Hi I'm Julie. I go to a small private school. Socially, i'd probably give the worst advice because i just don't make the effort to talk to people. With seeing everything, that's not true for me. I can help with boy problems for sure though. No, i'm not good in the fashion area either. For me, the idea of an amazing outfit would be a band tee & jeans or something. I don't wear makeup. I don't do drugs, drink, smoke or any of that stuff. I'm on the computer too much. I've had heartbreak a ton of times & it's horrible. Currenly, I have a boyfriend & he's amazing. I guess you could say I'm good at giving relationship advice [love life, friends, or family] because I do know about friends & how people can be mean & stuff. I know about overprotective parents since I have them, but not abusive ones. Feel free to ask me anything. I'm here to help. ♥ Julie
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how do you not have a lot of friend..i would like LOVE to be your friend!!:) haha (link)
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well you could start by telling me who you are...
♥ Julie
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omg i broke a nail!!! lol j.k
ok. julzy, you see i am on a swim team this year. well i have been for 3 years but not this involved as this year. i really really really like a kid named luke. he's one year older than me but we're both going into the same grade. my friend talked to him and he said he kinda liked me but he couldnt ask me out bc his sister said it was responsibility or osmething like that..idk...but i really like him. and i want to closer to him..what should i do?
mackenzie (link)
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well if he liked you enough, he wouldn't care what his sister said. i say you need to talk to him about it. that's all i can really say. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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julie,
i have a friend problem. well me and her have been friends since 6th grade and she's gets mad at me over the stupidest reasons. and i dont know what i should do because i want to be friends w/ her but i dont know if i should tell her how i feel or not. but i really do want to be friends with her and i just dont know what to do.. can you help me please!? (link)
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well tell her how you feel. & if she gets mad at you, then she's not your friend. people change. friendships fade. some stay together, but not all. haha maybe it's the hormones! =] my friend gets mad at every little thing i do, but i just kinda am like "yea w/e" cause i don't really have too many friends & i kinda understand how i get her mad. it's hard to deal with someone like me. but you NEED to talk to her. talking is like the antidote for all problems. in my opinion anyway. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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julie,
ill try that & get back to you :/ its very hard as you know but im trying. by the way this is the anorexic girl again
thanks julie yur really helping =) (link)
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no problem. & if you need to talk or anything, feel free to IM me at cutiecherry143.
♥ Julie
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Me And my boyfriend have been together for a month or more but the problem is he is in a grade older an i never see him . I dont know if i should stay with him beacause i never see him but i do like him ALOT . What do i do ? (link)
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tell him how you feel. tell him you wish you could see him more. make the best effort to see him. just cause you can't see each all the time, savor the moments that you get to. try your hardest to make as many plans as you can & call him & talk to him online & whatnot. i`m sure you`ll be fine. this is my quote "love cannot die from separation, only grow." so take that into consideration. hope i helped!
♥ Julie
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ok so i met this guy thru my friend, and he's really cool and everyone likes him. he told me maybe a month ago that he really liked me, and i told him i felt the same way. there's just one problem..hes 15, and im 12, so i dont exactly want my parents to know..because i know they wouldnt approve of it. are there any ways for me to meet up with him somehow without my parents finding out that im meeting up with him? or am i just stuck with going to see him with my friend? thanks for your help. (link)
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i`ve thought of this. it`s the same for me, except the guy hates me, & my parents don't let me date. make a plan with your friend to go to the movies. make a plan with the guy too. show up at the movies. make sure you have told your friend about you & him so she understands & she can see a different movie. same with mall, different place in it. if your parents let you do drop off & pick up, you should be all good. make sure at the movies, you let your b/f know about your situation so while your mom is dropping you off he doesn't talk to you. as long as you guys aren't doing anything [like you know what i mean], i say age doesn't matter. just stay safe. but if your parents find out, they`ll probably kill you like mine. so if you feel too guilty, explain to them about this guy & how much you really like him. & you have a brain & you will do what's right. you're not gonna have sex with him. you're not gonna do anything they don't think you're doing. but if you really don't think your parents are gonna listen to you, take option one. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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julie,
okay, in my heart i know that i am a very fit girl- i play soccer, basketball, and run all the time. but no matter what i still think im fat. i limit myself to 500 calories a day and am an excercise freak. its starting to get worse and i dont know what to do!! nothing is ever enough for me. ill say just another pound just another pound but then when that happens i think thats not enough just one more!!i know this is dangerous and i know its getting even more so but i cant make myself stop and eat normal meals or even eat at all. im afraid of being anorexic but im even more afraid of people thinking im fat. julie, please help. (link)
