this is about the guy before
i found he liked me and he is jealous, but the problem i dont like him back, to tell you the truth i think he is completely wierd! now to me, he is even wierder. i have done my best to avoid him, but how do i break it to him?
hey its laura!
ok well you just have to well...tell him you dont like him. make sure you're not leading him on at all or anything. it might make him upset and mad for a while but he'll get over it after a while.
write back for more advice!
--laura--
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there is this guy i know and he always has a problem about me putting anything about another guy im my am/pro/etc. we are not going out or anything, but now he just wont listen to me, he keeps telling me to drop it, but that just isnt who i am, im persistant but now idk what to do?
well i guess you just try to keep talking to him about it...he's probably just getting mad because he's jealous, or he may like you! write back if you need more help.
-lauren-
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My friend always takes over the friends that i take time to meet. then they all ditch me and dont want to be my friends anymore. ive already tried talking to her and it didnt work. what should i do??
i hate to give you bad advice but the only thing i think you can do is talk to them about it and tell them how you feel about it...write back if you want more advice
-lauren
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this is for everyone who is complaining -- get over it, advice is advice and these two girls are doing their best, they can't control fate. they are just giving their intake on it, like you asked, don't get ticked at them just b/c life doesnt go your way. when you ask a question, you are asking two humans, not God, they don't what is gonna happen, and neither do you. why do yall keep asking if you don't like the responses??
by the way, lauren and laura you dont have to answer this, this is just a shout out to the losers dissing yall.
from both of uss---
THANK YOU SO MUCH!! WE LOVE YOU!!!
everyone please read wht that person just said!
--laura and lauren--
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how can u NOT complain! ur advice sux!
-anonymous
ok well apparently not everyone thinks that because they keep askin questions! in fact, you are now! :) now what do you have to say to that?
--laura--
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ok this isnt a question--its laura
ok its laura--
i just want everyone to know that we're sorry if our advice doesnt work out right, but please dont get mad at us! thanks
keep askin
--laura--
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well i like this girl and we have been talkin often for like 2 hrs online. and im really gettind t'oEd becasuse she hasnt sent me a full body shot. and i was just wondering if im making the right choice of comitment.
no you are not making the right choice.
-laurennnn
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um hi i had the same situation as the girl who wanted to break up with her boyfriend and also liked someone else, and i took you advice...i kept liking the guy and then i broke up with my bf, but then the guy i liked told my bf we liked eachother and now he hates me! the guy i liked hates me now too since i liked him while i still had a bf! everything you told me went completely rong! all my friends think im a slut! your advice made my whole social life a disaster! idk what to do! please answer my question! this time i want some1 ELSE to answer!
alright well its lauren now...
im not rly getting what you are saying but you should have broken up with your boyfriend then few weeks later you can like the other guy and there are no hurt feelings...well maybe you need to explain the situation to your friends, then maybe they will understand.
write back if you have any questions
-lauren
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hey its the girl whos friend keeps getting in my business!
ur advice made no sense! i told you she kept getting in my business and wanting t go EVERYWHERE with me and you told me to say "hey lets go somewhere fun 2morrow" what does that mean? what are you talking about? i want to get AWAY from her not see her MORE....she goes everywhere with me and invites herself over! thats the problem...u didnt get it at all i think i can find somewhere better to get advice from...
well if you still call her your "friend" then why do you want tog et away from her?
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hey its the girl about my friend running away!
listen- ur rly giving me terrible advice im asking you different questions and your giving me the same answer! it never helps....i ask you what i should do besides talking to them and you just tell me to kepp talking ot them! i mean what does that do? try giving m some real advice guys!
ok well i can't answer this...you didnt ask me any question!
-lauren
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Hi, i really need some advice. I can't find a good place to get some. Everywhere I've looked, the people give really bad advice on things. Can you tell me a good place to get advice that doesn't suck? Thanks.
-Kid Who Needs Advice
right here kiddo.
-lauren
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i like someone but at sky ranch they said it was like catholicly illegal to like some1!! :-( help me lauren!
its not rly illegal to like someone...but if you consider them as your boyfriend, then as they said you have sinned for liking other boys unless he's your husband! just remember that!
