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i just recently moved from northwest Indiana to Dayton, Ohio with my boyfriend Brian. We've been together for 3+ years (as of 07/15/01). i am an office manager at a local painting company. I currently drive a new 2004 Black Chevy Malibu LS. I love to go shopping, watching movies, minigolfing, and bowling. some of my favorite music artists are: Britney Spears, Jessica Simpson, Christina Aguilera, Hilary Duff, Justin Timberlake, Ashlee Simpson.

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im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out?

hmm.. This is tricky. If i was in your girlfriends shoes. I would want to know about your past relationships (whether it's a guy or girl). Honestly i would be more curious as to why you were in a gay relationship then and now your in a straight relationship. If she is a good girl she might be upset at first because you didn't tell her. But i think she will stick with you, if you have something good going (in your relationship). I mean if you were expiramenting that's understandable. Lots of people expirament. As for her not finding out who it is. That's going to be tough since she knows him. I'm sure one of her first questions are going to be 'who was he?' Your either going to have to tell her the truth. Or keep it as simple as possible.

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hi am 17 senior in h.s i was planning on going to college and everything. i was dating a guy who 25 and we broke up 3 weeks ago about one week ago i found out i was 5weeks pregant should i tell him?? how can i tell him??

Yes you have to tell him. I'm assuming your positive he is the father. He has the right to know. If i were you i would tell him as soon as possible. I would tell him in person too. You two need to find out what you are going to do about this situation. Because even though you broke up he is not out of the picture. Unless you let him get away. He is the father and he needs to be apart of the baby's life, as well as yours (not together just keeping contact with each other). You two need to figure out a plan as of what you both are going to do with the future of this child.

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