i try to be as real as i can be. i'll be honest with you and if i can, i will answer as many questions as possible. i won't tell you to do the easiest thing or the most convenient. i care about doing the right thing, but i can list the possibilities. it's your decision, so please don't blame me if you feel like you've made a mistake. i just pointed out what you can do.
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okay so theres this guy who used to have a thing with my best friend. but now there just really good friends. then i met him threw her. me and him flirted a lot. talked online for like 5 hours straight almost everyday. just talking about everything. i love talking to him. he kind of has a girlfriend. well they broke up and now there sort of together but they dont call eachother boyfirned & girlfriend. so hes still single. but they have a kind of thing. & hes told me a few times he likes me more then her. if thats true why do you still like her? ugh so confusing. so i went to a party with my best friend that is friends with the boy i like. nd me nd her were jokin and telling everyone we hooked up with a ton of guys. so she told him that and he was mad. for some reason mad? then he told me he was jealous and sad too. i dont understand why he is if he lieks the other girl? ahh im so confused. should i tell him i like him? should i forget it happend? hellp!!! (link)
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i think you should tell him. a boy wouldn't be angry and jealous like that unless if it was a really over-protective brother.
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my bf went to 2nd with this girl he used to date and they didnt even like each other very much and it didnt mean anything but he knew she was experienced and wanted to get some experience lol. anyway so they made out and went to 2nd and i know 2nd base doesnt seem like that much but for the types of people he and i are thats pretty far. both of us are saving our virginity and possibly 3rd too. [2nd base=touched her breasts btw in case you didnt know] soo i cant let go of this. i am so jealous of this girl. i probably could let go if i wanted but i dont want to get past it either. i just want to know why you guys think i care so much.
my bf thinks when we go to 2nd i wont care anymore but im not sure. he and i could go there in a couple months or w/e but i dont know if that would make it go away. that was his first kiss, first gf, and first time going to 2nd! it makes me so angry. he has dated other girls i totally dont care about but she was the one he went to 2nd with and it bothers me sooo much!!!
can anyone please help me? i want to know why i feel this way before i try to get over it. i dont feel inferior and my bf tells me he loves me and what he has done with me means way more than what he did with her. but he liked it-he has that memory with her and always will. i can just picture them making out and him going to 2nd with her and it upsets me so much!!! i am the first one he said i love you to and i know he cares but even when he tells me she didnt mean anything it doesnt matter to me because i am still upset.
he thinks its because i feel like she has something on me and when he and i get there i wont care anymore but i dont know if that will make me feel better or not. for some reason this means a lot to me with our relationship yet he doesnt understand why. he knows im jealous and he knows it was a mistake but i still am upset.
can anyone please help me? just tell me what you think could be it because i am trying to find out myself and i cant figure out why i am so upset and dont want to let go and feel like i cant get past this. thanks soo much!!! :]
oh and he doesnt like her and doesnt talk to her-hes seen her a couple times and told her he just doesnt want to talk to her or anything and hes the one who dumped her (link)
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jealousy is a natural human emotion. even though we may not like it, it's natural. some people are jealous over things like these because they're afraid of the other person going back to their ex because it was their first time and they may have mistaken that for love. you could have a fear of losing him.
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Hey. :]
I'm currently 16 and in the eleventh grade, and Adam is in the same grade as I am, but he's a year older. Both of us are single, as we have been for awhile. I have never liked anyone as much as I like him.
He's perfect. He has a 4.2 GPA, he's gorgeous (and the envy of lots of other girls), he is in the top choir at our school, and he plays varsity baseball. He's the perfect height for me, and our senses of humor mesh so well. We definitely make each other laugh and have a lot of fun together.
On and off, I've liked him since the sixth grade. However, there was like a 3-year block when I didn't even think about him.
He has been sending me mixed signals. For example, when I asked him if he was busy at sunset (I was doing a photo shoot and I wanted him to swing by so I could take some pictures of him.), his response was, "Sadly, yes. :(( What are you doing?" We're talking more and more each day, and I compliment him a lot. He initiates conversation pretty much as much as I do.
His friends aren't my biggest fans, but I am friends with a lot of them. We share some of the same friends.
I don't want to put our friendship on the line by telling him how I feel, but I do kind of want to test the waters.
I just can't differentiate between friend feelings and girlfriend feelings.
Thank you. :]
(Oh, and please type correctly.) (link)
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he may either be teasing you or he really likes you. but from this, i really don't know. boys can be diffilcult, especially when it comes from things like these. i liked my friend also, but i told him. our friendship didn't change at all, so we remained the same. i don't regret telling him at all, but here's the infameous line: "follow your heart"
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i like my best friend i have for so long. he used to like me. we didnt wana do anything to loose our friendship. but it pretty much is gone. we had a very rough time for a while. but we stuck threw that. if we could stay in a relationship and make it work the breakup wouldnt hurt that bad if were still that close i just am not sure at all what to do... HELP ME PWEEEEEEEESE (link)
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in a relationship, there will be tears, joy, flames of passion burning, a beginning, and endings. when the flame burns out, it may rekindle, but not necessarily in the same way it was once before. if you're willing to make an effort, then try it. love does hurt, but knowing it hurts makes you human.
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i guess i kinda like this girl. im 13 in 7th grade shes 14 in 8th. were in catholic school. im very mature im just the kind of guy she would like but why doesnt she? same music same style. shes so hott she thinks shes ugly. she dresses all gothic and emo. shes the funnest girl youd ever meet but then she ends up so depressed and mad. ive been to great skate and kinda stayed with her once she thinks im hott but she dont like me she likes a dork. shes just soooo cute. she doesnt try and follow everyone like everyother girl at my school. she trys to stand out she tells the robots as she calls them to just fuck off. she does what she wants and it works. she says she only likes this one guy who at the moments i hate to much but i dont even know him they are always with eachother their like their best friends. she loves the same music i like and more. she plays electric guitar. loves photography and is so good as im told. she sings so good. her favorite bands are marilyn manson and evanescence. she loves partying. i doubt she even knows i know all this about her. i doubt she knows my name. she says im a player tho. i have a girlfriend but i still like her and she said she never wasted her time. shes just the girl of my dreams but this years almost over and she might move shes goin to highschool maybe down to mexico. i just dont know what to do!!! just please help me!
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well, this is a common thing for people to get into. i'd say tell her before you regret it. if you don't tell her, then you might end up spending the rest of your life wondering "what if?" i can tell you something that happened to a romantic couple i know, but i don't want to bore you. to be frank, tell her and you won't have regrets. if it works out, i say congradulations to you
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