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hi first off i'm a junior in highschool and the guy i like is a sophomore. this guy and i have a little past, we've made out once for like threee hours. after that we texted and talked a lot, but nothing serious because i'm not one to be in a relationship and i made that sort of clear to him. but now he has a freshman girlfriend and now i want him back because i'm realizing how much i reallly reallly like him. we still text and talk a lot. last night he was going to sneak out with me, but i decided that wouldn't be a good idea and instead we talked on the phone for two hours until two in the morning. do i have a chance? at alllll to get him back. (link)
Are you sure you like him or that the back of your brain is welled up with other emotions?

Take it from me, you might actually like him more than you think, but then again, your brain and emotions might be messing with you.

I think it's a little bit of jealousy that's riddling you right now. I mean, ask yourself right now, would you still feel the same if he weren't going out with a freshman?

It's not your fault, but if you know that you truly like him, and show him that (preferrably after a little while has gone by...), then you should have a good chance at getting him back.

Just make sure your into him, because it might hurt him to see that you went out with him over a silly emotion.

He might feel played, or used.

I'm not sure it that helps, but maybe he's going out with that girl to make someone jealous...?
*hint-hint*

The best of Luck,
-XZ

(In response to your recent comment, just let some time go by...I know that seems hard but I'd do it just in case he actually does like that freshman girl. On the other hand, if you feel that you can't wait any longer, just find the right time when he's alone and start talking to him...and slowly go into the topic. It all depends on how long he's been going out with that girl, and how you talk to him)

P.S.-Wear something nice if you decide to go talk to him!


Ok so blogs arent working on myspace. i dont know if its just my internet in my house, or if other people are having this problem. It started about a month or so ago, everyone's blog WONT load. And the "manage blog" page wont either. pretty much everything that has to do with myspace blogs wont load. I thought it would pass over but it hasnt, and i hav a few blogs i DESPERATLY need to delete, but nothing works, ive tried everything! can anyone help? (link)
This doesn't happen a lot, but I've had a few bugs on Myspace before.

It's either one of these problems:
1. Your Internet (Internet Explorer, Mozilla, Safari, or a Beta Version of a program)
2. Your firewall, (in some rare cases, firewalls can be very annoying when dealing with Myspace)
3. Your computer (Sometimes old computers or certain brands, or who knows what else can slow down stuff)

Try closing out of any other Windows when on Myspace, or downloading a different Internet Program like Mozilla FireFox.

Also, be sure to run a Disk Cleanup on your computer by going to the Start Menu, typing in "Disk Cleanup" in Search (without the quatations)

Hope that helps!
-XZ


okay well me and this boy used to be bestfriends. like sooo close he wuld come over all the time and talk on the phone with me and everything bestfriends shuld do. and then it became more than that for a while now. we just recently broke up and i have a feeling things wont ever be the same. he keeps trying to make a move on me even though we just broke up. i want to be his bestfriend like we used to be but that cant happen if he thinks we're more than freinds...i dont want to be mean and say i dont like you..but it seems like i have to....what do i do, what do i say? (link)
Well, this sort of depends on the reason you guys broke up.
I mean, if it was something he did wrong, or messed up with, he probably wants a second chance, or just wants to prove to you that he's more than what he seems.

But if you just want things back to the way they were, I can only say that you can mend the past and have things go back somewhat to the way they were.

It takes time, but sometimes the best way is to find a quiet time or while you guys are hanging out, start talking about the past, like past memories you enjoyed with him. Before you guys went out.

(Just find somewhere a bit casual to do this, not romantic!)

Then slowly talk to him and sort of imply what's going on. Don't be blunt though, these things take time.
(Be honest but smooth with your words, I'm sure he can sort of feel what's going on as well)

I used to be great friends with a real nice girl once...and I'm wondering if she's thinking the same thing you are.

Slowly but patiently,
-XingZang.

(Tell me if that helps!)


ok so i work at a deli store and theres this guy that im really attracted too...but he seems to be really nci eand into me but at the same time he dont seem to give me much importance what should i do? i am really attracted to him and i cant wait to talk to him? any thing i should do?? (link)
Haha, what sjack said, be sure to look nice! Just don't wear too much makeup!

I'm sure he's just a bit shy, or insecure about his feelings....

We're knuckleheads when we like someone, just take it one step at a time, nothing too drastic r too noticeable.

Make him feel a little comfortable, maybe?
Like a small conversation?

-XZ


Okay, I think I'm about to cry.

My computer recently crashed, and like a normal teenage girl this means that my iTunes has crashed as well. That means, none of my music is on my computer.

Now this has happened before. In which case a friend of mine directed me here:
http://www.kennettnet.co.uk/musicrescue/
And I downloaded this, got my music back, deleted it from my computer, etc.

This here is a new computer, a different IP, and I downloaded it again just fine. So its not that. Its, when I tried to hook my iPod back into the thing and get my music back, it decided to hate on me. It stops on one song for like an hour, and so I cancel the download (which is "Not Responding" at this point), go back in, take the song off the list, and start again. Oops, now its stopping at a different song!

Gosh, all I want is my music back. That's 500+ songs, one movie and two TV shows, only 100 songs are purchased (and, whoop-dee-do, I'm not allowed to get my purchases back either because iTunes says my computer isn't set up for that?).

I've been sitting here for hours, swearing my head off and just TRYING TO GET MY MUSIC BACK ON THIS COMPUTER.

I ask, please, can anyone help me? I know that this hasn't just happened to me, right?
-Bree
16/f (link)
Man, I know what you mean. My music Library is my life! Although my labtop hasn't failed me yet.

So from what I've read and looked at, the program you downloaded seems decent...although not many people use it.

A lot of free programs can sometimes tend to run into bumps in the road.

Anyways, here's my two-cents. I did some research and the only thing I could find was their Help Page.

Link: http://www.kennettnet.co.uk/musicrescue/help/win/index.html

May want to look in there and see if your problem is listed. If not, then all I can say is that the program you're using isn't 100% reliable. Try going to your Control Panel on your computer and clicking on the Programs & Features Icon, then delete the Music Rescue Program from your computer. After that's done, re-install it and see if it works now.

It may have been a problem that occured while it was processing or downloading or who knows what else.

Be sure to close out of any extra programs or windows while the Music Rescue thing is running, just to make sure nothing interrupts it.

(whew that was long...)
Good luck, if that doesn't work, try searching for another program.

-XZ


I have an iphone 3g and today when i took a picture, it mysteriously zoomed in (2x) when i closed it and reopened it, it went back to its normal size. I have been trying to get it to zoom in again, but i dont know how. help??

*hence, i'm not talking about AFTER i take the picture. I'm talking about zooming in BEFORE i take the picture. (link)
Hmmm, I'm new, but I have one of these, so all I can say is try using the "pinch" method when (right before) taking a picture, or play around with it for 3 mins. See what happens.

If there's no luck in that, try the Apple forums on Google.com, they usually have an answer to that.

I think you can even contact an Apple Employee through Email. They respond within 24-48 hours, so give it a shot.

Good luck!




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