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so i REALLY wanna be a freshman cheerleader but the problem is when i get in front of the judges i like freeze up and forget stuff like last year i messed up on my cheer and wasn't very loud cuz i was like omg judges so does anyone know how i could get over my fear of the judges?

dont look at themmm ...... stare at a blank spot on the wall behind them... thats what i DO!
good luck HOPE I HELPED
*emily ann *

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What are some good Tan Lotions to use? I don't want to get burnt or Skin Cancer, but I want to get tan!!

Any Ideas?

Thanks!

Sally Hanson (i forget what its called...) its in a bronze arisol can .... here is a picture of it...http://www.epinions.com/content_143264419460

you can get it at CVS WALGREENS any drug store...its reallly good and it dosnt leave any tan lines or turn you orange!!!
HOPE I HELPED
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*Emily*

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ok so i think my parents produced me by having **sex** but im really not for sure. all my friends laugh at me while i pick my nose and i really want to know why!! but my question to you is how do you have sex? because i want to know how to have sex but i dont know how to have sex, and i want to know how to have sex and i would really like your advice... please help me bc im desperate for these answers!!

is this a real question?!!?!?!

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wut do u like in a guy?...i want a big, detailed explaination plzlol

lol .... i like a guy thats outgoing but not cocky, makes me laugh as hard as i can, and isnt afriad to tell me how he feels about me.... a guy that will call me in the middle of then ight just to say i love you ... a guy who talks to me on the phone and when i say im "fine" asks me and whats wrong REALLLY wants to know whats wrong b/c we both know that im in "fine".....a guy that it just waiting until i wake up so he can hear the next thing i have to say .... a guy that hugs me and really means it... a guy that isnt embaressed to hold my hand or kiss me in front of his freinds.... a guy that i can talk to and he will actually listen... a guy that i can mess around with ...a guy that i can come running down the stairs to , my hair a mess and no make up oon and him say HUNNY YOU LOOOK GEORGOUS!!!

it dosnt matter what he looks like... its how me makes me feel and how his personality is..
hope i helped!!
GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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My best friend in the entire world is going out with a guy that I liked..At one point in time I liked him and he liked me..but I never went out with him because my best friend liked him.. I dont know whether or not I should tell her this because, well they look really cute together, but the thing is, is that I think I still like him..
Clueless here..I dont know what to do..

I KNOW WEXCATLY WAHT YOU MEAN! im going through the same thing! wiat it out.. i know its hard.. but you dont want to ruin you relationship! if he still really likes you then he will probably end up going out w/ you at some point. I wouldnt talk to your freind until your absolutly sure that it is the right time and that she wont take it the wrong way and get all jelous! if you need any more help just ask! hope i helped!
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*emily*

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does it mean someone is gothic if all they wear is black? and they dyed their hair pitch black?? thanks

no....mabey they just like black...
*emiyl*

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ok so i straighten my hair every morning... but then an hour later it like goes back to being wavy. is there anything i could do to keep it straight all day?

what kind of straightener do you have? You can also use a straighting shampoo and consitioner. Bed Head makes a very good one.... i think its called "controll freak"---- im not sure tho.. its green lol.....it wont make your hiar tottaly straight but it will help calm the curls or your waves......you can also put a little but of hairspray in your hands and then run it through your hiar....GOOD LUCK hope i helped!!! if you have any more questions.... feel free to ask!
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*emily*

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do girls like guys who shave there dick?

depends on the girl....if its wayyy to hairy... i think thats a turn off! lol keep it "groomed" lol hope i helped
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*emily*

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I was wondering about your thoughts on superficiality.. or the fact that some people find you completely moronic and stupid.. You used to be so smart and everything.. what happened? I mean, what happened to the person that everyone used to know.. it's like you've let yourself fall into the folder of being a cheerleader, or the stereotype of one. But that isn't who you are.. is it? You aren't some giddy and ignorant idiot.. and you aren't some slut who wears too much lip gloss so she looks like she's drooling.. Just some thoughts.. and questions.

