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Last Update: January 4, 2005
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Towards the beginning of this year I was placed in the wrong lunch for me. Gah, people threw food and got out of hand and it was horrid. I decided not to change my schedule so I'd get a different lunch and delt with the task of finding another place to eat. Choice A was the art room. For some weeks I did this until my friend's moronic friend came in and, to make a long story short, ruined it for all of us. Then I began talking with my bio lab partner and he told me about the library. Even though you can't eat inside it (unless you're bookclub) it has atmosphere. I started going and doing my algebra homework and just hanging around with cool people who flock there.

Into the 2nd week or so of this I realised the shy burnette in the corner who was always silently contemplating life was my bio partner. I began to sit with him and play chess. It makes me sad to see someone without many friends in a new school. Sure, I had friends, oodles from the old school, but he was someone who had come from a low-budget school and knew 2 people at this high-school, one of which was in only one of his classes and had already "moved on", the other an acquaintance.

Soon he and I became great friends. And more people started to join he and I. One of my better friends comes in 2 or 3 times a week to study with us.

Last Thursday we had to sit on the floor in an aisle due to 2 classes havng reserved the library for 3rd hour. My lab partner, my previous friend and one person from the class which was in the library sat and had a generally great time. The night before, Wednesday, I sat up with insomnia and drew penguins. Some turned out to become valentines, one which was for the person in this post. I gave it to him and he smiled like he likes me. And I'm pretty sure he does. I think I've finally gotten under his skin. But... I do not want to be anything but friends with him. I just came from an evil relationship with someone who was originally my friend but then more. The problem is that part of me wants to be more than his friend or side-kick (as I dubbed him). I just don't know which to go with. (link)
Try to hang out with him more. This is similar to what my boyfriend was feeling about me at first, so we decided to hang out, go on a couple dates, just to see things out. And if turned out, that his feelings were right, and really did want to go out with me. You never know, give him a try.


Chingy's hot!
Whose with me...and those of you who say no he isnt or whatever..don't bother answering this question because why would you waste your time???
Mwah chingy! lol (link)
Chingy = trash


i cant spell and im proud of it am i normal? (link)
Aoccdrnig to rscheearch at Txes M&A Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a total mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe.


ok i cant stand men here i am again with the third update on kyle ok today was the first day i seen him since i had the fight with him and told him i liked him well today he totally ignored me i mean we shared glances and locked eyes a couple of times but i think i made him nervuose cause he likes my friend but i dont regret telling him i just want him to talk to me help!!!! (link)
wow....I know you dont wana hear this cuz i have been there before but...

GET OVER HIM. this just shows you his immaturity.


i dont no if i am straight bi or a lesbian, i mean i always have the hots for guys but sometimes i catch my self checking out a girl its not all the time becuase then i would no but every once in a while i will check one out and i dont no why i would be like oo she has a nice butt or something like that even though i no i lean towards guys but i need help (link)
believe it or not, many girls check out others without even realizing it. they may even be fully straight also! Sometimes, they compare themselves to other girls bodies. It may just be jealousy. However, if you find yourself to have romantic feelings for a girl, but also men, it is possible you are Bisexual. Don't worry. It's not so bad. It is not a scary thing. Stereotypical people cause that. I am not bi myself, but I have friends who are, and their lives are pretty darn normal. Don't worry, life will go on.


hey i am am the one who wrote about life being against me and i just got over a bad mood well last night i i/med him and i was like kyle... and he just came out and said Rachael i am sorry and i was wicked happy we talked things out and all and its all good i also told him i liked him liked him like a crush and he was fine with it every thing is great now i am just nervous to see him in school tomarrow because i am not the kind of person to just comeout and say i like you usually i never do so i dont no if he will act the same tomarrow becuase we sit with each other but i just thought i would up date you guys oh and to the 2 people whop responed to me thankx (link)
well....this is ok. act like you normally do around him. not much should have changed..unless he likes you too. hehe. if he acts different or strange in a bad way than he is not worth your time. it shows that he is immature.


