now he's blowing me off. I duno what I did, nothing actually, he's just not talking to me or anything.
I don't know what to do he's the only one I can talk to that cares and I already talked to him about why he's blowing me off. He said he thought I was busy hanging with other ppl. Yeah, wtf, I've been hanging out with him everyday the past month, was I busy any of those times? Nope.
I just feel hurt & really confused. Should I do the same thing to him and just start ignoring him and losing contact and such? Or should I act like everything's okay? it's honestly killing me, I feel like I have no one to talk to and no one cares. Please, please help me.
If you aske him about it and he says it is nothing then accept that you have no other choice at least until he does something to really let you know that he is pissed off. Try to be the same person you were and not act out because of the situation it could be that he felt neglected if he said you were busy hanging out with other people. I f you know that is not the case than maybe he is just a spellish. I had a guy friend in high school i loved him to death but every now and then he would not be talkitive for about a week and he took theses phases almost every two months like he had pms or something but i just had to understand that that was his way and i accepted and respected that and each and every time his phases ended everything was as good as new. So basically just feel your friend out and try to give him some understanding and at least a little room to breathe. If you are a true friend to him everything should work out if not he was just one of those fake friends to begin with and you are better off without those.
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Ok I am 17 and I am a really hardworker in school and usually at whatever I do, I try to do my best and work hard. Well I guess since the summer I have put in 15 applications to different places and I gotten like 2 interviews and nothing else after that. I need help. How can I make the managers want to hire me and how can I show them that even though I do not have any work experience that I can still do a really good job?
also try anywhere where it says now hiring especially fast food restauraunts because they are most likely to hire on a regular places and call around or do whatever you have to do to make sure that you speak directly to the manager even when asking for and turning in your application. Always ask to speak with the general manager and ask questions so you know what to expect because other workers don't know exactly what is going on and don't care.
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okay whenever i takl to this one kid i always think about doing stuff with him. like having sex any everything. what does that mean
It just mean you are sexually attracted to him you lust him somewhat but that doesn't necesarrily mean that you have to yearn for a relationship with him lusting is natural we do it to stars and people we don't know all the time andthere is no room for a definite relationship there.
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me and my b have been going out for awhile but now i dont really like him that much, i sorta lke some else ): i was thinksing of saying " i dont think we should go out anymore" but that seems a little cliche. anyone have any suggestions?
Tell him how you really feel and if you feel that is really harsh then tell him the cliche' line because you may think you are going to hurt him by telling him a simple break up line but not nearly as much as you are going to hurt him if you keep leading him on while he is getting closer to you for you to just pull the rug from under his feet without him seeing it coming.
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