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Every girl wants prince charming... and while he may be nice and all..i want guy who will come up from behind & put his arms around me..and whisper in my ear that he loves me... & he lays awake at night, just thinking about me... a guy who will call at like 3 a.m. just to tell me how much he misses me... he'd come over just after we get off the phone because he wants to know how i'm really doing because i said i was fine but we both know i was lying.. he'd kiss me on my forehead & tell me everythings gonna be alright..he may not be prince charming to anyone else but in my eyes.. he'd fit the part!!
x0x- Chloe =]
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Hey ChlOe*...Ok I have a prOblem with mah lOve life!haha!Ok I brOke up with my bOifriend Of abOut 5 mOnths because he didnt deserve me since I had cheated On him!ugh i knO .. bad!Then I decided tO gO Out with One Of his best friends whOm I cheated On my ex-bOifriend with!Newayz nOw I knO he likes me alOt but I really dOnt feel rite with him!But I talked tO this guy saturday nite after he had left and he was mOre mah type and I felt mOre cOmfOrtable with him than I did with my bOifriend!nOw this guy tried tO kiss me becuz he thOught I was cute and all but I didnt let him since I still went Out with my bOifriend!But I dOnt think he really likes me!?!sO Im gunna find Out if he dOes this weekend!sO if he dOes...dO I break up with my bOifriend and talk tO the guy I like mOre and then gO Out with the guy that I feel rite with Or wait and stay with my bOifriend and just fOrget abOut the Other guy!But if the Other guy dOesnt like me shOuld I still stay with him Or just end it sO he wOnt get hurt!HELP MEEH!I lOve yOu gurl!MuAh!xOxOx!
*gUmMiBeArZ*
ok well chicky! You are just messed up! haha umm if you dont feel right with ur boyfriend then you cant keep lying to him about it. But I know how you feel about not being comfortable with your boyfriend. Been there done that. But you should find out if that other guy really likes you or what. If he does and you want to have a chance with him then go for it. Just dont cheat again. haha. Just go with what your heart tells you. And to let you know I'll love you no matter what decision you make! I LOVE YOU! x0x-Chloe
hey chloe,
there is this guy that i really like. we went out for awhile and broke up because i thought he was cheatin on me (still dont though). i still strong feelings for him but all my friends say he is a fag. WHAT DO I DO!!!! HELP!!
*~tower~*
HEY BABAY. If you like him thats all that matters. I will love you no matter what decision you make. And if you like him do for it. And you know I love you sweetie pie. x0x-Chloe
i love someone and he used to like me, but now he doesnt love me..he told me to "forget him" and i dont know what to do, any help? i cant cope..and also a good friend of mine passed away last night, i dont know what t odo im having major difficulties..
*rip-sb* < we luv u
Umm ... do you believe in Jesus? Well if you do talk to your church leader etc. Pray. You can get through it. x0x-I LOVE YOU things will get better if you need to talk more IM me.
My mom is giving me the option to leave or stay at this horribly difficult college prep highschool! It looks good for college and is highly classy, but it lacks freedom and is really hard for me! What should I choose? Got public or stay in this private shcool?
Ok well..If you feel like you would benefit more from being in a public school then do that. But you have to keep whats best for your future.Whatever you feel is right for you is what you should do. x0x-Chloe
hey gurlie! well ok i go with this guy lets call him ummmm TJ ok well hes os0o fine and i love him way tooooo muchto ever let him go or anythang and i never wanna break up but i think he might want to and im scared b/c i have no clue what im going to do if he does break up wiht me but like when he went wiht lets call her A when he went with A he didnt flirt wiht other people or anythang and now that he goes wiht me he flirts with everybody and what if he like finds someone eles like and stuff and like he tells people im not worth it to fight over or whatever and stuff so i dunno what to do and now im scared hes ganna brake up with me because he gets mad at me for like not giving hima hug and stuff so i dunno and plus we hardly talk during the week but thats ok b/c im just glad i have him! because hes all i ever wanted and stuff and now im jut wondering why me why doe she like me or if he likes me does he just want a g/f and but hwy me i dont get it im really conffuesed bu ti neverwanna break up wiht him b/c hes wondeful but liek he sorta needs help on his g/f skills b/c like he wanted to make out or kiss and he didnt belive i would do it ya know but i dunno i jus think hes goign out wiht me for somethign but idunno what b/c i alwayz think to myslef hy is he goignout iwht me when he asked me out i didnt htink it was him b/c i mean lord its a dream come ture!!! well i hope you can help me b/c i need it really bad!! thanks so much i love you gurl im glad tyour here to help me i love you -i love my boyfriend way to much to let him go!?!!***:( help me please!
hmm ok girl. You need to get some more self confidence. If he is going out he hphhat to like you atleast a little unless he is being a complete @$$hole to you. Dont worry about him breaking up with you until it hapens. You know yall are gunna break up sometime but make the best of the time yall have together now. Dont fill the times you could be happy with bad thoughts. Make the most of what you have because you never know it might be gone soon. I hope I helped. if you need anymore help IM me! I love you too! and you are great friend! x0x!
