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I dislike who I am, and want to reinvent myself. I know I can do it! The only problem is I'm not sure who I want to become, I know who I DON'T want to be, but not exactly what I should focus on, you know?
My biggest priority is to become an HONEST person because I have lied so much in my life and ended up in the worst situations (WHOEVER READS THIS - NEVER LIE - ITS NOT WORTH IT - I MESSED UP MY LIFE AND LOST SO MUCH - PLEASE LEARN FROM MY MISTAKE, especially don't lie about your past experiences to boys! they'll eventually know what you have/havn't done!!) so I'm coming up with ways to make sure I don't lie, or tell the truth when I do. And I thought I was making life EASIER by lying - but boy is life so much better now that I tell the truth!!
But now I need other goals to focus on, other qualities I want.. can you help me on what they could be and how to reach them??
Thank youu!
You can try and talk to people who seems like no one talks to, like at school if you see a kid thats lonely go out of your way and talk to them!
and you can try and be there for your friends and family if your not already - like if they need someone to listen to them, listen to them and help them out [not sure if you do this already just a suggestion :)]
also you could try and smile at everyone, or anyone that looks sad so you come off as a happy person that people can talk to!
aww goodluck with this! it'll be hard but worth it, youll be a much happier person! hope i gave you some suggestions you can do! =]
hi,therez this girl she likes me i like her im going to ask her out..just wondering how 2 be a good boyfriend what do girls like in a boy or boyfriend??..thanks
*be honest with her all the time
*trust her
*talk to her, have communication in the relationship
*hold her when your with your friends, thats cute and she'd love that!
*cuddle with her
*dont blow her off when you guys have plans
*dont be flirty with other girls
*be respectful to her
...be yourself of course! goodluck =]
After being told you're a bad kisser, do you ever get over it and get the courage to kiss again?
If someone told you your a bad kisser then dont even listen to them! Dont worry to much about it, your next time will be better im sure you'll understand what your doing more without realizing it! =]
I was over at this one guys house i have commented him on myspace and stuff. Anyway I was at his house last night and I grabbed a tissue and went to the kitchen to throw it away..I was in the kitchen with him alone and I was like wheres your garbage? And he pointed over to where it was with this big smile on his face [he was standing in the way with the fridge open so he closed it and smiled at me to let me pass through]. I threw out that tissue and I went to walk away and he grabbed strawberries out of the fridge he was like hey you want a strawberry? And he opened them for me and held them out to me. I was like sure and I grabbed one and then i was like thank you and smiled @ him he was all smiling at me. Prior to that he whispered something to his friend... I wonder if it was about me because why else would he do that and not just say something out in the open? Like when i was in the kitchen I wanted to say know just cuz i was shy but I just said Sure I surprised myself i totally went out of my comfort zone but now its like thats not weird anymore.
do you think he was trying to flirt with me?
do you think he's interested?
what should i do now?
Girl it sounds like he's interested! big time =] he was def. flirting with you! Flirt back and smile alot when your with him and he'll probably make the lead to ask you out, i think theres chemistry and from what it seems like he does want to get with you, goodluck!
which of the new chocolates does everyone like best? the maroon, blue, or black?
incase you don't know what i'm talking about...
maroon:
http://www.verizonwireless.com/b2c/store/controller?item=phoneFirst&action=viewPhoneDetail&selectedPhoneId=3097&changingCompletedOrder=
blue:
http://www.verizonwireless.com/b2c/store/controller?item=phoneFirst&action=viewPhoneDetail&selectedPhoneId=3076&changingCompletedOrder=
black:
http://www.verizonwireless.com/b2c/store/controller?item=phoneFirst&action=viewPhoneDetail&selectedPhoneId=3098&changingCompletedOrder=
i'm leaning towards the maroon.. but i'm not positively sure. the black looks kind of tacky, and the blue is really boyish. help me! :)
i like the maroon i think its cute =]
What song is this?
Darling what is going on? Honestly, that never happened. Lying is your favorite passion. Leave me, go where you belong. Higher heels and lipstick napkins, dying is your latest fashion. The frustration, it's a regular thing, I hate the ones who love to hate because they're just like me.
thnks :)
Escape the fate - "Situations" :):)
My boyfriend is 17, and i'm almost 16. We've been dating for 4 months, and I really love him! I know he will wait as long as I want to wait until we have sex. But I dont want him to wait to long? How do I know he wont leave me? If he wants to.. should I? HELP :(
in my opinion If you have to ask then i dont think your ready! 4 months is NOT that long at all! If he leaves you because you didnt have sex with him then let him go he was just using you, Id say wait at least til your almost at a year in your relationship, if he's still around then go ahead and have sex with him, if he's not then just move on girl. If he honestly loves you then he wont leave you, boys always want to have sex thats basically their nature ;) so dont do it when HE wants to do it when your ready
why do i keep on having my period late?
i have my period later and later every month! and my mom is freaking out saying im pregnant, but im not. i just want to know why im getting later every time i have my period.
thanks!
If your on the pill it could be that, that happens alot to people on the pill!
If worse comes to worse you can always talk to your doctor about it and see what he says - If you dont want to make an appointment you might be able to just call the nurse and ask to see if its anything serious, ive done that before
How can i get a guy to know that i want him? But without saying it unless of course he asks.
Flirt with him as much as possible! Guys usually get the hint that girl likes him when she flirts alot =]
hey. i'm 14/f. well, i usually go to my cousins house during the summer to hang out with them. and this summer i did. but last saturday my uncle had a heart attack, so i'm staying home this week and some of next week. but i get soooo bored. there is never anything to watch on tv, and i've done everything i usually do on the computer ( check email, get on advicenators, play a few games which gets boring). so what is there that i can do??? i like scrapbooking and stuff, but i don't really have anything to do that with. please give me any good ideas!!! thanks!