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awwwwwwwww. ok well that's pretty bad. you NEED to stop doing this to yourself or you could end up in the hospital. funny thing is, average & skinny girls think they're fat. fat people don't give a care, which is probably why they're fat. but has anyone told you you were fat? because by what you say, it doesn't sound like it. look i think i`m fat sometimes when i look at my stomach in the mirror, but i know i`m not. i had a problem like you. i barely ate, but hah i stayed away from the exercise like usual. i kept weighing myself every single day! pounds mattered way too much for me. until finally my mom took away my scale. it helped loads. now & then i still say i`m fat, but most teenagers do. just not many obsess over it. which is what you can't do. because too fat or too skinny is unhealthy. you could die from going too far on either. you NEED to stop. you need to believe you're skinny. you need to take a deep breath & believe in yourself. don't think of food as gaining pounds, think of it as something to keep you healthy. i mean it's ok to eat healthy, but to not eat at all is just wrong. & also, if you're too skinny people will talk about you the same way they talk about fat people. "oh that anorexic girl, she scares me. i can even see her bones. it creeps me out." don't let what others think of you bring you down. build up self-esteem & go by what's right for you. i stopped. you can too. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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ok. well me & my boyfriend started going out about a month ago. and i mean the only times we hold hands is rare and we've only hugged twice. and it really doesnt bother me THAT much. but i mean all my friends and there boyfriends are all lovey dovey. but im not sure how to ask my boyfriend if he wants to hug more and you know, be more boyfriend/girlfriendish. any advice? (link)
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well, just cause your friends are doing that, you don't have to. only do it when you want to & it feels right. it should not be wanted, it should be something suprising, like a kiss that just feels great from someone you really care about. only do that if you want to, not cause others think you should. it's up to you & your boyfriend. & it's not a huge deal. not like you're having sex or anything. hope i helped & good luck!
♥ Julie
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there's these people who are really mean to me. annonymously [i can't spell that] over the internet. i don't know why, i can't think of anything i've ever done to make them be that way. but they'll make mean comments about things i can't help [hair, body, etc.] and how they think i'm stupid because i have internet things [xanga, livejournal] and they just don't get it. i think it might be because they don't understand it and are jealous, but i just can't figure out why anyone would be so rude on purpose. can you help me with how to act, and/or why they would be that way [other than jealousy, possibly?]. thanks (link)
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do they know you in person?
if not;; that happens all the time.
people either are stalkers or will become them if they have nothing better to do like that. people do that to me all the time. there's blockage for a reason. there's "i can get your IP & do crap to your computer if you don't shut up" for a reason. so yea. they're losers. they need to die. you rock cause you have internet nerdy talent, which i think is awesome. k bye. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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Even though ur boyfriend tell you he loves you soo much
you shouldnt belive him fully right
cause i mean anyone can say i love and not mean it (link)
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well if he really means it, you should. you shouldn't say those words & not mean it. it's just wrong. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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I just heard that this guy I've liked, since, like, ever, is going with another girl. I can't get him out of my head!! What do I do??? (link)
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one;; how long is "like ever"?
& two;; tell him how you feel. or nothing will get done. find out if he likes you back. guys can still have feelings for girls even if they're with someone else [as much as the girlfriends wish to think it's not true]
♥ Julie
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I am going to be a freshman this year, and I have just started talking to this guy. Well, He is going to be a junoir and i know him from my sister--who is going to be a senior.
I have started having feelings for this guy. We talk alot online, and he is really sweet. But there are two problems. 1)He has a girlfriend 2)He still see's me as a kid.
Now both of those are really..hard. Because I think he see's me more of a little sister, then a friend. And it is so tough to deal with. Because I know i am not brave enough to tell him how I feel. And I know he doesnt feel the same. What should I do? (link)
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hmm. sounds like a crush. cause love is just more powerful. but with crushes, they're much much easier to get over. if you find that you do love him [you'll just know. no one has to tell you], then you NEED to be brave and tell him. but other than that, get over him. find someone your own age. but being his friend is cool cause he sounds nice. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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ok. im going to 7th grade and i have a boyfriend but none of my friends like him. well some do but my really close girl friends dont. and that sucks cause i really like him. i really dont wanna brake up with him. but all my friends do is nag me about him.please help me!! (link)
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tell your friends to back off cause you care about him. just cause you guys have different opinions, doesn't mean you can't be friends. they don't have to be his friend, just yours. trust me. EVERYONE hates the guy i`m in love with. i could care less. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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i think my friend cuts herself. (link)
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that's horrible. you need to get her help. even if she tells you not to. she's hurting herself. i had a friend who cut.
