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okay well friday night i went to mah friends house and her bf was there, and so was this other couple, and then there was me and this other guy.. but me and this other guy arent together and we just kinda started talkin about a week ago.. but while we were there we kinda got a littel close.. we were kissing and cuddled and stuff.. and so today i was talkin to him and he said yeah he is startin to like me but he doesnt know if he wants a gf right now.. what does it mean when i guy does this stuff.. lol i need a guys perspective ont his stuff.. i dont know if hes wantin me to stay adn wait on him till he does want a gf or if he wants me to move on and that was just an excuse to get me to move on.. or what?.. please help
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lol...that means he wants someone to mess around with WITHOUT the committment that comes along with it. he wants a puppet without any strings attached to his fingers. lol, i think he likes you, but he just isn't a committment person right now. change his mind, baby!! lol.
good luck,
-Kyle
( be careful tho! )
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hey...me and my guy friend are realli close and we always joke about going out and how we love each other and stuff. he told me he liked me about a month ago but i didnt like him so nothing happened. we were kinda distant for a while but now we're ok. i know he doesnt like me anymore, but now i've been starting to have some feelings for him. i dunno if i should tell him cuz when he said he like me i didnt like him but now i do like him and im really confused. i dunno if this even makes sense but... (link)
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well, just let him know exactly how you feel and where you want things to go. i'm sure he didn't just stop liking you, he probably just suppressed how he felt so that the uncomfortable tension would die down.
let him knowwwwww.
good luck,
-Kyle
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hey umm...since you're a guy and everything i thought id ask you this instead of a girl and you seemed like the nicest guy on here to give me advice well anyways i have a boyfriend and he is really special to me i love him with all my life heck he is my life but whenever we are talking on the phone or on the internet he always leaves and says hell call me back soon and he doesnt. when he doesnt i kind of worry about him because i really love him but when he says hell call me back or be back soon he never does come back soon or call me and when i ask him why he leaves he says he cant tell me does this mean hes cheating on me or hiding something from me can your please help me because i really really deeply like this guy and i dont know what to do (nice picture in your thingy) PLZ HELP! (link)
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haha thx, um...he's probably just overly busy, i wouldn't worry unless he starts acting odd like he's going after someone else or something.
good luck,
-Kyle
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How do you know if a guy is hitting on you for real, or just screwing around? because theres this guy at work, and hes always asking if i have a boyfriend, or singing to me (badly, ha), calling me sexy, getting me to hug him, and everything else. And hes doing all this in such a way where hes joking around but...idk, hes hot so i want him to not be joking. HOW DO I TELL?! (link)
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aw he likes yewwww ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)
hahaha :p he's just being humorous about it to kill off the tension, cuz he likes yew a LOTS :p
haha ;) go fer it!
get ir dun :D
^_______* yessuh!
-Kyle
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hey...is it really THAT bad to date ure friend's ex??? I realli like this guy but i dont wanna do anything to mess up my friendship. should i try talking to my friend about it? But i dont think she would understand cuz shes pretty touchy when it comes to her ex. i dunno...mayb i shud jst forget abt him. (link)
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hm...you should talk to your friend about it, but make sure that the both of you know that the term "ex" does imply that a bond that once existed between two people is no longer there. so there shouldn't exactly be a problem with it if they're through with each other. :p
good luck,
-Kyle
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ok kyle.. theres this guy.. and i like him TONS (obviously) and we just broke up.. but lemme explain why first.. ok well he had this one girlfreind before me and then this other girl came a long and told him she liked him so he broke up with his gf for her and once they broke up this other girl decided she didnt like him anymore.. so then me and him started going out and that "girl" came a long again and said she liked him again so we broke up (cuz hes always liked this girl a lot) and now that girl decides she doesnt want to go out with him anymore (again).. i think shes just there to ruin my life.. i like this guy more hten ANYONE will ever know.. i try not to act like i like him anymore cuz i dont want to intrude on him and this other girl cuz they still go places together (liek right now they are at the movies together) but its all i can do to hold the tears back whenever i am around him! we hang out and still talk all the time and he asked me to go to the movies with him last night (but i couldnt) and i just dont know.. all i want is him and its obvious to everyone but i guess not to him, hes sooo confusing.. he will want to do stuff with me every now and then but sometimes he totally ignores me.. what do i do?! *tear* :/ (link)
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:\ let him know how you feel, and if things STILL don't work out, then you should move on, there's no use in putting yourself through more unnecessary torment.