i dont think im a slut or ignorant! i am smart.. but i have my moments... i am giddy but whats wrong w/ that? i dont wear too much lip gloss and why would i be drooling? who is this and why are you benig so mean ? last year i was shy and not really my self.. this year i just let go.. and i am who i am and i dont care what ppl think.. and as for the cheerleader stereotype.. i dont think i am .. im no tlike oMG every 5 seconds and im not dumb!
*emily*

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Hey babe,
I was wondering were i could get some cool pictures and Icons for my xanga?! thanks

im not sure about pictures... but i have a few icon subcrptions on my xanga... XoXemOleeXoX....... or you can search under 'user' and type "icons_" and then it should bring up some sites.. some of them may just be reagualr ppls xangas but most will be icon providers.. GOOD LUCK
hope i helped
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*emily*

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whats a good name for a female chihuahua? I rate 5s for really cool and creative names :)

CHA CHA orrrrrr CHICA hahahh lol

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HELP! ive been dating my b/f for 2 weeks and valentines days coming up..i know 2 weeks isnt that long but ive dated him before for a LONG time.(2 years) so what can i get him.. i have no idea ..help!!! hes kinda skater plays guitar n drums..HELP please!

get him a LARGE gift card to Giutar Center or a music store.....and maybe some calone,.. GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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Ok, I finally started crushing on this guy, lets call him Bob, like 3 months ago, or somehting like that. He and one of my guy friends got into a fight before that, so me and Bob never really talked. I didn't evn know who he was. Then..., I started noticing him, and realized his locker was like 8 aways from mine. I was really phsyced ... I mean I'm a freshmen, and I've had a ouple of crushes this year, but nothing serious, like more then 2 weeks until I started noticing Bob. I started to get all these butterflies. Finally, after two months, I got the courage to finally talk to him. I asked him to meet me in the library once and after that we started talking. That's when I reallly fell for him! =) And then we decidedto keep meeting after school at the library and stuff and I called my friend Alice, because I knew she USED to like him and she talked with him, so I thought maybe she could help a sista out. lol. Firstly, I asked if she liked him and she's like 'um, no, i don't think so ... ' and i explained the whole story and told fhger everything. She said she'd talk to him. So the next day, my friend Kyle calls me and says I saw Alice & Bob in the library on top of each other and flirting, so i was like wtf...?! And I called her, and she said she talked to him and he told her he didn't like me. SO I was like oh, ok, I mean what was I supposed to do? ANd she told me how HE *was all over* HER! And I was like, well are you guys gonna go out or what? And she's like no, he's too much, too fast. And the next day I asked him about her. He's like 'wtf, i hate her. what a jealous bitch. i'd choose you over her ANY day, he told me that like 21 times, lol. And he'slike she's just jealous, what a jealous hoe. So then, I just you know, went on with it and then I hear that he wrote here a not later on that say say said dont ever fucking o talk to me you fucking bitch i hate you dont look atme dont talk to me ... etc. so then she strats saying stiuff that the only reason I like BoB is cause she does, which SOO isn't true, cause I asked her in the first place. S me and her aren't talking and we USED to be best friends, so yeah. then here comes the problem, Monday, no school, Tuesday I saw Bob, and said HEY to him, i was shy, lol, and I havn't seen him since. I asked around, and I thought he had ACes(suspension!) but he didn't and I heard that he left to Siberia or somewhere (he's arabian) because its some arabic holiday. BTW, he'sonly 50% arabic. And i did notice that lots of Arabs were missing in school today, so I'm not sure if its that. then I also heard that he went to iraq or palestine or wherever for 2 years and he's coming back his junior year! i was like no, i seriously wanted to cry. then I heard, he moved/transfered. my one friend has class with him and she said he was moving or something bcz he returned his books and yturned in transfer papers so I'm not sure ... He was actually the first guy I've felt reall good about. I mean just when things were going good, things got screwed up. SO does anyone know if there *IS* an ARABIC HOLIDAY? and please I need help with all of this, I don't even know what to do. I'm like obsessed with the guy, I fell for him wasy too soon and he's just gone for sure now without a site. I'm still going to try to talk to his friends but I'm not sure. I just need some help, what to do about all of this. And I CAN'T moce on ... there is NO ONE else.! thanks for at least taking the time to read this!

