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i dont know if i like my ex friend or not, but ever since we have been going our seperate ways, i cant stop thinking about him.
he likes me, we both know this becase he has told me many times.
i always tell him i dont want anything more from him than a friendship. but now i dont even have that.
i want to think that the only reason why im thinking abouit him so much is because i miss the attention i got from him. what girl doesnt like attention right?
i mean if i really wanted him, i could have him. so i dont think that i am into him.
what do you guys think?
am i just craving the attention that i used to get? (link)
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I had this problem with a very good friend of mine that I view as a brother, now. The thing that had to happen is that I had to win him back as a friend before I could stop and realize that I just wanted the base of a good friendship, which is usually the base of a good friendship, and that breaks down, into lamens terms, as attention, affection, and understanding.
I recommend trying to get his friendship back. If you still feel that way after that, then you might actually want him. It's all a matter of circumstance.
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SO theres this great guy who i really like (14/f). Hes amazing and I've liked him forever but my friend has this thing for him and he kinda had a thing for her and they went out for a while. He made out with her and she was his first. Well i really like him and i think i might have a chance. Now heres the difficult part. Theres this great guy who i think of as an amazing friend that i never want to lose as a friend. He comforts me when im scared (hes a big guy and beats up any kid that is mean to me) and i love him. LIKE A BROTHER. nothing more. So he likes me, and i found this out from people. Now i cant even talk to him! I'm too afraid and i don't want him to like me but i don't want to hurt him! So should i tell him i know? or just let him get over me? OR WHAT?! ah i want to try to move on with guy one but guy two is too important and i don't want guy 1 to get over me. what should i do? thanks for reading (link)
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Well, that sucks, first. Second, what I would do is think about this long and hard and the consequences. Guy 1 is "claimed" by your friend. That's a hard thing. You have to think about how that would affect both relationships. Guy 2 sounds like he really cares about you.
If I were you, which I'm not, I'd leave 1 alone and try 2. I've had wonderful luck there and none have ended in tears and lost friends. If you really don't think it would work between you and 2, or you really don't want to try, ask your friend if it'd be okay to go after 1 and let the horrendous confusion go from there.
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I am planning on taking the LSAT, and was wondering a couple of things- please ONLY answer if you have ever taken the LSAT:
a) About how long (as in, months) do you need to give yourself to prepare? Realistically...
b) which method of preparation is most helpful= which classes, books, etc.
Any other advice or feedback is greatly appreciated. (link)
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Give yourself as long as possible to study. No classes, in particular, are going to help you more or less than your own work ethic. Hit up a bookstore for a practice book and work long and hard on getting as close to perfect as you can. This is what I did and the LSATs were ALMOST a breeze.
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my room is soooo boring. its sort of a beach theme right now, but what can i do wtihout spending a lot of money or painting the walls to make it look more beachy, fun and cool? (link)
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Well, that depends if you live by a beach. If you do, collect things off the beach WASH THEM IN VERY HOT WATER (get that horrendous rotting beach smell out that comes from inconstant wind) and put thme around your room. If you don't live by a beach, then you should make some artwork that shows the beach. Wal-Mart has great cheap canvas and paints. Incorporate more blues, white and teals as well and it should all come together.
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ok, so.. im thirteen and i can get REALLY horny... i know about every sex term there is. can anyone help me on how to control my horniness? im a girl, if that helps. (link)
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First of all, that's normal... when I was 13 I was all over the place horny and it was really odd... but the point is that it's fairly normal.
So, I'm assuming that you wanna control this urge you have. Great. Masturbate. I'm not kidding, it totally helps you out. You'll get horny less the more you do it... Just don't get caught.
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ok usually when i have my period coming my boobs hurt ya cool and what not. but its my niples to like they hurt when i were to lean on a desk or something i havnt had sex or ne thing but its like ow stop are they growing if so great go ahead ladies but if not im pissed. whats going on with the girls? (link)
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This is common among women and their periods. It's just what happens. When you're younger, up to about 21, it can definately mean they're growing, but sometimes it's just PMS Titty Tenderness. It sucks, but some Midol usually takes the sting off.
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ok so i like this guy and he likes me! great rite? but the thing is he says hell ask me out and i guess it cant be online it has to be in person but hes taking foreverrrr!! and im always like ill do it fine but i never see him and plans change but now that on firday im leaving for spring break i dont want to start a relationship then becuase im gone so long. o and to make things more complicated other guys like me and they are cute but i like him moreeeee! like a lot more but if we dont go out soon i cant wait around forever rite? what do i do? do it myself what idont know hes hott and makes me laugh all the time hes differnt and i like that but hes shy around this subject its like ughh come on.! and idk if hell be like no if i ask but it cant be on break if we arnt going to see eachother because we did that during christams and it didnt work out because we didnt see eachother so thats a problem ya.
- cant wait forever! (link)
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Okay, so I had this problem a few years ago. I went to Spain on a vacation came back and lost my man. Here's the deal. Let him know what's up, that you like him and such and judge his reaction. If he wants to ask you out, tell him to put it on hold and wait till you get back from break because you don't think it'll work if you're away so long in the first part of it. If he likes you, he'll agree. If he doesn't like you, then you have other men to go hunt down.