what should i do if my gf breaks up with me
umm. if you still like her tell her how you feel. and if she doesnt feel the same dont give up. But if she tells you to just move on then you should. If you dont really care then move on..you really didnt give me enough info haha but ok x0x
Hey Chloe ... this mite be long but newayz...ok well i go out with this dude...letz call him .:L:. ok? ok!lol!And I like him so much but he isnt a good boifriend at all. He will go and flirt with other girls liek when im watchin him and then he says I dont hang out with his "people" and then when I do he doesnt hang out with me!OMG he wont even make-out with me!lol!but neways now this dude who is like his best friend likes me... lets call him .:T:. and he said that all this sweet stuff to me and eerything and he says he loves me but he is mixed and i would get kicked out of my house if i went out with him and stuff!He is so sweet and probably is a waaayyy better boifriend!But newayz my family isnt racist or nethang ... they just think that i should stick to my own race but i dont think that!I mean im probably aint gunna even get married to him or nethang!So what should I do?!?Should i go out with .:T:. or stay with .:L:. and see if he will become a better boifriend or just wait till .:T:. stops liking me or wait till .:L:. breaks up with me!?!Im so0o0o F'N confused gurl!
SiGnEd->> *COnFuSeD LOvE*
Umm ... ok well maybe you should talk to .:L:. Im sure .:T:. is really sweet and means that and stuff. but if you dont like him then you shouldnt go out with him. It all depends on who you like. If you like .:L:. then stay with him. but if you like .:T:. more than .:L:. then give him a chance. Go with your heart I cant tell you what to do. If you follow ur heart everything will fall into place. x0x-Chloe
Hey, I was wondering do u like/know meghan o'conner? She is trying to be my friends and i herd she went to your old skool... is she a good persoon to hang out with?
I know her. But like I dont really KNOW her so IDK what to tell you. Just do what you want to. If she seems nice then go for it. Good Luck.
x0x-Chloe
I like this gurl but she almost ignores me when i try to talk to her. Ive done just about everything other than actually coming out and telling her that i like her but we've gone out before and she broke up with me and i she said that she made a mistake afterwards but now she acts as if im not there. I really really like her. Ive done everything ive told her friends that i like her and when she asks me who i like i would die to tell her but for some reason i cant. Ive described this girl to her and even used things shes said in the last sentence. i really think she knows but she is either messing with me or something im not sure what to do. I need your help
Tell her how you feel. Girls dont want to assume they want you to tell them how you feel. And just think if she was gone or you were gone and you didnt get to tell her. Im sure you would feel horrible. just tell her and tell me how it girls. plus girls do like to mess with ur head alittle...sorry to tell yoU! Good Luck x0x-Chloe
Hey Chloe this is YA BOY DESMOND!!!! c my cuz has been in a whole bunch of trouble. i let him know i got his back but he just keeps actin bad now my aunts and uncles r tellin him he better watch it and yet he acts like he don't care i try to straighten him but it doesn't seem to work. what should i do?
Just tell him if he doesnt straighten up then he is going to end up in way more trouble than he can get out of. And if he still doesnt care there is nothing else you can do. Some people they act that way because they seem like their life doesnt matter. or some people are just hard-headed. Adn really you cant make him care. If he doesnt care its his problem. But just try to stay with him through it all and let him know you're there. I LOVE YA DESMOND! x0x-Chloe
um hey i love this girl and asked her out because we've gone out already like twice but when i asked her out i was so caughtup that i forgot about my girl that i go wit now it started as a joke but she said she my gurl but i asked the girl i love out because well duh i love her so how do i tell the girl that i am goin wit now that we like..........gotta break up? and valentines day is comin up so i really think i'm screwed
Well.. maybe you should just break it off with that other girl. Because you cant just keep leading her on and let her think you love her. You have to tell her how you feel. And you have like 12 days. I broke up with this guy like 2 or 3 days before Christmas. But you gotta do what you gotta do. Do want you want to and Do what your heart tells you to do. And I promise it'll all turn out GREAT! Good Luck. If you need anything else IM me! x0x-Chloe
hi well ok i like this guy like a whole lot but i dk whut to do b/c my friend likes him too and he said when he ask my other friend out if she says no then hell ask me out but i want to go with him so bad it dosnt make any sense and i have been wanting to go with him forever but he dk how i feel and if my frieend says no should i say yes even though my other friend likes him or what i mean i cant help the way i feel and everytime i talk to him or see him the feel gets bigger and bigger but i m so confuesd whut should i do
-i need help more than ever
hmm...I just dont know what to do. I know you really need my help. Well tell her how you feel. She is your friend she should want whats best for you. If you really like him you cant help that. And as for your other friend he asked out tell her how you feel also. That doesnt mean she will say no but she might keep in mind your feelings. I hope I helped a little bit. Just go with your heart. And if your friend that likes him gets mad at you. She shouldnt stop being friends with you over a guy. Good Luck! sorry I wasnt much help!
x0x-Chloe
Im going out wtih joey as you no ... and i just dont know what to do.. i love him and there saying hes gonna die.. omg i really dont know what id do if im without that guy.. even tho he did... ya no... right now i dotn care i just want him to be ok... what do i do before i do something stupid....???? I want Joey back.... right now i just really dont konw what to say... im shocked that a great guy like that would do something ike that to himself... omg i love him and i want him to be ok and go back home so i can talk to him... what do i do?
