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Q: I'm 14/f

I've wanted to get into modeling for a while now and quie a few people have said i should. My mom dosn't want me to because she said it would be to hard on me. I think eventually i could convince her. I really think i could take it. Whats it like starting out? Does anyone know how to get started?

A good thing to do is get some professional pics done to build up a portfolio.
I know you hate to here this but your mom is KINDA right. Its going to be hard on you. Its WORK! WORK! WORK! critizism at its fullest. People will put you down if its not exactly right. I think you should wait. If your pretty now, you will definately be pretty then.
Education is key. If modeling isnt what you like you will always have your brains to fall back on.

Q: Even though I have set parameters on my filesharing program (Ares Ultra) to state that I have unlimited download speed and upload speed is limited to...well, I've tried different settings from unlimited to quite low and it makes no difference: my downloads are always at a slow speed, but the uploads are always fast as lightning! Help! (Right now I've limited the upload bandwidth to 9.9 but I've seen ridiculous speeds like 35!)

Ur upload speed really doesnt depend on you. It all depends on your type of internet. DSL, Cable, Wireless Dial-up etc...

Q: I have to do a Lupus Walk a thon for my grad. project, and i need help on how to get one started and how to run it, i want to do a good job, so if anyone knows please help ASAP!!!!!

Thanks So Much!!!!!!!!!!!!

well first, you have to get some people to agree to do the walk.
next set the distance, time, and date for the walk.maybe 2 to 5 miles.
Are you raising money?
Ask the people who are walkin to get people to donate how much they can for every half mile or mile they walk.
Advertise. Put it in the your local paper, tell your friends, and neighbors.
And if you are raising money, and people dont want to walk just see if they want to donate to the cause.

Q: Ok, this is a pretty stupid question, but if i ask any of my friends or anything, i will be a total loser! haha!! Ok, there is this guy at my school and being funny or as a joke, this is what he says "you crazy cracker" wtf is a cracker?? i know its something you eat, lol! but i know it has so different meaning to it. and, oh yea, what does "panzee" (sp?) mean?? sorry this is so stupid, but i would like to know. hehe!!!! thanks people! bye!!

lol!
Cracker is actually a racial slur. It means "white". you know a crack is Basically white.

Panzee, thas more like the word "punk". Or weak.

Q: 16, FEMALE =)

alright so my good friend nick is turning 15 in like..2 weeks? or so maybe earlier haha but he has a girlfriend and i like him. he doesnt know i do though. anyways i told him i would get him something from like "sex world" or a "fantasy" place you know something joking around but i dont think i can since im not 18 and i dont wanna ask anyone else to get it for me. so is there any good ideas or gifts i could get him..maybe something funny and then something he would actually like!? but not too much just some little things because i mean his girlfriend and family and everyone will get him big stuff and i dont want to get him something that will say "i like you" but something that will say i care about you if you know what i mean. dont say cologne or anything i think he has enough of that..nothing too pratical or something his girlfriend might give him but im thinking between $15-20? somewhere around there!! i just dont know i dont want it to be stupid and have him open it and be like what is this? and have me be embarassed! but i have to get him something, hes a good friend we call each other "Best friend" but i like him too :) but nobody knows that..yeah confusing! but if you could help figure out what i could get him it would help me sooo much!! and i already asked him and he said I DONT KNOW? like all guys say haha
well THANKS

I think you should tell him you like him.Chances are, He might like you too. If you dont tell him, annd too much time passes and he doesnt like you, it will be like you wasted your time. Or your feelings could end up getting hurt in the end. NOW with the gift, I dont know about that. You should at least try to go into the store and try to get it yourself if you dont want any1 else to. Or do like i did my friend. I bought him a box of condoms with a letter that said "USE WITH CARE!!" on the top. You can put any little funny saying across the top. thats cheap and simple.

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