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Hi Im Shandy ! Im 16 years old and my Birthday is December 1st ! I am a christian and i love the Lord with all my heart ! My parents are divorced and i have one lil brother his name is Brandon and he is 5 years old. I have a bf who is the greatest his name is Drew Plemmons and im deeply in love with him we have been dating for almost 3 months now ! If u wanna know anything else just ask away ! I hope i will be able to give all of u great advice ! Thanks for looking at my column! :)
E-mail: Shandiebaby11@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Mount Pleasant, NC
Occupation: Student Im a senior in high school and im homeschooled
Age: 16
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Member Since: August 12, 2004
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How do u put on liquid eye liner????? i rate high! (link)
Like pull your eye to the side like ur trying to make ur eye look like a chinese person lol is the only way i know how to describe it ! Then just do it straight across ! Good luck ! MAKE UP ROCKS ! FEEL FREE TO ASK ME ADVICE ANYTIME ! PeAcE !


hi, i have this major crush on this guy who's been my best friend for basicly ever.i told him how i felt and he sed it was fine w/e u know? but now he acts like he's scared of me and he's like acting all paranoide with me which is something i told him i didn't want happening between us just cuz i like him,and thats why i didn't tell him, he sed it was fine nothing like that could get between us! He's even meen once in a while so obviously it did get between us! wha should i do, what's happening?

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I think its totally awesome that u told him how u feel ! Some people are friends forever and are in love and they never tell the other person ! If i was u i would call him up and invite him over ! I would ask him if he likes u too and i would tell him that u want to act normal and still be like best friends! If he likes u too then u may just have u a new bf and a great best friend ! Hope i helped feel free to ask me advice anytime !


ok well my friend Christine says stuff about me and my other friend behind our backs and we hate it so we asked her why and now she says she didn't say anything when tones of pplz tell us she said stuff what should I say to her to make her spill out the truth or should I stop being friends with her?? (link)
I would ask her one more time ! Say to her listen..even if u did talk behind my back I'd rather know now so we can resolve the problem if she still says she never did it u have 2 choices..U could either give her a second chance and if u hear the rumors again stop hanging out with her..or U could just say lets not hang out as much !


My name is Christine and I'm a 13 year old girl. I don't know what to do, I can't trust most of my friends anymore and everyone is pissed at me, I don't know what i did! One of my friends, Chantal, doesn't keep any of the secrets I tell her amd now she's mad at me cause she said I talked behind her back, but I didn't...what can I do??? (link)
People are either your friends or they aren't ! Tell the gurls say listen im too mature to act like this either be my friend all the time or no time ! Just tell them how u feel and tell them u are sry if u did hurt there feelings but u didn't mean it ! They should def. understand and if they don't then i suggest that u make new friends ! :) Hope i helped come to ask me advice anytime!


i was talking to my boyfriend last night.. and we were jokeing around and he broght up somthing about him and his x-gf kissing.. and i mean it was when they were going out and like that didnt bother me... but he talks about her alot.. like fun thngs they used to do... and it like hit me that he had been "in love" before too... and well.. i know how all my relations ships and my feelings havent compared at all to this one... but i have no idea about his...... how do i ask him.. he always tells me just to talk to him about it.. but im scared to.. i dont know why.. i know he wont think twice to tell me everything... but still.. i dont know how to bring it up! (link)
Just be honest with him..U can't have a good relationship without talking things through.. Just ask him say sweetie..I was wondering have u ever felt like this (u and him) with any other gurl ? And im sure he will tell u ! Don't stress over the small things gurl ! If he loves u and treats u good stay with him ! Hope i helped !


me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months.... and we met at church camp where i asked jesus into my heart for the first time.. and that totally changed my life.. but then when we got home all reality came back.. i had used to be really bad.. such as have sex and drink... and well now i stopped all that and my boyfriend is really religious... and he found out about all that and he told me that when you ask jesus into your heart the first time all your sins from that past are forgiven... and he told me he loves me for who i am now and my past doesnt matter to him.... but now.... we were like in my pool and he get touchy feely.. and im not like that anymore.. we still didnt do anything or anthing. .but it scares me cuz i think that he might try to do something i dont want to.... and also... people sign his buddy profile guest boook telling him lies about me haveing sex with a 21 year old and stuff like that... and he still worries.. and ill tel lhim they arnt true.. but it still bothers him.. i dont know what to do... and my parents are leaving for a week and ofcourse me n him are ganna hang out... i just dont wanna do anything that we will regret... and i dont know how to tell him that without embarrasing him.... please help me!!!!! (link)
Girl I have been in the same boat ! I asked Jesus into my heart about 6 months ago and it changed my whole life. You should sit down with your boy friend and tell him that you think the two of you should pray about it and try to wait to do sexually stuff when you get married. If he loves you and cares about what God thinks he will totally understand ! Also congrats on giving ur heart to Jesus he is soo awesome he is the friend that will never let u down ! Feel free to ask me questions anytime ! :)




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