You could talk on the phone, find ways to invite friends over so your not just sitting there by yourself....you could go outside, if you have a dog maybe take him/her for a walk? walk to the park or a store nearby...you could also decorate your room and rearrange it haha i know that sounds cheesy but it can be fun and it will give you something to do...hmm you can also learn how to cook different things maybe you'll find that you like making new kinds of foods
hope i gave you some ideas! =]
How do you shave your bikini line?? because when I wear a swimsuit that is not shorts or just plain underwear... I have my pubic hair sticking out and it is just soooo gross!!! I asked my mom if I could get it waxed but she won't let me. I shaved it once but i got bumps and itchy feelings. Don't tell me to use conditioner, shaving cream or lotion because I've tried those but they don't help me. Oh and somebody mentioned a product that gets rid of those, but I can't go buy things. So it has to be with a razor. :(
please help! How do I do this, side to side, up and down???
14/f
When you put the shaving cream let it sit on for 3 mins so it makes your skin softer and the hair easier to shave, then shave in all directions so you get all the hair bc it grows in different directions! ive found that baby oil helps sooth the razor burn! - put it on after you've dried off, just put a little tho or youll be too oily feeling
i need a new screename
my name is nicole
and i like it simple
x0sexynicole
nicole xX[urfavenumberhere]
xo nicole luvs u
nicole babiix0
hope i helped a little...
you can always make one with ur fave sport, or with your fave words or maybe inside jokes
it goes " breath in, breath out, breath in, breath out" its a guy singing it and its rockish.
do you know what its called?
it might be kanye west - breath in breath out.... not too sure hope thats right !
When a person hugs you around the neck...what does it say about them? Also, how about the person that hugs below that? (around the chest area) & I don't mean that in a sexual way...
I personally think they both say that the person cares, if they hold tight i think it means they dont want to let go..and if its an awkward huge like a quick friend hug around the chest i think thats just a friendly hug, and if its a girl and they put their head on the guys chest as they hug i think that means they like/love the guy!!
=] IMO
I've been dating this guy for 10 months, about 3 months ago I made a fake myspace & AIM sn and pretended to be this hot girl that just moved into the town. I started talkin all sexy to him expectin him to refuse and say he has a girlfriend. To my surprise he gave "her" his phone number, and tried to get "her" to come over to his house, and send him naked pictures etc. It pissed me off so much and I confronted him about it. I told him it was over. Well to say the least that didn't happen. We got back together that same day. He was all cryin and beggin me to stay with him he told me that he wouldn't do anything with her and that he loves me and blah blah blah my stupid ass just forgave him. I regret getting back together with him i mean our relationship looks fine and he thinks it all fine now but it still bothers me to this day. I think that if some hotter girl than me tried to do something with him he'd do it. He tells me how he would never cheat on me and how he'd break up with me first. I know he hasn't cheated on me but its the thought that crosses my mind. If i bring it up he's like you need to let that go i'd never cheat on you. But its like how am i supposed to believe that when ya did what ya did. Idk what should I do? I mean its been at least 3 months since it happened but it still bothers the hell outta me. Would you consider that cheating?
Honestly since he had the intention of getting that "girl" over to his house and wanting to basically do stuff with her i would consider it cheating. Your going to have to find a way to forgive him, maybe you guys rushed back into your relationship to fast because he now knows that you would take him back, talk to him about it and tell him straight out that if you ever find him intending to cheat on you again that its over and will stay over - you deserve so much more & it will take alot for you to trust him again. if you really want your relationship to work then id suggest forgiving him and trying to find trust in him again, it will take a while but it will happen try and come to a compromise with him so that your not always scared he's going to cheat on you
hope i helped, goodluck girl
when guys wanna be cute to you, you know how they call you things like "babe, baby, sweetie, cutie, hon, etc.."
well.. what names like that do guys like you to call them?
=) thankss in advancee.
you can pretty much call them anything nice/sweet and they think its cute!
baby, hun, sweetie, love... any cute nickname u make up!
is it true that energy drinks have bull sperm in them? A few of my guy friends were tlaking to me and they told me that taurine which is an ingredent in all energy drinks is really bull sperm. I think they are just messing with me cause im gullable.
Taurine in that way is a type of amino acid heres more if you want to read about it...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taurine
well im thinking about going tubing with my best friend and her boyfriend(who is also my best friend) and my boyfriend.we are all like really close best friends and i think my friend looks better in a bathing suit than me. i have talked to my boyfriend about it and he says you know idc what she looks like its no big deal.but what if hes just saying that.help ):
Girl dont worry about it! Trust me your boyfriend will only be looking at you! Im sure he could honestly care less what she looks like, shes not the one he wants - he wants you.. remember that! =] Just dont worry about it, & have a good time with your friends and boyfriend
so i got my period like 3 weeks ago and its still going. sometimes its heavy sometimes its not.. and at one point i actually thought it was done with and then it came back. this isnt my first time getting it but i do have abnormal periods.
16/f
should i be concerned? whats going on?
Periods usually only last a week at the most, i think you should go to a doctor and get it checked out..my friend had a problem similar to what your having the doctor will help =] goodluck!
Alright, my bf doesn't want me to come with to pick up his best friend at the airport because he says it's his friend and I don't even know him. But what's the big deal? He makes a big deal about it and I just want to come with my bf.
What do you guys think about it?
I think your boyfriend just wants to go by himself to pick up his friend, maybe so they can have some "bonding" time & catch up on things before they get back home, Just let him go =] you'll be able to see your boyfriend when he gets back, dont worry about it too much