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Q: i told the guy that i love so much that i loved him and he told me he was in love with someone else. i have never been in love with someone i have never dated, i have only loved one other person and he broke my heart. i so lost and confused cause i thought that the guy i loved doesnt feel the same way about me he doesnt even like me enought to give me a chance and that hurts. i work with him and that makes things even worse. my life continues to go on but my heart stops beating. i dont know what to do i just want my heart to stop hurting and for someone to love me as much i as i love them.
I know its hard, but that's one of the many traumas of life. Im guessing your high school age? You have so much time to find someone to be with for the rest of your life. And i personally believe there's someone out there for everyone. You just have to keep going out and meeting new people, not many guys in high school are ready for a serious relationship. Find some hobbies to keep your mind off him, and don't let him drag you done, EVER. Good luck.

Q: im 19 m and my gf is 18 and 7 months pregnant..shes emotional as hell and cries all the time..even when im with her..im away alot cus i play baseball and thats what i do for a living and she understands..waht can i do to makes her happy? please help me..thanks
Make a few romantic gestures, take her out to dinner, get her her favorite ice cream, take her out somewhere and open doors for her and whatever else. Since she is pregnant it is going to bring out a lot of hormones but it's normal and to be expected. Just show her you care. She'll love it. Good luck.

Q: 17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high
You may have an anxiety disorder, if it continues and you just keep breaking down, ask your mom to take you, or where you, yourself, could go to see a doctor for it. It is an actual condition that affects a lot of people. Good luck.

Q: is it normal for a guy to be exhausted after having sex for the first time?
After exerting yourself that much, you're lucky if you're not tired. Plus all the adreniline and excitment its causing, yes, it's perfectly normal.

Q: ok my girlfriend has a abusive dad. hes always drunk and beating her. yesturday when i was visiting my girl, he was beating her up, i just got really mad. i couldnt control my self and i pushed him away. and i guess he was drunk and i was really angry he would beat up katy like that, but i beat him up pretty bad. am i right?
It was a nice try. But ultimately youre doing the same thing he is, except on him instead of your girlfriend. This could get even more dangerous. Get her away for awhile, and if it comes down it you're going to have to call CPS. I know its a hard move, but the only way to get him to stop is to get him away from her. Abusives don't like to be told theyre wrong.

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