-Kyle
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hey....wat do u get a guy for his birthday?? i was thinking of gettin him a mini ipod, cuz he likes music n all...wud a guy like that as a gift?? oh n we're jst friends.
ure pretty hot by the way ;) (link)
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haha thanks!! ;p
lol, yeah, a mini ipod would be a great gift, good thinkin ^______*
-Kyle
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hey well i went out with this guy and well now that we have broken up he doesnt even look at me. he thinks that i broke up with him cause i wanted to get with another guy which isnt true, he never talked to me, and well my family and friends tell me that if a guy really likes you then he cant really talk to you cause he is like nervous and well when i was talking to him about it he wouldnt stop changing the subject and well we are going to farewell together and all he talks about is his new girlfriend and he says that he can talk to her better than he can with me...so why doesnt he talk to me or even look at me? cuase i dont want to lose a friend cuase before we were friends, not we are idk (link)
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um...lol...i knows who wrote this :D:D:D
and to answer your question, guys his age (8th grade...LOL) have the mentality that like...when 2 ppl break up, they can't associate from that point on or something. they treat it as something far more than just a simple breakup between 2 kids type thing. lol, you can be super nice, but nothing can make up for a young boy's immaturity :/
it's not you, it's him.
-Kyle
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Hey....well i have this problem...i'm really good friends with this guy and he just told me that he liked me and he asked me out, but i said no, even though i liked him at the time (i don't anynore) because he's my best friend's ex and i felt like i was sort of betraying my friend if i did go out with him. i explained to him why i said no and he got really angry and now he barely even looks at me, let alone talk to me....i feel as if i lost out on a really good friendship and i want things to go backto the way they were before. i've tried talking to him but he won't listen...what should i do? (link)
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if he's gonna be a jackass about stuff then it looks like you didn't exactly lose that great of a friend...did you?
-Kyle
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hey i have a crush on a guy i thought would only be a friend...what should i do? (link)
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let him knowwwww, otherwise your suppressed feelings are in vain.
-Kyle
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hey i like this guy and i talk to him on the internet alot and well he has a girlfriend, but do i tell him or just not? (link)
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um...it wouldn't exactly get his gf to think too highly of you so i'd just wait till they're done or w/e, actually, if all is going good for them, just move on.
-Kyle
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how do you get thru a holiday such as valentines when last year you had someone special to you and things went wrong and now valentines is coming around again and all i think about is her from last year and i really miss her what do i do to forget about her and enjoy this valentines with out thinking about her? (link)
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holy shit dude, use periods when you post! i dont even know wtf you're asking me! uhhh...masturbate and move on! yeye :]
-Kyle
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Ok well... I have a best friend and then there is this other guy... My best friend and I tell eachother that we love eachother and all that, and he wants to get with me. Then the other guy and I like eachother, but we can't really be together ad bf and gf... I feel bad being stuck between two people... So should I go out with my best friend or should I just stay single and kinda date that other guy?? You better give me some good advice Kyle! And Im sure you know who this is, and please don't come up to me and ask if it was me!! Peace out man! (link)
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haha...um...just let the one you don't like know how it is, and go after who you DO like, seems like you feel pressured into throwin around the 3 magic words, haha, fix that ;p
-Kyle
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i like this guy alot but i also like 3 other guys..but none of them like me...about 2 days agao i found out that one of them...liked me, but then he decided he didnt again. also one of the guys i cant get out of my head...he is all i think about....everything i do reminds me of him..but i dont want to be obsesed...how do i get him out of my mind?
