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I have been texting and chatting it up with this guy for a pretty long time and we were getting really into eachother. We both admitted that we liked eachother. For the last six days he has not text me back or anything, but I got my friend to text him and he text her right back. Now his relationship status in In a Relationship.
what should i do? (link)
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well first of all, if a guy doesn't respond within 6 days that usually means something. Maybe he's moving on. I don't know if you know this person in person, but if you don't thats probably not a good thing at all. my advice to you, is to not text the guy for the sam amount of days he's ignored you. usually guys miss the attention when girls stop talking to them all of a sudden and come marching back to you. If that's what happens, start talking again...but start asking questions. If the guy is in a relationship now, you have the right to be friends with him if you want but don't go overboard. Give him some space. Give him some time to think about things. I know there's someone special out there for you. the right guy will find you and you'll know it when it happens.
Your friend, Lulabell aka lulu
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Okay, so I am 17 years old and a senior in high school, and my boyfriend graduated last year and went to college this fall. A lot of my friends tell me that I should break up with him so we could date people that we could see all the time, but i really like him and I dont want to end a relationship of 10 months just because i miss him. Meanwhile, theres another guy who likes me that goes to my school, and i kind of like him but i really love my boyfriend. What should I do??? (link)
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okay hun here's what you gotta do....if you love this boy, i mean really love him you'll stick with him, but my advice to you today is to take a break from him for a while since he's gonna be in college. Guys in college tend to get put in risky situations with other girls. Now if you say you love the guy, but you kinda like another guy that means "problems" because i've been in that situation before myself. I've been in love 5 times in my life and the guy i'm with now is real love. I'm not saying that you'r love is real or not real, but you got to experiment and get to dating other guys before deciding you love someone. When i was 16 i had a very sweet boyfriend and everything about him was perfect to me. i thought he was everything and that i was in love with him, but i started liking another guy. You see when you're with someone and you so call "love them" you're confidence boosts and other guys find that very attractive. I say give this other guy a chance and if things don't workout, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. As a senior in high school sweetheart, you shouldn't be looking for love...atleast not yet. Give it some time. you still have college yourself. Anyways, hope i helped.
Your friend, LULABELL aka LULU
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