I understan things that most people have poblems with in fact i have a lot of problems too. my friends tell me that giving advice is my future. I love helping people, I listen to what you have to say.
I sont make snap disisions about u from anything you say.
Some times lifes gives you lemons(i know what your thinking, and make lemonade ow corny what a cliche.)
So let me start again when life gives you lemons squeez the juice into a watergun and shoot it into peoples eyes or throw the lemon right back and say what the hell am i supposed to do with a leon im here 24/7 and ill help i swear
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Location: nowheresville usa
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Age: 14
AIM: scarymonkey1991
Member Since: December 6, 2003
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For the ones who have read the Ex-boyfriend Gone Mad and Dreams Column, I need your advice again. OK, so some of you said that I might have feelings for him. And some of you said that I might miss him. I can't like him!!! Number 1: My parents WONT allow it. Number 2: My parents wont let me see him anymore. Number 3: I have a boyfriend that is true to me and is everything I wanted out of a guy. But the love that my boyfriend and I share...it so different. And I don't want to like my EX because I don't want to be a "slut". Plus I don't want to like my EX because I will just end up getting hurt again. But then, WHY am I having dreams about him EVERY night? And today, I did the "ABCDEFG" thing with the soda can and it landed on "J" which is the beginging letter of my EX boyfriends name. I talked to a physic and she said that I am gonna be with this boy for the rest of my life. What do you think she ment by that? Like, am I gonna be with him as a married couple? Or just friends? Or am I just gonna know him for the rest of my life? What are all of the signs about? Why am I getting them anyways? I need your advice ASAP!
P.S. I will be seeing my EX at a play that he is in because my friend is in the same play that my EX is in. Should I talk to him or not? If so, what should I say? Or do??
Sincerely,
CONFUSED! (link)
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talk to him trust me u r probably just needing that maybe u just like him i know u dont want to but thats how it goes u probably still have a place in ur heart for him and that place will hold him forver
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This kid always makes fun of me, Calls me Britney Spears, because my name is brittany*. . and he says I am ugly, and I dont let ti put me down, but it agitates me cuz he duz it every day! I dont wanna be a rat, but i got him in toruble once. . .and He has gotten suspended for last few weeks of school cuz he is a really bad student. . and so i havent had to deal with his crap lately. . . . . .
* Wuts this kids problem?*
I luv Shawn. . peace out *~*~Brittany~*~* (link)
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this kids problem is he doesnt really have a problem see he probably likes u and when he teases u he probably is just joking around he probably just doesnt know how to talk to girls so whenevr he does this just take it as a sign that he likes u atleast as a friend
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Okay do anyz of you know how to get rid of a column person you dont want anymor? (link)
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nope srry i have no clue
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Who Likes GoodCharlotte. .
Who Likes Simple Plan
Who Likes Bowling For Soup!
I LIKE THEM ALLLLL! (link)
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i liked good charlotte back before they went really popular and im like that with simple plan too it is just that way
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I'm doing an extreme makeover on myself this holiday break and I need to change my whole style,especially my clothes. I'm in highschool and I've been going there dressed up as though this was elementary school. I'm still suprised no one has ridiculed me for wearing overalls the other day. I'm 6 feet tall and I am not model thin. What styly could help? (link)
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go to the mall or wherever u shop with ur friends and try on some outfits and have ur friends tell u what u think ur friends will always keep u form being ridiculed tell them u need there help
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Why am I black? (link)
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u r because ur parents are thats the best way i can answer a question like that
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I ask alot of questions. . lately* lol
Well I was wondering, how can i tell fi my crush likes me? He acts dumb sometimes around me, and It was my frist day of school, But i started when everyone else did, and he was the first person to talk to me, he said how come u dont talk, I was like in my head, omg i dont know wut to say. . I dont know anyone!! And I just sat their staring at him, he was so adorable! And omg. . I dont know One time at recess it was wicked freezing and he wa slike i cant feel my toes. . it was soo cute, then my frined *a guy friend which is my crish's frined too* Stepped on my crush's toes! And he said oooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. . it was so funny/cute!
Then my friend said, how could u feel that if us ai du couldnt fel ur toes?!
I was so mad at her. . lol she was evil to my man!
Also when he walks by me he acts dumb/funny
And I think he thinks I like him* which I do*
Then their is the kdi i aksed about I kidna like him, but I duno hes a fun perosna nd all, but I duno. . I think of him as a friend! U know But my crush I wnat to marry this person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But Im not sure. . I mean if he lieks me. .do u think he does, please help! he doesnt talk to me that much. . but i duno. . i think its cuz he switche doutta my class. and well he cnat rlly talk to me cept 4 recess, , which he is always with his frineds! (link)
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he likes u atleast as a friend but the way to find out if he likes u is to have a friend to ask him or to ask him ur slef that is the only way uwill find out
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My friend is such a freaktart! Lol she is only 11 and doesnt know wut the average weight 4 a 4'11 11 yr odl girl is. . do not make this confusing, ,
What is the average weight for someone who is 4 feet 11 inches, and is only 11 yrs old?!
She is like 90-91 pounds (link)
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94 POUNDS
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Well i don't know but i would like to know if being a little fat has to do with any thing i just can't seem to get a girl to like me i'm nice i am a beliver of the Lord what should i do? (link)
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I BET U GIRLS LIKE U AND UR STANDERDS ARE TOO HIGH PEOPLE ARENT GOING TO LIKE U IF U THINK TOO HIGHTLY OF URSLEF IS THERE A SPECIFIC GIRL WHO U LIKE? WELL TELL ME IN MY PERSONL COLUMN AND ILL BE EXTREEMLY HAPPY TO HELP U UR NAME WOULDNT HAPPEN TO BE XANE OLSEN WOULD IT?