ok ive never had a boyfriend and i really want one but i think its because peopl ethink that im fat... i really dont know what to do because ive tryed everything to loose weight but it jst wont happen and i have so many thing going on in my life and i just want someone whos there for me please help me...... (link)
the reason why nothing is working is because you are getting discouraged too easily. keep going at it, it will work out in the end. you dont have to have a boyfriend either. highschool relationships usually dont last...sorry


i swear life is out to get me i just got over a bad mood and now i am in a huge fight with my firend and he said he didnt wanna talk to me and he hated me whate should i do? (link)
try and lok at the great things in life. count your blessings. you're very lucky and we dont even realize it.


Lately I've been chatting a lot with this guy. He's a friend of a friend. Anyway, it's been about 3 months now and we have loads in common. We decided to go see a movie together(not a date) next weekend. Trouble is, he's very smart, and when I'm chatting with him I always feel like I'm too stupid for him. When we meet, I'm afraid it might show even more, that he might start talking about things that i don't have much say in and he'll find me unworthy of his time and won't want to be friends anymore. How should I act, or should I plain out cancel the meeting and just stay friends on msn? (link)
dont be so self conscious. chances are, he may think you're too cool for him! dont worry, you'll have a great time


What do I do if I think I may be obsessed with sex? (link)
obsession with sex is probably just a side effect of lonliness. get out more and do things with friends that has nothing to do with sex. dont even think about it.


I know this may sound very stupid, and I knwo there's nothign us girls can do about it...but just let me vent...
Am I the only one who thinks it's irritationg that only girls go through periods, having the baby (even though its a blessing, but it hurts), and they are the one's who are mostly aboused by men adn get made fun of sometimes for doing certain things that men are usually known for doing most of the time, even thuogh women can too. It just makes me so mad, becasue the boys rub it in our faces and the only thing that hurts them is when they get hit in the wrong place. I'm sorry this is just stupid and I don't have anything against the males about this but I just wanted to get everything out and see if I'm the only one who feels this way.
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oh baby.....its not just women who have that PMSing type of stuff. It turns out that men actually can get IMS (irritable male syndrome) IM SERIOUS! go to the internet and look it up. when men make fun of you for PMS or somethin, you now have a great comeback!


I think I'm addicted to the internet. I'v been on for at least 6 hours today. The thing is though, I don't know if me being on this long partly has to do with the fact that I hardly go on all week becasue I don't have the time. Is there any way somebody can help me. The time is 12:07 am right now and I got on at 8:30 (probably only taking a 30 minute to an hour break)
I feel so crappy! (link)
Seems to me you got nothin to do on the weekends. hang out with friends, do something! I am an internet addict myself but when it comes time to get off the computer, I'll do it. I might bitch and groan but you'll get over it.


OK there is a guy at school that everyone thinks i like, and the fact is I dont know
I enjoy spending time with him and he's nice, but I dont know if I like him that way >:( (link)
It may just be that you like him as a friend. As people begin to notice the oppisite sex, they may get their feelings confused. What you think is love, could really just be a friendly love. Don't jump the gun and expect for a boyfriend, because the truth is, ya don't need one. Don't worry what your friends think. IF if does turn out in the end that you like him, so be it. Just don't get those feelings confused.


I have been talking with this guy online for over a year now. He only lives about an hour away but neither of us have met people from online so we've never met in person before. My parents are having a bonfire the weekend before Halloween and I've invited him. He's accepted the ivite but I've also arranged to meet him this weekend. I'm really nervous about it. We're really good friends right now and I guess I'm just worried that meeting in person will ruin that. The question I have is should I be worried? (link)
not really...but i would have my parents come along with me to meet this guy..its amazing wat weirdos are out there...


I'm eating too much unhealthy junk food. What are some healthy snacks I can eat instead of chips and sodas? (link)
i like to eat healthy food. i find that it does more for me than junk food. instead of reachin for that stuff, go for some veggies or fruits. its amazing how good they taste once you give them a chance. try maybe puttin a lil seasoning or dressing on it...its pretty good!




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