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HEY MY NAME iS MEGAN. i l0VE T0 GiVE ADViCE T0 PE0PlE S0O Y0U CAN ASK ME ANYTHiNG. i D0N`T CARE H0W PERS0NAl..i`M UP F0R ANYTHiNG. S0O JUST ASK AWAY!

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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out?

okay. i understand when you say that your a christian and you dont want to have sex yet because i'm the same way. so if you want to do more than make out..try not to let it go all the way to sex. if he tries for it just tell him no. he should understand. but even though you love him don't let him tempt you into something you don't want to do. just make sure you let him know that you don't want to have sex if that's what hes leading to. hope i helped. be careful.
--megan--

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Hello I'm not tellin u who this really is.... but u do kno me!

OK I kno this really sweet sweet boy!! He is really funny!! But he's facially challenged lol!!
Well he's been a little lyk my bro but not as close as another boy who I would neva eva be more than lyk a sis 2!!! Neway I kinda lyk him n He is taller n not really out of my league n sum friends told me he lyks me.............
Wut do I do??
Who do I talk 2??
Wut do I say 2 him??
I know we would work out juss bcuz were so compatible!!!!!!
hmmm........
Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~*LOST n confused*~

well...i wish i knew who u was so it'd be a lot easier BuT my advice would be that if you like him then see if he really likes you and stuff and if you like him just try to get hooked up with him. i hope i helped
--megan--

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** i really like my ex boyfriend but i dont know if i should ask him out again.... i dont know if i should even bother with him i sort of like another guy but one of my relaly lcose friends do to. i really dont know if i should ask out my ex boyfriend or should i forget about him???**

i say you should try to get closer to your ex boyfriend again. it all depends on how close you and your ex boyfriend were when yall went out. just talk to him more and try to work things out and get better than before. then when you think the time is right..ask him out and hopefully he will say yes!! i think that you like your ex more than this other guy. try to get your ex boyfriend back and then if this other guy is still availible tHeN you can still think about him. i hope i helped!! and just be patient
--megan--

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this is confused again (the one about her friend and how she thinks there is something between them and stuff) well she might go out with him n i would feel really bad if she gave up on him because of me should i just forget about him??
-write back-
~*!cOnFuSeD!*~

if you really do like this guy..you cant just forget about him it doesnt work believe me ive tried. even though you might want to forget about this guy you just cant because you cant tell youself to stop liking someone and then just have it happen. i think you should talk to her about this. tell her you dont want her to give up on him but just explain that you do like him too IF she doesnt already know. just let her know you dont want her to give up..unless deep down you want her too. like i said before..think about wats more important. dont ruin a friendship though no boy can ever be worth losing a good friendship over. just be careful about it and again i really hope i helped
--megan--

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megan,
me and my sorta close friend lyk the same guy but i also lyk another guy...i ahve no clue which one to pick the guy my friend likes r the guy that she doesnt lyk but i lyk i'm really confused.
-write back-
*confused*

ok..like i have told 2 other people..think about goin out with each guy and see which one you'd like having as a boyfriend better. and then think about your friend. if shes a close friend think about how much you don't wanna hurt her or how much you really could care less about it. and also see how much she likes this boy and how much it would affect her and stuff. just pretty much think about what is more important about the guy and your friend. maybe you have a really good chance with this guy that your friend DoEsNt like so that it wouldnt hurt anyone..unless you think you like the other guy more. if you do..then all i can say is think about your friend and see if it would hurt her too bad or whatever if you went out with this guy. oh yeah and also see who likes you...you dont wanna hurt a friend or anything if its not worth it if the guy doesnt feel the same way about you. i hope i helped. please get back with me to tell me what happens i hope everything works out
-megan-

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i really like two guys but i dont knwo which one to pick?!? one of them MiGhT like me n the other one is ConFusInG!! this girl i know who is a friend lyks the same guy but i really lyk him 2 and she thinks there is something between them when there isnt i really have noclue if i should pick the guy that my frfiend lyks r the other one who i have lyk 4 a long time!! i'm so confused please write back!!!!!!

~*!cOnFuSeD!*~

okay..think about who you like more first off. like if u cant decide picture goin out with one and then do the same with the other and see which one u think you'd like going out with more. if that doesn't help too much..then think about the one that your friend likes. if shes going to get mad then you have to think about whats more important..this guy that you wanna go out with or your friend. if you really want this guy your friend will probably eventually get over it. so just think about what is more important and just think about which guy you'd like more as a boyfriend. i really hope i helped i'd like to get back from you and see what happens.
-megan-

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mk... here it is..hopefully u can give me sum advice...ok..i cant decide who i like more and rite now would b the perfect opportunity to go out with one..let's just say if i try for one then i'll more then likely b goin with em in a lil bit but i cant decide who i'd rather go with..besides that these ppls adriane and curtis have started talkin to me seriously since the last time i've talked to u and i wunna go with adriane too..i mean i like em all..but i think they're pretty much just crushes besides melvyn and dave..i dunno like i think it would b easier to just not go out with any of em and just stay single and everything but like i wunna a bf for a while..i havent' had one since jacob and thats too long..i mean i have no problem being single and i'm NOT desperate but i do need some advice...LOL..

okay...i hardly know anything about melvyn since you always talked about david and stuff like that. you've liked david longer so that should maybe give ya some imput on what you wanna do. right now don't think about adriane and curtis since you know that its between melvyn and david so stick with thinkin about them two for a while. just think about everything you like about both of them. like the pros and cons lol. but like...picture your self with melvyn like yall hangin out and stuff like that and just going out in general being girlfriend and boyfriend and then think about yourself with david and do the same thing. see who you think you'd be better off with. if you feel the exact same about both of them..dont make a decision quite yet even though you really want a boyfriend. wait until your sure who you want to go out with. but dont worry i know that this might now help ya out that much but you will figure out who you like more and who you want to go out with more soon. it will just come to you and you will figure it all out. i hope i helped..at least a little bit. i hope everything works out!!
yours truely
megan

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Hey hun! well u pretty much know what im gonna write so here it go's, I think im in luv lol, but why cant he like me bacK? I dont understand? Am i ugly? Maybe I am, maybe that is why i haven't had a boyfriend in a while!But i dont know it is weird because i mean i dont even know him! Y do i think i am in love? This is crazy! I mite not be in love with him but im somethin wit him cause i cant get him off my mind! 34/7 i think about him! its crazy! I mean i thought i was in love with Ryne, but i couldn't have been cause i feel much more feelings now than i did then! But I was just thinking about giving him up because i can't do this anymore i cant love him (or atlest that is whaat I think) when he dont love me back. Do you remember when he called me? I couldn't answer the phone, I was shaking and had butterflys all in my stomach! this is crazy!I thiank that the song obbsession totally describes me with him! i hate this i can't cry over something that isn't there!

ok girl. i sort of know what your going through because i went through the same thing with todd..and look at us now! we go out! but even though you hardly know him..you kno theres somethin about him that you just love..which makes you wanna love him. your probably not in love yet since you hardly know him but you kno that it could turn out to be love. i mean everyone knows hes hot haha and also you just KnOw that you will theres just that special somethin about him that your not sure of but you know its there. just get to kno him any way you can. hang out with him as much as you can and just get to kno him and you never know how yall will end up. hopefully goin out..you never know. so just dont give up on him because when you love someone..anything is worth waiting for remember? and somethings in life are worth waiting for even if it means waiting forever ((the one quote oy always got to remember)) i hope everything works out
love always
megan

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