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There is someone, a kid a guy. . well im not sur eif he likes me or not. . See we sit next to each othe rin math class. . and well he talks ot me alot laughs wiht me and well he trys to ge tmy attention laot, and he plays aroudn like hits me and stuff, liek not hard but playfully. . and its like I duno if he just my firnd or if he lieks me more than that!?>!?! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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I AM ONLY GOING TO SAY ONE THING THIS GUY NO MATTER WHO HE IS LIKES U
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But then everyone will think im weird, and well id ont want to seem liek a racist but they will think im weir dbecuz they r all black, and they exspect me to be a wigger!?! What about Hot Pink??!! I luv the colro black, but they dont know that. . . and hwo would I do my hair? I got skater shoes. . they r new! what type sof shoes, clothing, and hairstyles should I do?!?!?! (link)
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SHOES:CHUCKS,VANS,ETNIES
CLOTHES:ANYTHING BUT PINK JUST TRUST ME ON THIS AND AS LONG AS U DONT ACT BLACK THEY WONT CALL U A WIGER
HAIR:ANYWAY U WANT JUST NOT LIKE WITH A BOW OR ANYTHING
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Okay i like this girl a whole lot but i am to afraid to talk to her becuase i got helled back this year so now she's in eighth grade and i'm in seventh so should i still talk to her (link)
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yes u should no matter what grade u r in u r still her age go for it just do what u gatta do
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This doesn't really go with this topic, but I want to be more punkish style, you knwo But I dont wnat a mayjor make over, like go littl eby little, wut should I start to wear, to get everyone to know Im startin 4 a new look and it will be punkish!???!!?!?!?! (link)
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listen i know it doesnt seem like it but im a punk right here me yes me and the only way u can do it is go all or no start shopping at places like pac sun and hot topic no tight pants or pink and if u dont go all or no then trust me everone will end yup hating u and u will be a descrace to both sides
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hey, listen, i have a bad problem with dating guys. i mean evrytime i go out with a guy i end up finding out his using me after i really fall for them too. how can i prevent myself from looking so easy in front of guys? (link)
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1.get to know the guy first
2.if u arent into them in the begining don start the relasioship these r the only things i can tell u to do and u r still ganna date poeple like that but these things whould help
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I need help my crush does not have a crush on me what should i do? (link)
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ok spend sometime with him i mean alone time and if he still isnt into u like someone else b-cuz there is nothing u ccan do about it
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THANKS FOR ANSWERING MY HELP!! QUESTION.
PLEASE TRY TO ANSWER MY OTHER QUESTION WHICH IS "FRIEND HELP". (link)
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no prob im here to answer the questions i enjoy it ill answer ur other ones too
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So if I have it late this months, its fine. . but if i dont have it at all somehting is wrong!? (link)
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exactly but as long as u have it this month ur good to go just fret about it untill the tinme comes
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Okay,
So I think most of you know about my ex-boyfriend issue. And my last questions subject was "ex-boyfriend gone mad" Well, I have a NEW and better BF, and I told my parents and they talked to my ex-boyfriends parents and sorted everything out, kinda. But now I never get to see my ex-boyfriend. And I'm not crying about it either. But I DO see him in my dreams, and I don't know why! In my dreams he acts like he use to act when we wasn't abusive and lieing. In my dreams he acts like the person that I use to like. But then, toward the end of my dream there's this voice that says to me that he's no longer like that person. And I no that, so why and I having dreams about him?? I need your advice!
Sincerely,
Dream (link)
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u r rpobably just remebering the good times in ur dreams it is normal dont worry about it u may also be regreting not be able to see him subconcouisly or regretting the break up just dont worry about it and have sweet fun dreams
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I am tooo shy I swear. . !!! I really like this guy, but whenever I'm around him I get so nervouse and dontt alk I just sit there! He got mad at me once, because we were doign somethign and I wouldn't sya anything, but when he left I was talking up a storm, taking control! it was like he was soo hott, and Uggh! I don't know what to do. . I'm not sure if he likes me, but I caught him staring at me. . But that doesnt mean he likes me right?? I want to ask him out so badly, but I'm afraid he doesnt like me and I am just too nervous to ask him myself!!!
What I'm trying to ask is, Why am I so nervous around him, and why don't I have the guts to go up to him and tell him that I love him and I really want to go out with him?"
*Sorry about typos* . .if there are any!!! lol (link)
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i totally get the being too shy thing but no need for that two years ago i barely talked now i talk to everyone everwhere u r at a stage and as for asking him out go for it the worst that can happen is for him to say no u gatta do this for yourself thats all i can say u have to help urslef along with this
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I got my period 2 days before school started hwich was september secound, I got my period August 31st, And it sbeen coming like the first of every month and I've had it for about 3 months now, and then all of a sudden its already the 6th of december and it hasnt come yet. . is this normal. . I ams till a virgin!!! I havent had sex or anything!! Please help! (link)
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your alright take time out and breath it is perfectly normal in the begining maybe u were normal but not everytime u have your period u r going to be regular sometimes it will be on different day s all u should be concerned is if u have it this month if u dont something is wrong and u need to see a doctor but im almost posetive u r fine
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