Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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over the past few months I have started cutting myself, and having suicidal thoughts. Im going through some problems and this is the only way I have of dealing wiv them. I made an appointment to see a counsellor but couldn't bring myself to see them. Im not really sure what Im asking, just general advice. (link)
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you know what? i have the same exact problem. and i've been seeing a counselor for it, but she's usually just made me feel bad for it or make me look stupid or really pathetic. i've been having suicidal thoughts since i was in seventh grade. the only way i've been keeping myself from cutting is to put myself in another person's position. like, my best friend for instance. she just got into a hee-UGE car wreck. and it could have some serious personal damage. just keep telling yourself that its not as bad as it could be. look up. if you see a roof above you, then you're sheltered. if you have 3 meals a day, you have plenty of food. if you have a bed to sleep in, then you're comforted. some people dont have any of that and they are doing just fine.
take care. :)
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I am pretty sure I have OCD. I have a high amount of the symptoms of OCD. This is not a problem for me. I have a very mild condition, and often simply perform miscellaneous acts, like closing doors on my way down halls, subconsciously straightening books, desks, etc. I have not been officially diagnosed with OCD, though. The problem is, I get great anxiety on whether I have OCD or not. I stress constantly, and check every day to check symptoms, compare my symptoms with other anxiety disorders, and so on. I often get like this, checking over and over again for things like making sure my alarm clock is set, and check maybe 5 times a night. I can deal with this myself, but having to check to see if I actually have something wrong with me? (link)
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well, maybe you're worrying about it so much that its causing you to worry, just keep in mind: this is no big deal. it just means you're gonna be really tidy and stuff. who cares if you have OCD?? you shouldnt. i have ADD and i'm not worried. all my friends know that they should be patient if i wonder off and what-not. just let your friends know that your always gonna be straightening their books and stuff. again, OCD is no big deal.
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I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ!!!
okay so my whole "problem" started in september when my friend gave this fine guy my number his name is edwin rodriguez he called me that night and we talked the whole weekend. then on sunday he asked me out i said yes. He did tell me that him and this other girl just broke up but he said they only went out for 2 weeks and he felt nothonig for her. well the a week and a half while we're going out he told me they kissed. he cheated on me. the first time that ever happened to me. but since he told me i didnt break up with him. but at the end of the week we broke up. because he still had feelings for her. but over the weekend we were still talking. and he asked me back out sunday. but then monday i broke up with him because i knew deep down he still had feelings for her. well we were still casually talking to each other he still walked me to my classes and stuff. well then i went to the homecoming dance. and i must say i looked pretty good. =] laugh out loud. but anyways he was there and yeah he did try to talk to me before he did cindy (that girl he still has feelings for) but i blew him off. just to show him. but thats when he went running to cindy. i was PISSED. so i was all over this other guy. but at the end of the night they were together. crap. well about 2 weeks past and they were stil together. and then they broke up and he I.M.ed me on myspace. saying yeah you were fine as hell at the dance and all this stuff. and he was like DONT TELL CINDY. i didnt. we talked on the phone that night too. I remembered why i fell for him to start with. But i was talking to my ex korrie. like we was gonna get back together. he is a really GREAT guy i should of stuck with him. But i didnt. that weekend i went to the "movies" and got picked up from there by edwin and his friend dra and ingrid was driving. we went to the top of the city. it was all perfect. we cuddled and kissed the whole time he told me he loved me he said all of the sweetest things to me. i believed it. so then were on the ground looking at the stars holding each other. =]. well we were SO close to having sex but i had a promise ring that i wouldnt have sex till marriage. a promise to God a promise to my mom a promise to everyone. and he said i'll wait for you. i wish i could have froze time then because after this all hell broke loose. well i got back to the movies right on time. but i snuck out later that night 3:00 in the morning. once again we were all snuggled up. but this time i gave it up. =[
it wasnt worth it. i wish i could take it back but i can't. we stuck it in about 5 times and then he stopped. he said he didnt feel right. he took off the condom and got up. he said oh my gosh babe i took your virginity. he was pretty much flipping out.it was his first time too. so at first at school we kept it on the dl and i had to btell korrie we couldnt see each other. i told my closest friends what happened but i told the wrong person and every1 in school knew. i guess it was a really big deal because it was me. no one would ever think me. but yeah. so we went out for a week and a half. and he told me he STILL had feeelings for her. i broke down. i gave him my virginity something i can't give anyone else i thought we were really gonna be together. my mom found out to i hurt her so much she wouldnt let me talk to him or anything! she was almost about to switch schools. but she didnt. well we broke up. thats when i relized that was the biggest mistake of my life. he is going out with her now. again. on her myspace is all this stuff with him and her kissing and she said they're in love. it hurts so bad. i dont know what to do. do i let him go. or keep holding on. please someone help me (link)
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wow. uh, ok this is the best i can come up with. if hes gonna take your virginity and then dump you to go out with this cindy chick, well i'd say let him go. but i've been in your position....sort of. i was going out with this guy and i was going to give it all away to him, but he broke it off before i could. everyone is telling me to let go but i'm not giving up yet. and you shouldnt either. you obviously love him. first love never dies. and by the way it sounds, he sounds like hes doing a pattern...and hes eventually going to ask for you back. what i would do when that happens is to tell him to choose: you or cindy. and if he chooses cindy, thats when you let him go. but that's just me. you don't have to do it, but i'm just giving you my opinion. take care. :)
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ok so like every day at school i am really hot and i sweat a lot. i either have to wear jackets to hide the underarm stains or wear a sleeveless shirt every day. if i dont wear a sleeveless shirt and i start sweating, i have to throw on a hoodie and try to deal with being burning hot! sometimes even when im not that hot i sweat really bad. i have tried a bunch of different deodorants and nothing seems to help. sometimes when i dont eat for awhile my blood sugar gets all screwed up or whatever and i get super hot, but i do eat enough! i eat healthy stuff and drink a lot of water. i went to the doctor awhile ago, and they said everything looks fine. they took blood and everything and said im totally fine. i have to go the bathroom a lot just to try to dry it! it is so annoying and i feel so self conscious all the time! help!?! thanks. im 16 by the way. (link)
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ok im 15 but when i was in middle school, i used to have the same exact problem. i tried every deo possible. but nothing ever helped. and then my mom got me this anipersperant called Certain Dri. she got it at walmart and you have to put it on every night before you go to bed. it worked so well for me!! see, i put it on every night and when i wake up the next morning, i just put on my regular deodorant and it works well throughout the day.
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