Happy Hunting.
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I love secondhand serenade and dashboard confessional. I hate mainstream bands. I need new bands ppl wont pose me on. any suggestions? (link)
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Well if you like Dashboard, I'd like to recommend Senses Fail, The Flo Bots, The Pink Spiders, and the like.
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is it normal to feel like my vagina is unattractive
cause im scared to do things with guys because i think that they'll think its ugly
im not scared to do the things
just the reactions
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Okay, first and foremost, that area on ANYONE is unattractive. It's a thing. If you don't believe me, hit up XTube,com and take a look. It's naturally peculiar. It's also normal to think that it's not the most beautiful thing on the planet.
Guys don't REALLY care what it looks like. Again, if you don't believe me, check out xtube (free btw). I'm sure that your vagina is fine and just as pretty as the next. ^_^
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guys: if your gf were to tell you a) she wasnt wearing a bra or b) she wasnt wearing underwear would that excite you [if you were with her]
and girls: if you tell your man either a) or b) what does he do/say/whats his reaction? thanks :) (link)
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Well, whenever I tell that to my man he wants to hit the bedroom... but some men don't react that way, it grosses some of them out.
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i really like my legs, like im not afraid to show them off. well my thighs yes but megs no. but this year, you can see i guess what would be the pores? i shaved last night cause its nice today and once again they just got a little better but by the end of the day they are back to normal. it it because of the razoe (its not like razor burn or anything, its like under the skin and i dont feel them) and its only fom my knees down. what cann i do to get rid of it or prevent it next time i shave not ingrown hairs, its like big pores or something, its not painful and i cant feel them they are almost like bed bumps with black in the center (obvii hair).
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That, is your hair, where you've nicked it off. Most women have this, and most feel weird about it till they get used to it.
Recommendations to lessen appearance:
-Use peroxide to lighten the hair color.
-Get a tan, this helps A LOT (fake tanning works too)
-Wax your legs. (When you wax it tears out that little bit that you're seeing, you also have to wax less than shave.)
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[im a girl]
is it normal to cum fairly easily/quickly? (link)
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Yes dear. That's normal.
A lot of women are difficult to make orgasm, and that it because of a bunch of sex-ed crap that you learn in high school, but I don't think that's what you're interested in here.
A lot of other women are easy to make orgasm. It's just a simple matter of anatomy and whom you're sleeping with.
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I went out with this guy for maybe a week about a year ago. He dumped me two reasons. The first was that he didn't have time for a girlfriend. The second reason he dumped me was because I could never answer questions when he was around. I was totally stupid for this guy, to the point that I couldn't make intelligent speech. Until a couple of days ago, we hadn't spoken in over a year. He got my hopes up, and now I'm basically obsessed with him. Can someone give me advice about how I can get rid of this obsession and get on with my life? (link)
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This is such a familiar problem. I have the same problem with anyone I start dating. It's an attatchment complex.
My best advice is what I've had to do in my personal situations like this, and that is to cut all ties. I know it's very hard and hurts sometimes, but the thing is that when you're obsessed like this peopel will, and do, take advantage of you. It's just how the world works.
If you drop him entirely and move on, when you're stable again and have someone or something else to focus on, you might be able to have a friendship with him.
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so i really wanna get a haircut with a lot of short layers, but i dont have thick hair (my hair isnt like super thin, but its not thick either) will a hairstyle with lots of short layers work? ive wanted this style for a long time so yeahh...um if it doesnt work could i maybe get short layers but not that many? just to like accent it or something?
Thanks:) (link)
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Anyone can have the "choppy-layered" look. The issue isn't in the hair, it's in the stylist. So, when you go in for the cut, ask your stylist if they'd recommend it. If not, you can listen to what they DO recommend, or find another stylist. If you go high-end then you're more likely to get someone that can work wonders, if you go low-end, there will probably some shopping around to do.
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how do u know when ur cherry is popped
can a tampon pop it or just sex
& if sum1 pops a cherry wouldnt it bleed
if it does y do guys like 2 pop it wouldnt it be nasty (link)
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Your "cherry" can be popped by a number of things, it all depends on how it sits in your vagina, I'm afraid. A tampon can do it if you're shallow enough. There will be an unpleasant "pulling" feeling when it happens though. There may or may not be blood depending on the position of it. Sometimes, the "cherry" doesn't pop all the way, and can actually be popped again.
Guys tend to want to pop your cherry, not because of the blood, but bragging rights, and the fact that virgins are the tightest thing on the planet next to anal sex.
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my brother just got a cold and i really really dont want it, the cold has been airborn for about 3 days, and i dont think i have it yet. Is there any way to prevent me from catching it??
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I was raised deep southern, so we have home remedies for everything. My southern advice is to eat a lot of oranges (vitamin C) and lysol anything he's touched. ESPECIALLY, however, it's recommended that you wash your sheets in very hot water. The problem with colds this time of year is that it might actually be the flu. If you've been vacinated, it may still be the flu, since it tends to mutate. If you at all feel like you MIGHT be getting it, take a day and lay in bed with as many warm blankets ontop of you as you can. This is called sweating out the bug. It truly works, I use it every time I get sick and by the next morning I'm awesome.
Hope that helps.
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