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when i lay down in bed my boobs hurt so bad why is that im only 12 and i have huge boobs whats wrong with me

There is nothing wrong with you, youre bra just isn't properly fitted. You need to buy the right size for you, go for a bra fitting. Helps a lot and it also has to do with your age as your only young and your starting to grow more and youre body is going through some changes. The pain will be gone in no time and try getting a well fitted sports bra if you cant get a bra fitting. Nothing to worry about!

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whats the best and fastest way to loose weight

Believe it or not, drinking A LOT of water flushes you out and gets rid of your water weight too and decreases your hunger. Cranberry juice is also used for weightloss and is a successful product as it cleanses your whole system. Try the greentea diet for instance, that and some well determined exercise will knock those pounds off faster than you can say "weight loss"! Not literally !

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I am 15 years old and i am TIRED of straightening my hair everyday. my hair isnt black peoples hair but its close , it is long , reaches 3 inches under my chest and dark brown so should i get a relaxer to straighten my hair permenantly ?

My answer would be no, dont get it relaxed. Its not worth it, it'll damage you're hair in a long run. And you know how important hair is for a girl! There are so many hairstyles you could do, side braids, messy buns, half up half down. Go on youtube.com and type in Simple hair tutorials and look for anything that doesnt involve straighteners. Its filled with many videos showing you how and what to do. Love you're hair because having curly hair adds more volume, and if you get it permed it might look flat and you're bound to regret it.

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20F Ryan- 19

So I seen this cute guy that's on my friends hockey team. We've been texting and he seems like the sweetest guy ever. I don't think he knows how tall I am but I'm a taller girl -I'm almost 5'6 and he's about 5'7. We haven't met in person yet, I'll be going there to watch them play again in about a month. But we're almost the same height. I don't know why it bothers me so much but I can't wear like anything with any sort of heel or I'll be taller than him and it's just awkward, don't you think?? I hope he's not weirded out either that i'm almost taller than him. Ehhhh, what should I do? Has anyone else gone through this issue. Do you think it really matters?

Nope. It doesn't matter one bit if your tall, being tall is great, it even gives you the model edge. I bet you didn't know that, did you! Its natural for you to worry about this kind of thing, who isn't? But if hes as sweet as you say he is then it shouldnt matter, and it wont matter to him either. If you really want to wear heels then i suggest 1 or maybe 2 inches, max. But it wouldnt make that much of a difference, what matters is if you both get along. You shouldnt worry about it at all. Height is only Height, so embrace your model inheritance and strut in you're heels and dont care what others think. People dig that sort of stuff you know!

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Well i am currently 12 years old and i see my older sisters and cousin like having fun and i want that too but the people my age don't know how to have fun the way lets say 16-19 year olds do. I am always at home and my sister is having fun and i can't go with her because you know 16-19 year olds would never hang out with a 13 year old i wishh i was older. Im bored of life already there are no more things to do. Like i used to love going onto the internet but now i usually get no notifications on facebook. And if i was gonna hang out with my sister her friends wouldn't even talk to me i feel like a loser around them soo i usually don't even question when my sis says she's gonna go hang with her friends. I have friends but they can't be out late as i can and they don't do the things i like to do. Usually 7th-8th curfews are like 7pm or earlier.For me i don't even have a curfew well my mom kinda gets mad if im out past 12 but its all good. I dont know what to do anymore everyone around me is getting old all the my cousins and sister. I feel like im being left behind from all the fun do i just wait for a couple of years? But i don't wanna wait at all i feel like a loser with no friends. I go to jr. high they are like almost graduating highschool.
I feel lonely and bored of life i literally don't want any sort of item anymore i got everything i need. I even have my grades at an average. I don't wanna wait but i know my friends won't stop being so immature like every time i hang out with my friends i feel like the adult telling them to stop being so loud to pick up after themselves. My sis said im a little mature for my age i wishh i could go back and be immature again but i just can't anymore. All of my friends are 8th graders well most of them and when they leave for highschool next year i know for a fact im gonna be lonely and actually be a loser now. Im not racist or anything but i prefer to hang out with asians cuz im asian and majority of the 7th graders are mexican what am i supposed to do? and dont say i make new friends with the people already around me.
I also need help with the other topic above..

sorry about my rambling i tend to sometimes give too much info...

well i had alot of confidence like in on August but now its gone. I think im a horrible person, neither am i good looking. I AM A LOSER! *-*

First of all. You are NOT a loser, and don't think that about yourself, ever again. Look, you're only young, and everyone your age is different, with different curfews. You will have to compromise with your friends to stay out and be back home in time for their curfews, I'm sure they'd love to stay out past 12 but they can't do anything about it. My advice to you is that you go out with your friends and have fun as much as they can, and then invite another friend for a sleepover, or a group of you and your friends have a slumber party. You're so young, you shouldnt wish to be older, infact older people wish they were young again. So enjoy it while you still are. Your sisters and cousins do things that are appropriate for their age, we all do different things depending on our age, so you shouldnt envy them about that. Your young and have your whole life ahead of you which means you have plenty of time to do what 16 to 19 year olds do, just wait til your that age, plus your sister and your cousins probably were just feeling like you are when they were 12-13. Everyone goes through it, and to make more asian friends, try to be more social and interact with them. I'm sure there will be plenty at you're school, all you have to do is approach them and be very friendly. Trust me, if you do that they'll think your sweet and approachable. So whats the worse that could happen,right? About facebook notifications, i had a friend who went through the same thing as you. All you have to do is put status's that people are interested in,and write to people and make casual conversations with anyone of you're friends,even if its one you hardly talk to. Theyre bound to be nice to you and you'll have lots of cool friends and a lot of fun before you know it. keep your chin up!

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How do I know if I am depressed ? and If I am depressed how do I tell my parents I'm only 15 can I be depressed at such a young age ? It's just I'm happy when I'm around people but when I'm alone I feel so sad but even when I'm around people inside I'm sad too , and sometimes I think about suicidal things ):
Please Help
15 years old
Female

Hey.
I was exactly like you not that long ago, i know right now it seems like a huge worry but it'll disappear before you know it. You're not that much younger than I am, so i know what you're feeling. When you're depressed you feel Hopeless, helpess, and you think that noone will understand you and you dont know exactly whats bothering you.
My advice to you is dont be hard on yourself when things don't go the way you planned, or the way you wanted and accept the fact that not everything is your fault. The best thing to do is, tell your best friend about it, they'll know you more than anyone else and they will understand. You seem to be upset because you feel there's noone you can tell these things too. But its surprising how much better you feel when you get it off your chest to someone you know and can trust. Dont encourage yourself to suicidal things, it's not worth it. Just think, whenever you're having a bad day, someone else is having a worse one. Keep yourself busy and very social, have will power and dont allow yourself to feel that way. After thunder and lightening, theres a shining rainbow.

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