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hhiyas im kathryn. im a 13 year old girl. i love giving advice on all topics. so ask me anything. ive had tons of experiance with pretty much everything, {relationships, heartbreak, sports, pets, cell phone bills} so dont be afraid to ask. have fun and enjoy my site =]
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any tips on dealing with an annoying friend who talks, no brags, waaay too much, but who you cant really be mean to because shes really nice, but she just cant take a hint when to shut up? plz, any advice is welcome!

Hey! i have a friend who was the exact same way! she would bug me and alllllll of my friends with it. One day when we were talking online she finaly drove me way over the edge bragging about making our school play. What i did was calmly tell her, "That's soo great that you _______, and really i am very happy for you. But sometimes you might want to tone down about what youre talking to me, and the girls about, because yeah, were happy for you! and we defenitly want to hear about it! but sometimes it can come across as bragging, and we know you dont mean it to be that way, but sometimes it does, please don't take this the wrong way, but i just wanted to let you know" thats a good way to put it because it lets her know that you love and care about her and her accomplisments, but also lets her know that she needs to tone it down a bit.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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just wondering, whats a monroe? this girl said she got one and she has this thing above her lip..but was is it?

Hey! a monroe is a piercing on your upper lip. right between your lip and your nose. ((can you say OUCH!!))
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I don't know what to do with my life. I'm not great at anything. Like..every person has something.. like great writing skills or a band... but I have nothing.

What am I supposed to do?

hey! don't worry, everyone goes through stages like this! i did too. but you defenitly do hahve something. you just haven't found it yet. try signing up for lots of clubs at your school, especially ones that you never thought you'd be interested in. Or sign up for a sport youve never played before. Trust me, everyone has something that they're amazing at! right now, you may not think you do, but trust me, you just haven't found it yet!
good luck!
hope i helped!
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how come people who want to lose weight drink like, 5-6 bottles of water a day?

hey! people who want to lose weight drink water because it flushes out your body. Notice when you drink more water you have to pee more. And your pee is yellowish. and water is white. therefor your pee obviously isn't just water. It's also carrying out more nutrients and unwanted fat calories in your body. That's also why people who don't drink enough water, tend to later become overweight.
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i played badminton once
in gym and really liked it

theres no school team here though

is it an official sport?

hey! yes badminton defenitly is an oficial sport. my bff plays badminton on a local team (not school team). they have practice 4 teams a week and are very very very good. Playing in gym isnt quite like what they do though, they run a lot, and do tons of hard work-outs. But it defeintly is a sport, and my friend loves it! so if you had fun in gym, you should defeentitly try looking for a local team. (it shouldnt be too hard to find one)
good luck!
hope i helped!
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OK, I like this guy, but I don't know him that well. And A LOT of other girls like him too. I know that we would be a PERFECT couple (even my friend says that), but he doesn't seem to notice that. I'm worried that he might start to like one of the girls that likes him and then ask her out. How can I get him to like me without acting totally weird and different?

Hey! i was actually in the exact same situation once. We didnt havve any classes together. and we er talked. but one day we just starting IMing eachother (i know this may sound weird, adn way too completely obvious, but really, it's not). We talked every day for hours and hours. In the begining, he talked about other girls he liked, and thaht was kind of annoying, but i never once stopped liking him. We became VERY VERY VERY close friends after about a month. After about a month and a half i started to get the feeling he liked me. after 2 months he told me. he asked me out at school the next day. we were together for 4 months. So, to some up my story, i reccomend that you just IM him, show him that youre interested in the same things he is, be there as a friend at first, if he didnt do well on a test and hes talking to you about it, show support.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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i just got a verizon phone and i am so confused
i have a few questions
can i use vcast music as a ringtone or should i just purchase a ringtone?
how do i figure out how many texts and minutes are left?
can i return ringtones?
how much are ringtones?
if someone texts me does that take away from my 500 free texts?

thanks [:

Hey! okay well, i have a verizon phone also, (a pink razr to be specific) but anyways, you can't use vcast music as a ringtone, its only there for you to listen to. so you should purchase a ringtone. im not quite suer what you mean by return ringtones owever. ringtones arent all the same prices. they can range from about 99 cents to about 4 dollars. but if you dont want to spend the money you can return a ringtone. this is how
--go to either itunes/youtube/any other music player
--pick the song you want
--go to your phone and go to the "get it now" section
--select "get tunes and tones"
--click on record new
--then turn the volume up to the highest level and press play
--then click the okay button to begin recording
--then click stop.
--go to sound settings and set this as your ringtone!
and if someone texts you it does take away from your 500 free texts.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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omg
tomorrow i start swim for my schools swim team
and i am scared .
i think my boobs arent gonna be big
or im gonna look fat
help

hey! well, i'm a swimmer also. i swim for my schools team too. and trust me, from experiance, nerves-wise, the day before the first practice is defenitly the worst. But once you get there, you start to have so much fun swimming, and meeting cool people, and hanging out with friends that you aren't self-consice about any part of your body at all. I always thought my legs were gonna look big. and i would hate to take my shorts off. but that was only the first day. After that, I realized everyone either looks like that, or isn't paying attention to my body at all, only your wicked fast swimming! Good luck with swimming! and dont worry about your body! trust me. it'll be fine!
hope i helped!
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