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hm, um, haha, either masturbate or...hehe...just forget about him, that's like...all you CAN do...haha if he doesn't like you, then he doesn't like you, nothin you can do about it, :/ sry, can't really give a valid response to this one, commmon sense should kick in haha :p
good luck, sry,
-Kyle
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Hey what do guys want for Valentines day?? I mean it is really a sappy holiday but if you haven't been together very long what do you get him?Ohhh and I am still in HIgh school (link)
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HAHA MANNNNN that's SO easy, guys don't give a damn WHAT you end up getting them for v-day, they just care that you actually thought about them or w/e, hahaha, no worries, just w/e, just something cool idk haha :p
-Kyle
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okay this may be long but i dont kno...
here it goes..i have this guy friend that likes me. but the thing is....well, i used to go out with his best friend, but his best friend was the one that broke up with me. for the past month me and my guy friend have been hanging out a lot and we are interested in the same things kind of...but we DO have our differences. he wrote me a letter today..when i read it, he told me in the letter that he kind of liked me and that he didnt kno if he should like me more cuz of the fact that he didnt kno how i felt about him and also becuz im still stuck on that last relationship a lil bit. im so afraid to go into another relationship knoing that its soon going to end. why do relationships have to be so limited? I hate it. i just want to give up...but i dont kno what to do....i dont know what to think. i also dont want to hurt one of my friends (even tho i am really mad at her). she still likes him and i dont want to hurt her.
i really dont kno what to do...
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hm, relationships are only as limited as you allow, haha, what i MEAN is, well, example first, ha, if you keep putting pressure and weight on an object, it will give sooner or later, it will break, like...if you put tons of pressure and labels on your relationship, it will most likely NOT last, :) right now i'm in love with a wonderful girl and she knows EXACTLY who she is, and anyone who knows me will tell you that i'm VERY against the high school love thing haha, but idk, once you find it...you just find it, right? haha, annnnnywayyyyys!...we decided to not label it as "going out" or w/e, because that puts extra pressure and limitation on it that's not exactly needed...kinda...unnecessary...but we treat each other as and think of each other as a bf/gf type thing, haha, and things couldn't be BETTER, so...this might not be the BEST advice out there, but maybe...i'm trying to teach by example...? idk haha good luck :)
-Kyle
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Hey,
Ok i broke up w/ this guy 3days before christmas because i was told he MAJORLY cheated on me and then now a month later out of the blue he wrote me tellin me that i was the only gurl he could be with he couldnt picture him self w/ n e 1 else and he would do any thing for another chance.. now i have decided that everyone deserves a 2nd chance 2 prove them self so we are giving "us" another try....do you think i have done the right thing by giving "us" another chance?? (link)
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yes and no, yes because it's always good to play the nice guy ( or girl ) part, but no...because once a cheater always a cheater...haha just watch ur ass i guess >.<
-Kyle
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hey i was just w0ndering since ur a guy..wut do guys like in gurls..like their personality and wur r they attracted to on the outside. thank y0u soOoo much -xOxO- (link)
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haha, well, you should firstly know that there is NO right answer for that type of question, every guy is different in taste, and every guy has a certain preference. Guys are like fingerprints, no 2 are alike, except for the wiggers =O hahahahhahaa :p well...most are different anyway, only the good ones ;] haha um...but just be yourself and don't change for ANYONE, and sooner or later someone just like you ( but with something different in the pants :D ) will come your way and you'll go together like cookies and milk mmmm yums :D ^_____*
sry, that doesn't exactly answer your question, but, idk, um, any guy worth bragging about to your friends and family wont go for looks alone, they'll just be a bonus after he falls totally in love with who you are on the inside :D
good luck,
-Kyle :D
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Hey kyle. Hmmm lol I dont know how to start shit like this off but here it goes. Me and this kid started becoming friends this year. And we both started getting into eachother and such. After maybe a month knowing him he asked me out.Of course I said yes. We went out for 2 days and I dumped him. But I relized that I still have feelings for him. And whenever I see him with another girl I get like uberly upset. Grrr I want him! Haha Any advice? If you can IM me at solastmonthx (link)
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um...wtf? 2 days? sounds like you need lessons in patience??? haha :p just talk to him about how you're feeling :p
-Kyle
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i need some help u c wat do i do i like this guy and we were talken 4 like 3 weeks and then he said he was goin 2 brake up w/ him g/f 4 me and then he does but that very same day he got another g/f but now him and that gurl broke up if he asks me out wat do i do?? (link)
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lol, i'd stay away from him, he's indecisive, and so are most girls, so that wouldn't balance out too well now would it? PLUSSSSS if he did it to them then what makes you think he wouldn't do it to you just the same?
good luck,
-Kyle
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