-lauren
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well i asked something but i was talking about people in general then she said i know u meant it about me and i was like how do you know so there is and example o and another example she has to do stuff with people and it has to fit her schedule
well i know this happens a lot with people...and i know you are very annoyed...just be like lets go somewhere tomorrow and maybe every once and while invite her too. but you dont have to everytime..just keep your friendship with her!
-lauren
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ok, well what if you are going out with someone, but you don't really like them and ur planning on breaking up with him. is it ok to like someone else? like while im going out with my bf. sry if its confusing.
hey its laura-
yeah its ok but make sure you break up with your b/f before too long so he doesnt get to mad.
--laura--
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what do you do if your friend takes things too personally and she thinks everything is about her. how do i tell her that evrything is not about her with out hurting her feeling?
its laura
ok well first of all like whats n example of her taking things personally? write me back with that and ill be able to give you better help.
--laura--
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My friend and I keep getting into fights about the dumbest stuff. I am not sure if it is because good friends get into a lot of fights orif it is because we just do not like each other very much. I have been a little stressed out about other stuff and this just adds more weight to my shoulders. I was wondering if you could help me with what to do.
-stressed
its laura--
ok well it is normal for good friends to get in fights, you really dont have a realationship if you dont disagree on some things every once in a while. but if you have a lot of fights over stupid stuff, you might wanna try talking to her about it. if you find out that its b/c you dont like each other very much, you can try to build that relationship so you can be freinds.
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this is frm the jordan situation, we never actually said in words that we were gonna break up, he just started bad mouthing me out of the blue, now its like everyone is against me, im known as the around the block b*tch, it hasnt stopped being the gossip story, every time i walk into a room with any one on my block in it, all i get is stares. i will keep trying to confront them, is there any way that i can confront them, where they have no escape?
p.s. this advicenators thing yall are doing is rly great, i finally get to see someone else's point of view, without anyone judging me! thanx so much!
its laura
ok well im really sorry but i dont know what to say. i guess just keep trying to talk to them until they listen. good luck!
--laura--
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this is a rly long story, but i hope you will listen anyway. my street has like a million teenagers on it, and we are all rly good freinds. but at the time, one of them, jordan, was my bf. he was also freinds with my ex. but anyway, we were all hanging out one night and jordan started getting mad at me me for no apparent reason. he started yelling at me and telling every secret about my life that i had trusted him with. he embarrassed me in front of all my neighborhood friends. i had no choice but to leave. about a day later, my ex was hanging out with jordan and both of them started bad mouthing me to everyone, even ppl i didnt know. everyone is making fun of me, and idk what i did. i have tried confronting them but they are avoiding me, how do i get it through to them that i am very embarrased and we need to settle this?!
hey its laura
oo thats a tough one. first of all, realize that these guys are bullies and if you ever feel like you're getting involved with people like this, don't. also, realize that the mean stuff they are sayin isnt true, their probably just mad.(did you break up with them or did they break up with you?) but, now that you did, since they're bein jerks, you can either let it blow over (which it prbably will) or just keep tryin to talk to them about it. for now though, you also need to make sure that the ppl they're sayin this stuff too know that its not true.
good luck and tell me how it goes!
--laura--
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this is for laura...cuz i think she thinks the same...dont worry lauren ur still the best..haha
ok so one of my friends is always asking me stuff about the guys or what they say about her or tells me to ask them if they like or if i go to a movie and the guys go she asks about that too...i mean i just gets on my nerves and she thinks so much is wrong with her when she is perfectly fine...i get really annoyed and this isnt the same person as in becky's advice thing
-annoy but she is my BFFL-
ok well i think the best thing you can do is to tell the person that she shouldnt be worried about what the guys think about her and if shes that worried about it then she should ask them herself. also about how she thinks so much is wrong, tell her once again not to worry about what everyone thinks of her and that shes fine how she is.
any more ?s just ask
--laura--
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Lauren, at Sky Ranch we rededicated ourselves to Christ, remember? I have found it hard to talk to people about God. Should I still talk to them, even if they make fun of me?
yes definately!! they are probably just jealous of u! but just remember jesus is watching and hes proud of you for believing in him! u might wnna tell them what we learned and how important it is and how good it feels to know jesus is there! :)
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