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E-mail: sallysue902@hotmail.com
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I like this guy who likes me and lets just say...isn't the same color as me! I know that if we go out, ALOT of snap will be said. My other frands say if i really like him, it wont matter what color he is, its not like were getting married! But the people who i know would say stuf are already the ones ruining my life...So heres my question, Should i follow my heart or Let relationships stay inner-racial...lol...i love you...later gator

Scincerely,
-Confussed by Color (link)
ahhh.. WOW... well the thing is.. hes a HOOOOOTTTTT "other colored" guy! ;) i would sooo go for it! who cares what they say.. eventually they will get used to the act then there bull shit towards you isnt goign to change anything so they will give up and leave you a lone about it.. and thats my FINAL answer.. yeahya! :D love ya babe! and good luck!


hey i really like this girl but she doesnt really like me. I dont think she does at least. But i really hope she likes me .WHAT SHOLD I DO
Thanks,
codys bset short friend (link)
hehe!! hey hey hey!! (yeah i know who this is).. and yeah i think i kno who your tlakin bout too.. lol well you cant MAKE someone like you.. so either just be kool with the fact that she doesnt like you or actually talk to her about it.. i mean not like sit her down and be all serious.. just mess around with it.. like favorites is comin up, dance with her a lot if she seems to avoid you or w.e then MAYBE thats a sign to back off but if not then.. hey hey hey you gots yourself somethin! ;) lol anyways ill ttyl.. SWEEEET we live sooo close to eachother! CRAZZZZY! lol.. well ttyl! and goodluck.. oh yeah and if ya need anyting member im HERE!:)


ok sarabeth. there was formally a party my "best friend" was invited to and also the guy i "used to like until last night" and they made out bc HER date to the dance was making out with other girls. soo she made out with THE UGLY GUY I USED TO LIKE and she tells me without even caring about my feelings, and i ask her how many times and shes says4. and she said she didnt mean to. U DONT MEAN TO FREAKIN MAKE OUT WIHT UR BESTFRIENDS CRUSH 4 TIMES. ugh shes full of it. what do i do>? i already am going to talk to her mom, this is aload of crap. what do i doo? (link)
well.. i THINK i know who this is.. and i THINK i know who your talking about.. and yeah that is kinda bull shit buuuuuut.. first respond back and tell me if i was at that party too.. then i can give you some REAL advice cuz i saw this stuff first hand.. lol


Hey SBeth
good advise
lol but Iknow as a fact that those other girls dont have a chance w/him lol im so mean but i know he likes me! oh yea about the other guys i know one of them might like me and it would be somthing different to try out. I dont really think i have a type or anything but ity would be alot different i think from the other guys i have dated.
idk im bored
ttul
::*a lost person*:: (link)
lol well now you dont look like your having any doubt with going out with either of them.. but if you like your best friend but dont want to ruin anything then go for the other guy! trying new things is ALWAYS fun! ;) good luck babe!


Hey SBeth
What do you do if you like your best friend and they like you back? But your scared to go out w/them because yall r 2 good of friends and you would never want to hurt them if ur relationship ended. And ur scared now because youu might like other people and are worried you might hurt your best friends feelings(even tho i still like my best friend)
give me some great advise
(oh yea another reason why i wont date my best friend is that i have some other friends that like him)
that was confusing^
::*a lost person*:: :-) (link)
wow! you got a lot holdin you back from this one!.. well.. think of it this way, maybe this could be *the one* for a while.. i mean i know its liek yall are gonna get married or whatever but maybe you'll be together a while and nothting will happen and you'll jsut eventually go your seperate ways and you will still be great friends (yeah right it doesnt really work out that way, but hey! maybe it could this time!) lol.. and yeah wow about the liking other guys thing.. i know its hard to pick JUST ONE lol, but go for whoever you like most, dont settle for one jsut cuz you dont want to hurt them, if you go out with someone you dont even liek then really your just hurting yourself (if you think about it).. and if other girls like this *guy* then if you like him to you might wanna get to him before any of those other girls do! or else you will loose all chances!.. well i hope i helpe ya out a little, you were asking for a lot of advice in one question there! lol but good luck with *him* and let me know who this is so i can see how it all turns out! ;)


Hi Sbeth090..I clicked "Random Columnists" and it led me to you..But anyways..

