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Well, awhile ago I offered to take this kid that used to go to our school to our dance so he could see he former classmates. I didn't mean it as a "date" type thing, but that's the way he took it. And now I don't really want to take him because I feel like I'll be leading him on if I do. :/ But there's more! I was single at the time, but (still am now) I'm really into this kid, and I really wanted to bring him to our dance. I'm really confused and frustrated! What should I do/ tell one of them?! Please and thank you!!

Hi! i know this can be tough. and i .hope. i can help. well i know that you dont want to hurt the kid's feelings or anything. but tell him that you're just not into him that way. i know that you're afraid that he might be hurt, and chances are he will be for a little bit but shake it off. im sure he will find someone else. Dont be afraid to be nice! people interpert things differently. so, my adivce is that you tell him that you are thinking of going to the dance with someone else, but tell him if you .arent. going with anyone else, that you will go with him. But hey, he'll never know that you like someone else!

_Kadi_

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me n my bf have been going out for 7 months but EVERYONE likes him. he is in a grade above me and all the girls like him there. they always look at him and try to be all over him. theres this one who he hangs out with alot and she lives in his neighborhood. they get wicked pissed at eachother alot, but he says they r like "brother and sister". ik its dumb, but i always get paranoid he likes them instead of me or will dump them for me. help if u can, thanks.

Hi! i know that can be paranoing. but the thing you should do is, make them know your his girl! talk to her and ask if she likes him. i know it may not be easy, but if you really .love. your boyfriend, you should do it. start introducing yourself when you're with him. if people talk to him.. girls especially. well i hope i have made some help!

_Kadi_

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