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omg ppl can rite anything they want too! and speel anything that they want to and btw give btr advise! (link)
Read the rules, it says you have to spell things right. And my advice is perfcetly fine, look at my rating.


me n my boyfriend want to take a shower together.. but we dont know what we should do... does anyone have any cool ideas of what to do in the shower???? Thanks i rate 5's
~*wet - n - wild*~
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Just make out in the shower! thats always fun =)


Sometimes if I can't fall asleep at night- I'll drink one or two smirnoffs, or a mikes hard lemonade, and then I pass right out. I don't do this often and I know I don't have a problem. I'm most definitely not an alcholic- I know my limits and I'm not irresponsible. I was just wondering if anyone knows a better way to get some sleep without having to drink. I'm scared of sleeping pills, so those aren't an option. Thanks. (link)
Drinking hot tea is proven to help you fall asleep!


This may end up getting lengthy, but the situation is complicated...

My circle of friends is made up of married couples, people who have BFs or GFs and single folks. We are all in our late 20's, early 30's and we all pretty much met in college (not all the same college, though).

Anyway, there is one particular girl in our group that has a habit of dating the guys in our group. The first time this happened, the rest of us were happy for the two of them, but unfortunately, their relationship did not last long (about 3 months) and it ended badly. We then had to endure a period where the two of them could not be invited to the same group functions because they couldn't stand the sight of each other. Things were really awkward. That was a while ago (about 3 yrs), and now we are all able to hang out together again, but things are still strained between them. She harbors animosity towards him and still speaks badly of him when his back is turned.

A couple of months ago, she started going out with a different guy friend of ours (who IS aware of her previous relationship with guy friend #1). It has been hard for most of us to support them because we remember what happened last time. We really don't want to go through that awkward period again if things don't work out. Add to that the fact that the two of them have some major differences in thinking when it comes to things like religion and sex before marriage and you can see that this relationship is most likely doomed.

This whole thing is causing our circle of friends to unravel. Instead of doing things together, no questions asked, invitations are now met with, "Are THEY going to be there?". Some of us feel that it's better to avoid them entirely than have to pretend to be happy about their relationship. Myself personally, seeing the two of them together frankly grosses me out.

I should add this bit of information about this girl: she is an only child and extremely introverted. I feel the reason she becomes attracted to the guys in our group of friends is because those are the only men she is exposed to! She has always refused any attempt the rest of us has made to get her in a public setting where she might meet some other single guys. (And she's a cute girl! She would have NO problems meeting someone.)

Now the questions:
Is there an unwritten law that friends should not date friends?

Should we just keep our traps shut and hold the I-told-you-so's until they are warranted?

Should we hold a mass intervention with these two and let them know how we all feel?

Should the chance at *love* be sacrificed for the good of the group?

Honestly, the longer this thing goes on, the more disjointed our friendships are going to get unless we do something soon. Your sound advice will be MORE than appreciated.

Thanks,

R.P., 31/F/NC (link)
Let her go out with who she wants, its not your call. You don't have to be involved with her relationships. Get over it. Your an adult.


i spent most of my time talking ,playing ,hanging with my friend Amy my best friend and we made a promise to always be friends for ever no madder what hard and the good times and we have kept that promise sence kindergarden ,always been there for each other now im 13 and just stared my 7th grade year wondering where Amy was she wasn't there the last day went camping in maine with her 5 cuzins and a few more of her weird relitives and i knew she wasnt doing good in school but not so bad they had to keep her back .she couldnt call me i spent my summer in rodeo california and i live in new hampshire so i know now she stade back i ahev no other friend sad to say amys my sister not realy but i dont have a sister so shes the best i have i have no one to catch me when i fall i hit the floor harder then ever and no one is there to help me back up what do i do i cant see her and im all alone and ........i dont ko what to do i dont realla have a question ever though i need a big answer

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trapped with no one who cares
to,
hopefully someone with the words of wisdon
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First spell words correctly and make your question make sense. I could barely understand anything you said.


not to sound like a complete loser but how do you hook up with a guy and like where do you put your hands and how fast do you move your tonge

i rate high! 14/f (link)
Usually people put their hand around their waist or on their cheek. The kissing will come naturally, and usual the guy will kind of lead. Have fun! =)


okay...this guy told me that i had sex appeal today and i dont know if i should have taken it as a compliment or an insult.

so could someone tell me what sex appeal is and if its a compliment or and insult.

