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hey.. i have a VERRRY bad situation. My mom and dad are getting a divorce and i dont know what to do! Is it my fault? What can i do (if possible) to get them back together? i love my mom and my dad but when they yell and scream its hard for me to love either one of them.... plz plz plz help!! Everytime i think about it it makes me cry!! (link)
It's not your fault, it's never your fault. Whatever they are going through, it is there problem. As sad as it is, you can't get them together. If it is there problem (which it is) only they can fix it. When they are yelling and fighting with eachother, it probably creates a miserable mood around the house. So when they are apart, it will be better for everyone. It's probably hard to see that right now, but my friends have parents who are divorced, and they say when their parents are apart, they get along much better.


Hi in my opinion i look nice the way i am...but the thing is that my arm has like a flub there and i just want to get rid of it. what can i do to get rid of the flub? any exercises for my arms? it's on my upper arm and it's just disgusting! please help! (link)
Lift weights. Go to a gym and lift weights, it's very simple. Go to your local gym and ask someone who works there how much weight to put on the barbell. Sure, you'll be feeling it the next morning, but, no pain no gin, right? Do this regularly, even though it may be hard. I promise, you'll be happy with the results.


well im 14 n catholic. tomorrow is the feast of pentecost and the color for the feast is red. therefore, a lot of people wear red clothing. well i have this scrunchie type dress with a frilly type mini skirt thats bright red. would it be ok to wear to this? its spaghetti straps too so i would wear a black? jacket over it. should i wear thie black and red or go with something more springy? thanks a lot! (link)
I am catholic too, and I can tell you this. DO NOT WERE ANYTHING THAT HAS THE WORD "MINI" IN IT!!!You are going to the house of God, and that would attract too much attention. Don't worry about wearing red, that's not very important. Just wear something appropriate, like a nice spring skirt with a top, and maybe a nice pair of sandals. Heels are not so bad, but don't wear anything mini, it's just not appropriate.


ok well i really like a friend of mine and today i told him i did ( online, because i didn't see him today ) and he didn't really respond .. all he said was " i heard you did from a friend " and then a few seconds later he told me he had to go eat dinner and signed off .. what does this mean ? how can i take care of feeling awkward around him ? what do i say ? thanks (link)
Don't feel akward around him. If it seemes like he didn't care, you shouldn't either. Talk to him about it, maybe it just came as a surprise to him, and he was shocked, and didn't know what to say. Guys are like that, they make mistakes and they don't really know it. Don't feel nervous around him, it would only make things worse.




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