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Gender: Female
Location: Tennessee
Occupation: student
Member Since: November 6, 2005
Answers: 51
Last Update: December 30, 2005
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My friend Sam started going out with Nate at the beginning of the school year. Nate sat at our table at lunch, and some of his friends did too. One of them is Andrew. We all got to know different people because they were going out, and Andrew and I became friends fast. Last Tuesday, I found out that Andrew liked me, but I didn't really think about it. Tonight, he asked me out. I was SOOO surprised. We only say each other for a few minutes after that, so I managed to avoid answering, but I can't avoid him forever. Please HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I like him more as a friend than a boyfriend, but people keep saying to give it a chance. What should I do??? (link)
I would tell him how you feel and he is dissapointed tell him you are really sorry.


Okay I really like this guy. Well I have heard he liked me too but I don't know I am a freshman and he is a Jr. (same age as my older brother and they have conflicts) Well I want to see if he likes me but I am scared too. His cousin says he always talks about me and he is really sweet to me. He will come up and hug me and tell me that I am looking good and stuff like that. I want to ask him out but I am scared to. I guess I am afraid of rejection. Then one of my friends likes him too. and if she found out how I feel about him she would hate me... but he like hates her cuz she acts like a big ole' whore and stuff like that. So I am stuck... I also told his sister (which is my age) and when she found out that girl liked him too she was MAD cuz she HATES her. but she made me feel better when she told me he would never go after her. but I still don't know..

What should I do?

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You should ask him out and if your friend gets mad she must not be your friend you know.


Hey! I need some fund raising ideas. I need to raise 300 dollars for dance team costume. What would be some good ideas. Remember its cold so no car washes xoxo (link)
You could have a yard sale and get rid of all the stuff you don't need or you could even walk dogs(in winter you could get more money:) ).


is it wrong to have a guy friend who's gay and 31 go to a dance?? i'm 18!
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Yes!!!!!! He is soooo older than you and he is gay! The reason it is wrong is because do you really want to go out with someone that doesn't like you? Think about it.


okay what would you do if this "friend" always ditches u for someone else and only hangs around you when she aint got nobody else? i mean we use to be really good friends but now she only wants to hang with this other friend and is beiong really mean? please help!!! thanks buh bye!! (link)
If she doesn't hang out with you unless she doesn't have anyone else to play with then she isn't your friend.


how do you approach a friend who used to be your best friend but now you barely talk ? i have a friend nd we used to be best friends but out of nowhere its like i dont even exist anymore .. (link)
Maybe your friend moved on. Don't be mad though. Start talking to her and you might be close friends again.


Ok here goes :). I have feeling for my Ex boyfriend who broke up with me. He said he liked someone else. But he keeps on flirting with me i think anyway. Like everytime we see each other he smiles at me and stares and he will come and stand biside me when we have breaks in between classes and he walks me to my bus EVERYDAY. He even gets kinda mad when other guys are flirting with me. So Does he. I am kinda confused! Thanks! (link)
I think he might like you or he just wants to make another girl mad. Just ask him why he is doing all that stuff and he hopefully will tell you the anwser.


I know one of my friends is stealing things from my locker because I saw all of my stuff in her backpack. I don't want to tell. What should I do?
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Ask your friend up straight if she is stealing your stuff.If she says yes tell her you want you stuff back and if she says no then you should tell a teacher because if she is stealing your stuff she is not your friend.


I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!! (link)
If you really want to go to that school go. But if you are scared that your friends will forget you just keep in touch with them.


My very very good friends birthday is coming up. We just started being friends a month ago, when I met him & he's super cool. I've been thinking of getting him some presents, will you tell me if you think it's okay: Headphones [for his ipod because his are broken & they sound crappy] & the exorcist [original movie, he really wants to see it.] then i'm going to buy him a card & balloons, and also I wanted to make him a small cake. I'm really tight on money, so i was also wondering do you think he'd be okay w/ just me making him a cake and decorating it all pretty? instead of buying a cake? thanks so much. (link)
He should be cool with that and if he's not he isn't your real friend.


13/f. Alot of my girl friends say that i look pretty and gorgeous and things like that. But i dont think guys find me attractive,...why? (link)
Maybe your friends are nice to say that you look pretty and you probably do, but boys sometimes don't think cute girls look cute.




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