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ok well the other day i went to my grams house that i never go to and she said that i can come live with her if i want. i havent said anything to my mom is cause she will blow up at me and tell me that im not there enough to wanna move in. but my grams rules are alot cooler then my moms. im gettin a new remodled room later curfue and more TRUST which is wat i want. pluz she is rite by my friends and my dad. so i wanna go there but i dont wanna hurt my mom or have her get mad at me so how do i tell her? plz help ill rate high.
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Well, before i answer your question, i have some questions to ask you first.
Why do you want more advantages, and why do you want to leave your parents
well, i think thay maybe you should talk to your parents a little and only a little bit each day, and seee if you can maybe try and recieve more advantags. Tell them how you are feeling first, and then let them have their feedback, but dont argue about it, just talk a little bit each day, and if the conversations get roudy, then end the conversation, and simply say, " i think that we need a little calming time and time to think about this, so maybe we can get back to this tomorrow or something, when have had tine to think and calm down."
I hope that this has helped you at least a little bit.
Hev
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since my dad has left my sister uste to cut herself cause she hated life..and then she started getting angry all the time.. she uste to beat the living crap out of me when my mom ain't home seriously if i do one little thing to her she tried to hit me with a bat before.. she cusses up jack to me if i am having music up to "Loud" or if I am just standing near her (shes a freak to me anywyas) my mom trys to control her.. but she can't atleast she don't try enoguh..my mom is never home any more either she's always with her boyfriend or gone to college or something..I have to be careful and watch what is ay around my sister or she'll go crazy.. she always says that my mom hates us and my mom hopes that were dead and all that crap.. she's 17 btw..I think she's on depression pills maybe i don't know I think she goes to a consoulor ro whatever but what could i try to do to get her to be not so angry all the freaking time she won't listen to me cause she'll always saays that i'm dumb and oh yeah and ain't you like that too (link)
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well, before i answer your question, i have a couple qustions for you!
Do you ever fight back with her and take a stand?
Have you ever told your sister and mother how you are feeling towards this situation?
Heather
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