I really need help..
One of my GOOD friends is seriously into the whole self-mutilation thing..I don't know if you have ever had a friend like that..But I'm really scared. She could seriously hurt Herself one day..And I really don't want to lose her. She's really fun to be around..She doesn't act like she's depressed..But She told me she was like that and I have seen scars and such on her..What should I do? I really care for her..I just don't know how to tell her that..And I want her to know that I'll ALWAYS be here for her..ALWAYS!!

..Andrew (link)
well.. maybe just make it obvious to her htat you will ALWAYS be there for her and maybe she will turn to you instead of hurting herself.. sounds like to me shes just goin through a rough time right now, and she doesnt know any other way to deal without and she thinks its the only thing she really has control over.. but just tell her that you are always there for her, and if it doesnt look liek its workin then find someone/anyone to talk to about it, cuz if you dont you could loose a friend :/ good luck with this!


Okay hummm well i really wanna go to teh dance with this one guy..and we are going and everything but i dont wanna go out with him just yet because i love soemone else still..but i was with him the other day and i asked me like outta know where and i guess i was soo hapy being with him that i said yes what do i do?

*Confused (link)
hmm.. well looks like its a little late to turn back now.. i guess just stay with him and try to get over the other person.. but if its just IMPOSSIBLE then talk to him about it and say "hey, i cant be with you right now, im still getting over someone else.. im sorry!" but yeah.. good luck! :/


what would you do if you knew a guy liked you,and you liked him back (link)
well.. thats kinda easy!.. GET TOGETHER! haha i think that was the stupidest question ive ever been asked! ;)


i called this person i like,and when they answered the phone i hung up,i did it like 2 0r 3 times,i guess i just got nervous when they answered,do u think they think i am wierd,and what should i do (link)
lol.. we all have those little moments where we get REALLY nervous and all we know to do is hang up.. lol but i think you should talk next time.. you had 3 times to work up to it so this time you should actually talk.. who knows.. it could go GREAT.. but one peice of advice, dont let there be ANY awkward silences! those SUCK!! good luck! ;)


Hi
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 and a half months now and he really wants me to have sex with him. I'm a virgin..and I'm really scared..Does it hurt?.. (link)
well fuck.. how am i suposed to know.. im a virgin too! DUH!.. but i mean do what you want, but i agree to stayin virgin till your old enough to take on emotions like that.. i really dont know how to hlp ya in that situation cuz ive never really been in anything liek that.. so yeah.. :/


Hi,
My boyfriend was acting weird and he wouldnt talk to me.I asked him if he was gonna break up with me and he said no.I found out that a girl asked him out.He said that he said no.And then the next day he broke up with me :( And now he is going out w/ my friend.He has been realy mean to me and my friend said she would talk to him about that.What do i do i really liked him.We went out for 3 months. (link)
well i call that a WASTE OF TIME!.. shit, if hes gonna go and, for one, lie to you and say he isnt going to break up with you and then, two, break up with you for your FRIEND then thats a load of bull shit!.. if he did that then he definately not worth it.. i know your probably like.. well i really liked him and im not going to get over him.. you will think that for a little while then someone else will come a long and you will regret everything you ever did with him.. beleive me! ;)


...Hi...I had sex with this guy...well...he gave me this weird rash down below. It's all white..and has a green discharge...iono whether to see a DR..or let it heal on its own. Please help me soon...it's like acid. All my pantys are ruined..:(...Thank you.
-anonymous ITCH from the South (link)
LLLLMMMFFFAAAOOOO! haha ill leave that one up to you hun! good luck! lmfao lmfao!


Okay well do you know that saying Its better to be with the one you love and not the one you just *like* but..i cann never have the one i love.. I like this one guy but im in love with another. I guess what i am saying is should i love the one i can never have or like the person i can have? I mean i dont wanna go one with my life waiting for this ~one~ person..which i would believe me...but i wanna have fun still and talk to otehr guys and stuff..what should i do? (link)
hmm.. dont waste your time waiting for one guy.. go have fun and find another guy you really like, and maybe one day the guy you "love" will change his mind about everything and decide he wants you like you want him! ive been in this position too but i just went for other guys and no i havent got the guy i wanted yet, but atleast im still having fun instead of stayig caught up in one guy i may never even get a chance with! lol so good luck!


ughhh sarabeth
i dont know how to please my man... its like every time i give him a hint hes like " eww fuck no" whats wrong with my sex?? am i that bad at it?? i never thought i was.. even with the pills to enlarge his penis it still didnt help adn the extra hormones pill dillys that we are taking..