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Hey. okay, I have a really great boyfriend. i really love him and i just feel great when we hangout. but the thing is, he lives the town over, so he's like 15 minutes ago. i guess its not too far, but since we are only in 8th grade we can't just drive to each other. i usually see him alot but this summer i havent seen him that often. my friends always say we shouldn't go out because we don't see each other alot my he isn't friends with alot of my friends, because he doesnt know them. but i really do like him.WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
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aww. well i`m very happy you have a boyfriend. there's nothing wrong with relationships like that. i mean i'd even take one with someone who lived an hour away. if you love him, that's all that matters. & if you don't see him too often, make plans with him. if you can't, IM him or call him. tell him you miss him. & try to make a plan where you guys go on a date & bring along your friends so they can meet him. if you like him, they're gonna like him. & if they don't, i bet you`d make them. lol. but don't break up with him cause of the 15 minutes. because true love could wait forever. that's what i think anyway. & sometimes distance makes you love & miss them more, so when you see them, you cherish the moment. it's special like that. hope i helped & good luck.
♥ Julie
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my friend is dealing with anorexia. she was in the hospital for a while;; but now she's out. i`m really happy she's home;; but all her problems are still there. she recently had her bday and said a good present would be not to have to eat for the day. she`s one of my best friends, and she trusts me so she always calls me when she has a bad day. i`m glad she can trust me, but hearing about "bad days" makes it really hard to deal with. it hurts, really badly. she's so down on herself, and it kills me. i hate to see her like this. have any advice?? (link)
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awww. well i hope for the best for your friend. but does she see a doctor or anything? not just for physical health, but for mental health, because anorexia is part that. & for some, therapy does help. it's not just for "crazy people". lol. but the most a friend can do is either be brave & try to tell her how you feel or tell someone else about it who can do something to help her. you shouldn't have to deal with it, & neither should she. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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Theres this kid i like but i see him hang around with other girls and stuff and i talk 2 him to but i dont think that he likes me and i dress nice and everything but i dont think he notices what do i do.. and i dont want 2 tell him that i like him because im scared if i get rejected (link)
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well if he doesn't like you back, maybe it's not meant to be. but if you like him enough, you need to tell him. & if you get rejected, just get over him. but don't "dress nice" so he'll like you. just be who you are. cause one time on a date if you don't dress nice, he'd be like "what happened to you?" & you don't want a guy who judges you by how you look. i know you're scared. it is one of the hardest things to do to express your feelings to someone else. but, you don't want him to find out through other people [like mine did =/]. so yea. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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my friends and i used to be close as anything! well then one friend moved away, another friend is going to a diff. high school, and the other friend and shes going to the same high school as me..her and i were soo close and everything but then she started hanging out more with the girl that is going to a diff. school and they totally forgot about me. i am making new friends which is a good thing--but what am i supposed to do about them..i love my girls with all my heart but i just cant handle being the third wheel anymore..it never used to be like this! ugh please help julie!! (link)
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awwwwwwww. =[ well my advice is, don't let them do that. talk to them. tell them how you feel. call them. make a HUGE effort to talk to them. make plans with them. make you guys have as much together time as possible. maybe it won't be as much as you used to have, but enough to keep your friendship in line. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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i'm gonna get my hair colored again pretty soon. my hair color is brown and i have blonde highlights but they're already grown out. should i get highlights again or dye it another color do something differnt? i'm tan & i have brown eyes if that matters. i rate thanks a bunch (link)
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hmm my cousin had brown hair. she died it all blonde once, & it looked horrible. blonde highlights always look good. what she also tried once that looked good was, she did like different shades of brown in her hair. it was pretty. so maybe you could try that if you want to try something new.
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See, there is this boy that i have liked for about a year and 3 months. and i have the biggest feeling that he is the one. he doesnt like me..altho he has. we always kiss and hug and hold hands and cuddle and tell each other we love each other like all the time. but yet he still doesnt like me. he isnt going to the same high school as me and i*m afraid he*s gonna find all these hott girls and totally forget about me..what do i do!?!?!?
THANKS!--girl in love-- (link)
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well..does he know how you feel about him? if not, tell him. if so, still keep in contact with him. talk to him. make plans & hang out with him. or else, then he might forget about you & find some hott girls. but if he ends up liking you again, then he's not gonna care about anyone else. i understand what you're going through. my guy situation is a lot worse, so don't feel alone. hope everything works out & hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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