wow ...well im not sure about the holiday thing but maybe you should get his number and call him ...s.ee whta going on .......as for your friend....talk to her...tell her how you felt about him and how even if he was all over her she should have not let him be! girls are weird about that ...maybe she still liked him and didnt want to tell you b/c she didnt want HER to keep YOU from liking him./////idk hope things work ou
GOOD LUCK
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*emily
((sorry im having a bad advice day))

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On Friday I will be going to a (non-formal) dance i want to know what to wear and how do do my hair and make-up. I need to look hot cuz my crush is going to be there and I'm trying to get him from another girl. I'm 4'6 and have sholder length brown hair and brown eyes. THANX IN ADVANCED!!!

wear jeand with a cute shirt....straighten your hair and use "bio-silk" to make your hair shinny and soft........as for your make-up i dont know your skin tone... but keep it looking natral...if you have a chance there is an AWSOME eyshadow at Ulta called ""Truffle"" its th eUlta brand..and light brown/(SEMI!!)goldish shadow looks good on alomost every one.... but dont use TOO much shadow ..mnay girls use too much and make them selves look fake and caked!.. use eyeliner and bonjoris mascara (IT WORKS REALLY WELL) GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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I have really hairy arms and its embaressing i dont know what to do about it. I cant shave because it will grow back darker and my stomach pluss back is hairy too . does anybody know what i can do?

i know what you are talking about!! i have alot of friends with this problem! i kno wthis sound crazy...but you can simply cut the hair off w/ sisors....dont cut all the way down to your skin just trim it...this works b/c you arnt getting to the root which is what causes the hair to grow back black and faster...

you could get Laser Hair Removal ....but that can be pricy...maybe ask you parents for that for your birthday.....you can also wax your arms and back.......(wich lasts for weeks!) as for your stomach .... i think that you should just shave that .....b/c you wouldnt have to worry about it unless you are having to go in a bathing suit or any thing like that ..that would show your stomach...well GOOD LUCK
hope i helped!
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*emily*

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how do u shrink a shirt...please help!

wash in hot water and dry on hot... GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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i now kno why Nsync* made that song
God Must Have Spent a Little More Time on You
because you are beautiful



so wuts a guy gotta do to get a date
15male btw

lol....i guess IM me? sourlime11

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ok well whenever i'm with like just one or two of my friends i'm really loud and talkative and stuff but whenever i'm with like a big group of people and i'm not like close friends with all of them i start getting really nervous and i get really quiet and i start kind of freaking out and i think everyone is talking about me and i really try not to be like that but even if i try not to everytime im in a big group i end up being like that and i just want to stop being like that...

i think that alot of people are like that ......sometimes when you are in a group of pepople that you dont know you get a little overwhlemed as fo rthe talking about you thing i think that you should be more comfortable w/ yourself and be self confident that way whatever they say wont matter also dont give them a reason to talk about you i used to be like that last year and this year i am SO not lol things change and you will change you just have to be comfortable with yourself! if you need to talk you can IM me on SOURLIME11
GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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wow okay ... very wierd situation.. help! i like my x-boyfriends friends. and when i see him my x-boyfriends there sometimes and i just feel so wierd.. not to mention i still love my x!! but he doesnt want a relationship with me b/c e dont go to the same school. So i dont know if i should continue a relationship with this guy or get over both him and my x? HELP

it depends...if you REALLY like your x..then keep him close and then you will always have a chance...the other guy you could still be with if you like him....i know its weird liking two guys and one more than the other (ive been there) but you just have to go with what you think is best...if things are too akward w/ your bf around your x then maybe you should wait a while to see what you really want...GOOD LUCK
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*emily*

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Ok...So, what do I do if my boyfriend of like 2 years has a crush on my step-mom? My dad married her like 2 years ago,and dont get me wrong, I like her but shes like 25 and she dresses really slutty. Please I need your help.

first of all...set your boyfriend stright..he dosnt have a chance w/ her b/c shes marrie and hes with you !!!
as for the step mom i would talk to your dad...may be for christmas buy her less sluty clothes...maybe you should even sit your step mom down and tell her that you think that she should wear clothes a little less "reveling"
say that some of you friends have said thins and it embaresses you. GOOD LUCK
(sorry im having a bad advice day...) MERRY CHRISTMAS
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*emily*

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