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Know any christain websites? (link)
http://www.christiantop1000.com/

this website has tons of different christian websites to choose from! i hope i helped some!


I have a huge problem.....I'm a failure at everything in life . All my previous friends have told me so and my whole family is CONSTANTLY telling me that I'm a failure. Even people who don't know me personally, tell me that I'm a failure when they hear about me. So , what they're saying (that I'm a failure) is true, since so many people have told me the same thing. Before, hearing that statement would motivate me to work really hard. And it would work because I would achieve my goals, temporarily. Now, whenever anyone tells me I'm a failure, it doesn't motivate me anymore. Instead, I get really sad and stay in my room alone and cry. I even skip going to college because I'm so sad and don't want to be annoyed by anymore people telling me the same thing. I already have depression and am taking medication for it, so hearing this statement from people doesn't help. Now my question is: HOW DO I GET OVER THIS? HOW DO I MOITIVATE MYSELF AND STAY MOTIVATED? HOW DO I PROVE TO EVERYONE THAT I'M NOT A FAILUTRE? Sorry for the long letter. Please, no smart alecs. (link)
the first thing is that you can't believe everything other people tell you. if you start beleiving that, that is all that you will think about. just tell yourself that you can do it and you know you can. one thing that you can do to make yourself feel better is to sit down with a notebook and pen and list all of the good things in your life. like your accomplishments, physical traits, things other people like about you, and ect. i am sure that you can think of some great things. then, when you are feeling really down, go read the list that you made and it will make you feel better. i tried this and it worked for me.


Hey Guys. This Question Isn't Gonna Be Long, But I Really want a boyfriend. I havent like went out with anyone in like 4 years. Yea I know..Loner. But No one (guys) likes me. I'm Ugly, Fat. You Name it. Everything About me is messed up. Whats wrong with me Guys? (link)
nothing is wrong with you. something is wrong with the guys. every girl is beautiful. when you do find that right guy, he will love you for who you really are, not what you look like anyways. i have been ready for a relationship too, but my friends just tell me to enjoy living my life the way it is, not longing for something you don't have. we will only be young once, so live your live in the "now". i hope i helped!


Ok so my parents keep on asking me what i want for chrismas!!! I dont know what i want
I am 13 years old....tom boy...i DONT want grly grl stuff...i dont wear make up!!!
The only thing i know i want is a pair of shoes that are shocks!!!
Can you please think of some thing i could like for chrismas
EVERYBODY who answers will get a 5!!!
Even if i dont like that stuff!!! (link)
this sounds exactly like me! i have the same problem. go for the gift cards or cash. just tell them what stores you want the gift cards for and then you can choose what you want. it makes you both happy!


14/f
me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a month and a few days and when im around him i cant speak. he makes me so happy and im always smilin and he even said i dont tell him things. i want to tell him things but we only talk on AIM and when we r at skool we might see each other maybe 4 times for like a few minutes. i love him with all my heart and he means the world to me. before we were goin out i could tell him anything but now i lose all my words and when he says somethin i just laugh or somethin. how can i talk to him like i do everyone else?pleae help (link)
i had this exact same problem! i would just make myself forget that he was my boyfriend and treat/talk to him like a friend. the only problem with our relationship was that he had the same problem too. good luck with your relationship! hope it works out for the best!


what types of precautions should a person take before taking part in sexual activities if they have never had sex before? (link)
dont have sex


There is this boy at school that I like and we are very good friends should I ask him out or not. (link)
Wait and let the guy (or guys in this case) ask you. Maybe just flirt a little (not too much!) and hope he makes the first move. If you are really good friends, do NOT ruin a friendship over going out.


I have this friend and lately her parents divorced. At first she wouldn't tell me but then she did and she started crying. I feel really bad for her, how can i make her feel better? She keeps on saying that people will think that she is a divorced child.. But she really isn't. Shes so nice. (link)
just give her what she probably needs-a good friend who will listen and keep her secrets. just give her love and flood her with positive things. also tell her not to worry about what other people think, only what God thinks matters.


I have been looking for some shorts for summer. I like SHORT shorts. Does anyone know where I can find khaki or denim shorts that are short? (Lately, everyone has been selling the long, bermuda shorts) (link)
I think that you should give the longer shorts a try, they can be really cute. The reason people are selling longer shorts is that the short ones give other people the wrong idea about you. It makes people have wrong thoughts. Just buy 1 pair of the long ones and give them a try.




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