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Member Since: June 7, 2006
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Last Update: October 24, 2007
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Well first off, my boyfriend is going away for training for the army wich is for half a year, and the most i didnt see him for before was only for two days. Idk what to do i still want to be with him, But he doesnt trust me, he thinks im going to do stupid stuff because hes gone. & im not because it wouldnt be worth it , but how do i get him to trust me, and how do i cope with his leaving, and how do i comfort him about him not knowing whats going in my life.
second off, i hurt all the time, i mean its over little things to. Like i hate it when my boyfriend has conversations with girls or when another girl makes him smile, but i always try and tell myself that hes my boyfriend not there and this never works. i dont keep my boyfriend from his friend girls but i dont want to hurt. We have discussed this topic more than once, But i cant seem to make myself happy about the situation. Please help me on to fix this.
any answer would be apreciated (link)
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Hello,
I've had some trust issues with my girlfriend before still kinda do...When it comes to trusting you're lover sometimes you have to show them how much they mean to you & how losing them would hurt you...My girlfriend has lied to me a few times about things & we found ways to work through them...I left on vaction for a month to another state & the whole time i wondered if she was doing something bad behide my back until i called her & she was in tears the whole time i was gone...You have to show you're boyfriend how much he means to you & how losing them is the last thing you want...Also with the whole trust thing show him you're cell phone records or anything that will help show you wont be doing anything but missing him....
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ok, so i've liked this guy for a little bit but he's never shown interest in me before. Now he's suddenly started flirting with me and he's even tried to kiss me but he won't act like this in school. He'll only do this when we're hanging out alone with some friends. He's also notorious for being the biggest flirt in the world. I don't know what to do! (link)
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Well if the guy's to scared of showing his feelings for you in school then a relationship would most likley never workout between you two...If you cant show you're feelings for someone in public then theres something wrong...It could be since he's a flirt that he still wants to flirt with other girls in your school an dont want them knowing he does that wiht you two....Also if the guy is notorious for being the biggest flirt in the world then chances are that he would do it uif you two where goin out he may even cheat on you...It all comes down to if you trust him.....
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ok well ive kissed 2 guys (im 15) but like, they werent like real.. like i didnt even like those guys .. and now whenever like a guy likes me or wants to get with me and like even if i want to too, i get really like nervous and akward, and it just ends up never happening. and its so frustrating because i want like a relationship like some of my friends have, but i just get so hesitant like i dont wanna do something wrong or like im scared to let someone into my life. how can i just let go and go for it? (link)
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My girlfriend used to be the same way never letting me in and it used to make me mad not knowing what was on her mind...So you shouldnt be scared of letting someone in because if you never do then you'll never know how it feels...You never know it could be the worst thing or the best but you dont know till you try...An with the whole getting nervous an feeling akward everyone feels that way atleast once in there life thats called life...If you really want a relationship that bad you should just forget all about feeling akward & nervous or thingking you may do something wrong and find the relationship you want...
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