BTW: im 13/f and i rate 5 for NONsmartass answers. (link)
It just means he thinks your hot or sexy..its good thing!


ok sorry this is long but i will rate high
i know this guy i went on this like holiday were loadsa people went to and he was there and there were partys on the beach and stuff and we were flirting..but he has a girlfriend but some nights she wasnt there so we flirted loads.
but then they kinda split up coz she saw he got my number somehow and everyone told her he fancies me...and i fancy him like hell..and hes so cute and i get depressed about it..but now hes still with his girlfriend but his friend txt me asking me all this stuff like do i fancy him and stuff and that hes sure that hes getting bored with her and stuff..and hes really sweet and not the kinda guy to use u...so sorry its soooo long but wat shall i do go for it..o yea aswell hes 2 yrs older and the girl 1yr so other girls might hate me for this...so wat shall i do go for it??
im so sorry its so long but i really need help!!!
thanx
xxxxx (link)
Go out with him..nothing wrong with it.


ok this is my friends account cuz i dont have time to make my own right now...

ya know how everybody thinks that guys just wanna get down your pants and all they think about is sex? well is it normal for a girl to be like that?

and also i have this weird stretchmark things on my boobs, is this normal? (link)
Both of those things are completely normal! i'm really horny to =) and i also have stretch marks on my boobs, it just means that your boob grew fast


this girl like made out with her sister like 3 times! shes going into 7th grade! and when she was doing it shes like "i got horny and i wanted to like hump the wall!" i was like WOAH TMI!!! but is this normal for her? she said she wanted to practice and she had to do it on real lips otherwise its not the same! and she doesnt have any other siblings. also, her sister is 8 years old! (link)
That's not right..at all. This is very sick and wrong and you need to tell your friend that what she did is VERY disturbing.


me and my boyfriend's one year anniversary is coming up on the 16th of sept. i dont know what to do to make it REALLY special. i am already giving him a gift a day up until then and its 1 gift for every letter of the alphabet... ex:A= an amazing year together. on our 1 year z= zig zags of our relationship and i was gonna put zig zags of rose petals or something on the floor leading to my room and then do something to my room or something. idk. any ideas at all? about anything? or anything u have done for anyone or anyone has done for u? thanks for all the help! (link)
Do the rose petal them zig zaggy, and then have candles around your bed and be sitting on it waiting for him, who knows what could happen from there!


ok sorry...weird question...but if you have sex while youre on ur period, like the last few days or w/e...what are the chances that you'll get pregnant? sorry if thats kinda weird/gross (link)
You can get pregnant even while your on your period.


What's the best kinds of women's deordorant that smells good? And don't say Lady Speed Stick, because I hateee that. Thanks. (link)
Dove! it smells great, works great, and gets rid of razor burn if you have it!


what are other ways to say "semi-autobiographical" (link)
Just say it is kind of like an autobiography


MY under arm hair is a pain. I keep shaving it but it comes back with in one day.how do i get it to stay a longer.(I am Allergic to nair). What do i do. it is so embarrassing.

HELP PLz.

~shannen* (link)
Shave everyday.


i just got these pair of jeans at abercrombie kids there a size 16 and thats the only size they had at they fit me but not good there alittle small and i want to wear them thursday is there anyway i can get smaller around my waist really soon please automatic 5 is u give advice and please no bullshit (link)
What my friend did with a skirt is she cut little slits on both side of the top of the jeans. One on each side. I hope this works, but be careful not to ruin the jeans.


This isnt a random question but I couldnt find a specific catergory. Well today i found out that somebody i went too school with in 8th grade hung herself. I didnt know her well but i cant stop thinking of her... and no offense but she also had an attitude issue and i feel really horrible because everybodys all like IMING everyone and crying and im not... i feel HORRIBle about myself.. is this wrong of me?? i mean i feel bad but what am i too do? and i selfish or something (link)
Don't feel bad at all, because everyone has their opinions about everyone. Everything will sink in later when you realize that she's actually gone, but don't worry..it might just be your way of coping with her death. I'm really sorry and i hope you feel better soon!


can some one give me some pics of destroyed jeans. ive been looking but my search hasnt been succesful. it would be sooo helpful. thanks a lot! bu bye (link)
www.abercrombie.com
www.hollister.com

a lot of their jeans are destroyed


can some one give me some pics of destroyed jeans. ive been looking but my search hasnt been succesful. it would be sooo helpful. thanks a lot! bu bye (link)
www.abercrombie.com
www.hollisterco.com

a lot of their jeans are destroyed


can some one give me some pics of destroyed jeans. ive been looking but my search hasnt been succesful. it would be sooo helpful. thanks a lot! bu bye (link)
www.abercrombie.com
www.hollisterco.com

a lot of their jeans are destroyed




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