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Q: 15/f. Now that school started and everything, I can't help but notice the people around me changed. My friends are no longer close to me, they seek their own *other* group of friends and I feel left out. They also make no visible effort to try to patch things up and maybe work something out or work on something. So, basically, I don't like them anymore. Should I just break it off completely? :/

if they arent making much effort you shouldn't either you can still talk to them be friendly and stuff but make new friends hangout with them and dont dwell on it .. if you dont like them anymore then screw it ;; and friends dont just stop talking to you i dont think your missing out on much

hope i helped

Q: 14/f
two guys.
one is my best friend and the other is my other friend. they dont know eachother. both of them are bi. my bestfriend told me he didnt like me a few months back. since then, i stopped trying to make him like me because if he doenst he doesnt. but im gonna see him this week and since we havent seen eachother in a while maybe something will change.
my other friend is great. he flirts with me a lot and stuff but i cant tell if its just for fun or if it means anything. my bestfriend always flirts with me too but apprently he never liked me as more than a friend.
so im not sure what to do at this point because i like them both and dont know how either feels. and im not a player so i wont go for both at once. thanx =]

you should hangout with them both and if they start flirting with you just be like "hmm you seem kinda flirty today" and just see the reaction on their face of both guys and then you can get into that topic or you can just tell by the expression on their face .. the more confidence you come out with it the less it will seem like a big deal ;; trust me. and guys dig confidence

hope i helped a little bit anyway =D

Q: for me to be upset/mad about this?

This girl has had a crush on my boyfriend for many months now. On and off I suppose. :/ They both have a class together and both are friends. She was flirting with him a lot and started to bite him.

I find her kind of immature, she still acts like she's in 8th grade [she's a freshmen] She even bit my boyfriend when she was with some guy. She also bites two of my guy friends.

So the first time, She bit his arm and left a large purple circle. Also left some teeth marks near his hand. It bothered me I guess and he figured it out, so he said he would talk to her about it.

but today, I saw him with various bite marks on his hands, arms.. 2 large bruises on one shoulder and another on the other and a teeth marks on his back too. i don't think he's cheating on me. i trust him. i know he has no time for her out of school or i would have heard it from his mom. and, i have many friends at HIS school that would have told me any strange behavior, you know? it's just lately, she's been all over him in a nonchalant way.

and he doesn't know how to tell her to stop since they are like best friends.

since he doesnt know how to tell her, he's planning to ignore her..

but i doubt it will help.. so any advice for me?

i want to write her a message over like myspace or something, since i don't see her in person. what should i say? i'm afraid she will make me look like the bad guy :/ i'm not the type to say "Fu*k off" She can hug him and yeah, but biting/leaving hickeys.. is just as bad as kissing to me. it's almost worse.. because there's proof.. or maybe i'm just making a big deal out of this.

I kinda feel bad for getting mad about this.

i would just leave her a message being like "yea its kind of bothering me that your biting my boyfriend and i saw marks on his shoulder, arms, hands, and back!? i'm not trying to be a bitch or anything but its bothering me and i dont care if you guys are friend just stop biting him? k thanks.." and i think your boyfriend should try pushing her to stop more if my guy friend was biting me i wouldnt feel bad telling him to stop
and you have NO reason to feel bad for getting bad
i would too deffinatly

hope i helped!

Q: I'm 14 and a girl in the 9th grade. Ok, so I like this guy and I've liked him for a longgg time. Everyone alwyas says we're giong to get married, becasue we're best friends and were always together. I never told my girl best friend that i liked him though, because I kind of always thought she did too, and i really dnt like to talk about guys with anyone. But just recently, she told me she lked him, and wanted me to ask him to homecomeing for her. well, I did, and he said that he had thought that he might would ask me. and I told him that I couldnt do that to her, and told him he should just go with her.so he said yes, and i've been ttrying to kind of stay out of it, but now he doesnt thik I like him anymore, and things have gotten weird between us. I miss us being close, and I dont know what to do. Any help?

i think you should tell \"guy\" that you dont wanna ruin your freindship with her because its really important to you ;; and staight up tell him that you liked him for a long time ;; i know its hard but i had the same kind of thing \"a friend i liked for a lonnnggg time and everybody said actually still says we are gonna get married\" and when i liked him i like never told him until it was kindof too late .. just do it in a casual way so its not so awkward and serious tell him straight up cuz he\'ll admire your confidence and tell him that you want to wait a little while to see if your friend will get over him and talk to her.. if she told you recently that she liked him tell her that you have feelings for him too at soooon.(i know thats tough too but if you end up dating him the situation will be less scummy) things may have gotten weird because he\'s trying to get over you cuz he thinks you dont like him .. dont wait things out to much!!

hope i helped =d
its soo funny i was in the exact same situation last year actually its kinda creepy ahah!

Q: My boyfriend thinks I am cheating on him. I love him and I would NEVER cheat on him. I just can't believe that he would even think that!! I am so stunned. I don't know what to do.
How can I tell him that I am not???

i was in this exact same situation and this is what i did i sat him down held both of his hands and said "its really bothering me that you would think i'd cheat on you.. i'm telling you right now that your the ONLY guy i want to be with right now .. i love YOU" then i gave him a soft kiss on the lips staring straight into his eyes the whole time;; maybe it will work for you too!

good luck! hope i helped

Q: So, my boyfriend Alex & I have been dating now for four months. This weekend we were supposed to spend it all together. Tonight, we were supposed to go to a haunted house, tomorrow we were supposed to hang out before we both had work, and Sunday we were supposed to hang out ALL DAY together, & just go sight seeing around Texas.

Unfortunately, on Wednesday he hurt his leg, and went to the Emergency Room, and now he's on crutches. His parents don't want him leaving the house and just want him resting, which is totally understandable because I want that as well. I haven't seen him since he's been hurt, and I'm finally going to be seeing him on Sunday, because his parents agreed me going over to their house is a good idea. Both of his parents will be home, but I wanted to do something really nice for him, since he's sick and stuck at home. Does anyone have any good ideas?

Thanks in advance! (:

you could maybe bring a deck of cards and play some card games or something like that and listen to music ;; if you made him a get well card or something like that that'd be really cute too just to show him how much you care =]

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i'm renee. i'm nice and fun. i'm new to the site but i usually give great advice; i've been through alot of shit i usually relate to people's problems and love helping people out ;; i'm best at giving advice on love and relationships .. try meee =]