Xooo:Chelsey
he is back home. And on Bens profile it says he is going out with Paige again! Girl I really dont know what to tell you. Talk to jessica ... find comfort in friends and try to stay off the subject! I love yah and I hope you'll be ok! Good Luck x0x-Chloe
i think that i am pregnant but i don't know! I don't wanna buy a pregnancy test cause i am only 15! I don't wanna go to the doctor because they may tell my parents! If i am pregnant should i abort my baby or just live with it? Please help i am soooo scared!
Ok well...if you go to the doctor they dont have a right to tell your parents I dont think. And that shouldnt be the only thing u should be worried about. Was the guy already sexually active...If he was you can have a STD. (We watched a movie on abstinance today in TeenLiving) But if you LOVE this child enough you will have it and put it up for adopition. because how would you feel if you werent here and you were killed for your mothers mistake. You wouldnt like it. But also your body might not be able to carry the baby so you might not even be able to have it. But please go get tested. Nothing will happen unless you do! Good Luck
x0x//Chloe
I really like this gurl and her name shall be "jordan". well "jordan" went out with me and broke up with me then said she had the wrong idea and wanted to go back out with me. I like this different gurl a lot and she likes me. i still like "jordan" but i dont know if she will stay with me or break back up with me. what should i do?
well it depends on who you like more. and what your heart tells you to do. Just do what u feel is right! And I promise you will never go wrong! Good Luck
x0x-Chloe
hey chloe!
umm i don't know where to start but like okay my boyfriend (lets say his name is jay) is REALLY flirty and i'm okay with that and then like this girl that goes skating(lets say her name is robin)and you know her well at the movies the other night she was like all over him and she flirts with him rite in FRONT OF MY FACE and it really hurts my feelings! and i dont want to say anything because then she would think i was greedy and i don't want to be greedy! but bottom line is that i hate she flirts with him like that! what should i do?
hey girl! well if you dont want to talk to HER about it then talk to your boyfriend. OR get someone else to talk about it. Im sorry this is happening. But if this guy really loved you he would listen to what you have to say. And I dont think you would want to break up with him without talking to him about it! I have done that before and it could have ended up better so yeah just talk to him. He wont know unless you say sumthing! Good Luck
x0x-Chloe
well....on the fone this gurl(lets say Samantha)who was sitting next to a gurl who likes me (and lets say Molly) and she kept asking me who i liked and if i like "molly" well i didnt really like but when they asked who i liked i told them this gurl (lets say Lauren) Samantha tried to be quiet but i could hear her and she said " dont worry she's not pretty at all dont worry about it" And to tell you truth samantha and molly arent really that pretty themselves. But the ? is what should i do? should i shy away from the 2 gurls or try to keep being friends with them? I dont wanna be friends with them if they are just going to dis the people im friends with.
Depends on how good of freinds you and these too girls are! And is this something to end ur friendship over. Sometimes you'll know when its time to end a friendship. OR you should just tell them that what they are saying and doing is hurting or gettin on ur nerves. Just let them know. And follow what you want to do! Good Luck
x0x-Chloe
hey chloe! well, i have this friend, and she's been going out with this guy that went to southside (we'll call him Tim). well, Tim's dad is really abusive and stuff to him, and he had enough of his dad beating him for no reason, so he ran away and hitch hiked all the way to Kentucky, and he's never going back home, and he's always drunk and all this stuff, and he called my friend the other night and told her that he had another girlfriend and started cussing her out for no reason b/c he was so drunk. now she's just really mad about it, and i don't know what to say to her b/c i don't know what it's like to have someone leave you like that and say stuff like that to me. what should i do?!
The only thing you can do is just be there for her! And help her if she needs your help. Cuz thats what friends are for. And she really needs to forget about him if he does that to her. Which it really sounds like she doesnt deserve it. but I'm really sorry. but like I said just try to help her anyway she needs you!
x0x-Chloe
hey chloe this is bethany! i have a question ok tis whole gilbert thang is goin good but i mean i love him SO0O much! and he flirts A LOT! and i dont really feel confortable about it? what should i do? i kno i can talk to him about it but i dunno if he would still feel the same way about me! he could think i was bossy and stingy if i told him that i felt that way!tell me what cha think! luv ya!
Bethany
Well I know that he does flirt alot but some people are just flirtatious like that. But I know whne you are going out with someone like that its hard. But you have to tell him or else it will just get harder to handle. and if you just let it go it'll get worse. Just tell him or else it wont be brought to his attention! And Im sorry! I love ya gurl and when you need me Im here and you know that
x0x-Chloe
this is about the other ? and what is a good 8th grader?
Umm... Morgan Faulkner, Britany Williams, Kindra Young, and umm Hannah Nelson. There are alot. Just start hanging out with people and you will find some.
x0x-Chloe