Howdy my name is Shelby, and I am seventeen years old. Im blonde blue eyed and really short. I am great at giving advice, because I have had to take so much of it. I will answer ANY questions you need me to answer. I can give teens better advice than anybody. So come on ask me for some advice, Ill help you! =]]]]
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Okay, this might be a little long. I appreciate any answers I get though. I just got a perm a few days before Valentines Day I believe. Now that wasn't my first perm. I've gotten like 2-3 other perms in the past. I'm really wishing I wouldnt've gotten this perm, but I already did it so I can't complain now. When I was first getting perms, I really loved them. And after finding out that guys really don't like curly hair most of the time, and they like straighter hair, I didn't want this anymore. It's also the fact that my hair is just so frizzy, but I'm sure it won't always be like that. Before I even even got one perm in my life, my hair was already naturally wavy and very thick. I couldn't stand it really. Everyone always told me I had beautiful hair, but I never did anything with it. I needed a change, and that's when I got a perm. Well when I went in February to get my perm, I hadn't gotten a perm for like a year, so by that point my perm was pretty much completely gone. The lady at the salon cut my hair first (they're normally supposed to wait till after they perm your hair for this), and she gave me long layers. I've always loved long layers. Well my hair looked great when she first cut it, and layered it too. It felt so healthy again, and my hair looked as if it was back to normal. But I still wanted my perm, so my sis paid for me to get it done. Getting a perm has been the only outrageous thing I've ever done with my hair, and I won't dye it. I guess what I'm trying to say is I hated my hair when I first got it permed, since the lady cut my hair way too short. It's already grown back some, so it doesn't look as bad. I still get compliments here and there about my hair. But I really just need my old hair back. I wanna be able to just get out of the shower, brush my hair, and be done with it really. So I know this is probably extremely stupid, and a waste of everyone's time, but how long does it take for perms to go away? And is there anything at all I can do to make it go away quicker? I know they stay in for a long time, but I really am not liking it anymore, and don't know what to do. At some point will my hair look like it used to again? I don't want it to be curly anymore, I just want the old wavy hair. I know perms damage your hair, but maybe it won't be completely damaged since I don't always do outrageous things to it. I'm not going again to get my hair cut for a long time, because I actually want it to grow out and get longer. My last question is if I let my hair grow out, and go to get my hair trimmed or cut again, is that just gonna give it more of a curl again? (Which I don't want) Or will I be one step closer to having my old hair back? :( I don't know what's gotten into me, because I used to like these. I have a hard time when I get mean comments tho, or can't get guys to think I'm attractive. If I really didn't ask this question in a way that makes sense, I hope someone understands, and can answer for me. I'll rate, and I really hope someone can help me out, or make me feel better in some way. Thank you for your time. P.S. - Straightening my hair is an option, but that'll damage my hair too if I do that too often, and it takes up too much time. (link)
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Okay girl, this is what im going to say. Guys absolutely LOVE curly hair. ALL of the time! But if you just aren't loving the new due then here's what you need to do. Get a straightening kit from target, wal-mart, etc. Before using the new kit you want to give yourself a deep conditioning treatment to protect your hair from any potential damage. Do this the day before you plan to straighten the hair.When you are ready to straighten your hair, wet your hair and towel dry it. Apply the waving lotion (perming solution) to the wet hair and comb it through your hair using a wide-tooth comb. Be sure to completely saturate all the hair. Depending on the length of your hair, you may need to enlist the aid of a friend. The important thing here is that you be able to comb your hair and allow it to hang straight. If your hair is long, you will want to have a friend combing the hair while you lean back and keep your hair hanging over a deep sink or the bathtub.
Continue combing the hair with the waving lotion on it for 10 minutes. At this point take a look at the hair and you should see that the curls have relaxed and that the hair hangs straight. If this isn't the case, leave the waving lotion on the hair and keep combing for another 5 minutes, until the curls do relax. Then rinse the waving lotion from the hair using very warm water. Continue rinsing for a full 3 minutes so that you get all the lotion from the hair.Once rinsed, use a towel to blot the water from the hair. You can squeeze the hair inside the towel, but don't rub the hair. At this stage you can damage the hair easily. Once the excess water is removed, apply the neutralizer to the hair and comb it through exactly as you did with the waving lotion. Continue combing the neutralizer through the hair for five minutes.
After five minutes, rinse the neutralizer from the hair using very warm water for a full five minutes. Finish up the rinsing with cool water for another minute. (The cool water helps to close the cuticle layer.) Apply conditioner and rinse it through the hair if desired. The conditioner step us useful to prevent tangles and make combing out the hair before drying easier.
Once again, use a clean towel to blot away the excess water. Remember to pat and squeeze to remove the water, do not rub. You can allow the hair to finish drying naturally, or use a blow-dryer on the lowest heat and air-flow settings. While drying, use a vented brush to control the hair and keep it smooth.This process will remove the permed curls, and give you straighter hair. Be sure to follow up by conditioning your hair every day to restore the moisture and help to reclose the cuticle layer, even if you don't shampoo.
Shelby =]
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How do you put on a condom? (link)
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Read the back of the condom box, It tells you everything. And if you don't know how to read then I suggest that you don't have sex.
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what do i do if my boyfriend brother i use to talk to is trying to break us up telling himm lies and telling me lies please help im 17 and female (link)
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Hey girl.
I know exactly what you're going through.
But the most I can tell you is to talk to his brother about why he is doing this to you and your boyfriend. Also talk to your boyfriend about it, tell him the truth about everything. It's hard in this type of situation, because guys usually tend to choose family over girls.
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