Horny, non sexable,
* Me* (link)
SUCKS FOR YOU! lmao! i know who this is! and your right.. ill be sure to make a note to never come over to your house for sex EVER again.. lmao! love ya babeh!


I like a person alot,But I have a hard time talking to them,and it seems like they like me but I can't talk to that person,what do I do (link)
get some balls.. your never going to get anywhere if you cant talk to people! so yeah.. jsut talk to her/him and eeze your way in.. beleive me.. it'll work.. i mean hey! what do ya got to loose?! lol good luck! ;)


I like this person but somtimes i am scared to talk to her,what do i doshould i give her my # (link)
dont be scared.. i mean i know you will be scared but how will you ever know if she likes you back if you never take a risk or chance and ask her or talk to her about it.. i mean if i guy likes me i want him to tell me! cuz who knows, he might be the "man of my dreams!" lol so yeah sure! give her your number or invite her somewhere with you or something! good luck.. and if you dont mind IM me.. i like to know who the future couples might be! ;)


So you are tellin my that yall always act the same when yall are with guys and without them? BULL FUCKIN SHIT! I used to be good friends with Emily and Alexis and all of yall and trust me yall act TOTALLY differnt when guys are around. I never said yall wore too much make-up, but thanks for reminding me. Emily and Katie and Alexis yall can cut down on the cover up! I don't have to wear that much make-up to hide all my ugliness. Cause for 1 thing I could care less if I'm ugly which I know I'm not. And don't tell me I am cause you don't know who this is!!! I'm not jealous either. I hang out with the same people you do, and I like ALL of them besides yall 4 girls! Besides you little "group" ALMOST everyone else thinks yall are stuck up fake ass bitches. Which yall are and I don't give a shit how much you think yall arent! YALL ARE!!! So face it. I'm not jealous cause how could I be? Your nose reminds me of a pig.. Hahaha! Maybe if you acted REAL people would start liking you more!

I don't need advice from you. YOU need advice. (link)
fuck you.. im not gonna waste my time on your shit! maybe you should tell me who the fuck you are so we dont have to be gay asses about this and be pussy's and settle this on the comp!.. and if you dont like us then stay the fuck away from us!.. oh yeah and about the nose thing.. FUCK YOU! your prolly not gonna tell us who this is cuz you know if you do we would make your life hell! so bitch, stop talkin your shit or just stay the fuck away from us! (psshhh OR BOTH!)


i REALLY like this guy an he asked me to favorites but i dint know he had a girlfriend but that night he called me and he was all me n my girl friend broke up n i was really happy cause i was like HEY i might have a chance but he says he "doenst know who likes&qout; wel now im really pised and sad.... (link)
hmm.. could this somehow be about me and luke.. lol well even if its not i still didnt really understand the question.. are you saying that you and this guy were suposed to go to favs together even though he had a gf but then him and his gf broke up so he decided he didnt konw who he liked or who he wanted to go to favs with? well if thats that your asking then yeah just give him some time, a break up can be rough on a guy! lol but yeah give him some time to lighten up and get over it and then in about a week or so maybe he will "re-ask" you to favs! hehe ;) good luck!


sarabeth-
i need major help.. i like this guy alot alot alot alot alot alot alot alot and i just broke up with my boyfriend for him and now hes going out with this slut girl and he " found out" from my BEST FRIEND that i liked him so now hes all acting really .. distant from me and not talking to me ( like imma loser or something) and now i really dont know what to do.. hes so wonderful and my ex ( the one i just broke up with) is really good friends with him n when we were going out * he* would always be like.. flirting alot.. and now that we are broken up * hes* supppppppposed to flirt MORE right?? well he doesnt! n im trying to get to him! i guess im not good enough but i sitll (link)
i think i just answered this question but in a different form.. scroll down.. lol


sumtimes @ skool in da middle of da hall n front of da room 118i usually stand on the 7th square tile in front of her room i just stand there...looking in the mid-air thinking about meat lovers pizzas..when all of a sudden a ghosts comes out and grabs me goodneess he grabbed em yesterday and i still trying to escape he always rapes me and tells me that my earlobes taste good..i think im falling in love is that weird or not? i need your opinion (link)
.. nope.. htats totally natural, have fun with this new love of yours!




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