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Q: Hey how long after you get your tonsils out, does it hurt for? I just got them out on monday and it still hurts really badly. Thanks will rate
it maybe will hurt for a week and half if u eats lotz of ice cream that will get rid of it just eat lotz of cold things hope i helped XoshannonoX

Q: i got this shirt and it says "better forget it cause you'll never get it" ..is that a bad shirt, would people think im wierd?
HUNNY i would love to have a shirt that says that be proud of who you are and do what u thinks best but i would wear that shirt i want one now lol hope i helped! XoshannonoX

Q: hi im 13 yrs old and i just started my period i have no one to talk to and i am running out of the supplies i got at 'the talk' i dont have a mom or any sisters or brothers .. just a dad...... how do i bring up this subject with a guy?
tell your dad u have started your aunt flo and u need supplies for her ! hope i helped! XoShannonoX

Q: I really like this guy and i think he likes me back... i know him pretty well... any good flirting tips?
hunny always wink at him he always try to link arms with him and tell him his sweet and everytime his around act like u like another guy stare at another that will make him come on to you! hope i helped XOShannonOX

Q: I am Male 13.

I have liked this girl now for 5 years.We are the best friends you could ever hope for. But she doesn,t like me any more than just being friends. Now for a while I was fine with it, I just kept thinking I dont like her anymore and it worked,m for a while. I went to camp over the summer and she met,What she called a really hot boy. This made me realize I still like her. Now when ever i am around her I hurt. Now heres the question i dont know if i should quit being her friend or talk to her which is really hard when on the subject of me and her. Plus it doesn,t help that i feel stupid for feeling this way, should I feel stupid.
hunny dont feel stupid what it is your puppy loving it when u have a crush on someone 4 a while or sum quit years then it will soon leave cause maybe she is not the one so yea u can talk to her maybe just like alot like you have been doing ok i hope i helped XoShannonoX

Q: I never got my period yet I'm 13/F.
Every so often (Like once or twice a month) I get these cramps that make me want to cry and I have to sit or lie down when I get them. When I got home from school today I got them and its excruciating pain I mean like bad enough to cry over. These cramps hurt SO bad. It feels like someones stabbing me and slowly pulling the knife out and torturing me. After I get these cramps I can't walk anywhere for like an hour. Do you think I'm going to get my period soon. (My mom got hers at 10)
It sounds like you are going to get it i got mine when i was 13 so . . . u probally will start within 2weeks you dont want to start believe me! i hoped i helped XoShannonoX

Q: ok, my question is kind of stupid, but i could really use some help.
for the record, im 15/f (soon to be 16)
i honestly, dont want to be this way, and i am not at all looking for attention, but i honestly do believe i am suffering from a few mental-illnesses, depression, OCD, paranoia, and schizophrenia.
i have done a little bit of research on all of these problems, and i seem to fit it pretty well.
i want to tell my mom, so i can get help, but i am afraid she wont believe me, because she never believes me when i talk about things like this.
neither does my father, a few years ago i even said i was going to kill myself and they both responded with "yeah, ok, whatever"
and im just seeking advice in how to ask my parents, or if any of you know how to cure these problems on my own, thanks in advance. ill rate.
ok when you feel depressed you need to take deep breaths and think about something happy then w/e your thinking about you just need to come straight up and tell yours parents that hey i got problems and tell them your dead serioous and you need help badly dont be scared you need to sit them down and talk to them . . . .


ok if they take you to your docter you can get sleep medicine called tradzone and it will make you sleep great at nite i have the same problems you do so dont feel bad i know what you are going threw! ! ! i hoped i helped XoShannonoX

Q: ok i need to go get a physical.. i want to know a couple things.
1) what do they do? i noe it is a check up but do they like touch you like places "down there"
2) is there anything need to do be4 gettin a physical??

thanks so much
All they do is make sure your in good condtion before u do what your gettin for you physical but no they do not touch u down there!

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