My boyfriend is kind of the weirdest guy i ever met .. he smokes weed a lot! but i love him so much .. theres a huge problem though .. he never changes his shirt! What do i say to him without hurting his feelings? I mean i love him but change the damn shirt !
lol well atleast you love him for who he is... since he smokes weed alot..one day while he is stoned change his shirt for him..that way when hes not stoned anymore he will wake up with a new shirt on and not even remeber why.. love jess
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I met this guy tuesday night and he we talked for a while and he said he loved me. I could tell he was stoned but i said i loved him too. But then as we were walking home him and his friends gave me a drink and i blacked out. I think the drink was drugged. Should i tell someone?
- Dazed and so Confused
awww hunnie this is very intense.. you should absolutly tell some one, you might think that you love him but if he cared about you..tehre woulnd't have been drugs in your drink.. tell some one before you get hurt.... please.. love jess
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Jess --
my frend jus got prgenant by this kid who now lives in Rhode Island.
SHES ONLY 13 AND IF HER PARENTS FIND OUT SHES DEAD..
he'll start showing eventually and duznt no wut to do..this kid used to go to SMS but since he moved she called him
He knows shes was 3weeks pregnant and he wont even call her back.. wut duz she do how can i help?
I dont even live in seymour i live down in Ansonia.. but i no bout ur site.. please respond as quick as possible b4 this gets outta hand..
-- Always --
Worried Bout My Best Frend
well i think your trying to make me mad beucase your jelous that "this kid in rhode island" would never even touch you becuase your probably ugly and fat... sooo please dont lie beucase obviosuly your very immature...
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i have this boyfriend and he never changes his damn shirt? What should i say to him ? I mean i love him but god he needs to change that shirt !
you should buy him a shirt and tell him he looks really hot in it .. hope i helped..jess
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im in 6th grade and theres this really really hot teacher and i think i love him. my heart pounds whenever he walks in the door and i dont learn anything in his class because i just picture him with his clohtes off. tell me what is wrong with me please. thanks!!
alright.. well first of all nothing is wrong with you. sometimes students do have crushes on there teachers if they are good looking. if you are picturing him with his clothes off that is a little strange. maybe you should find a guy your own age to have as a boyfriend, beucase chances are you and your teacher will never be an "together" i also think that u saying you love him is very strong. i think you are attracted to him..but not love... find a guy your own age... i hope i helped you.. goodluck.. love jess
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jess --
hey your really good at giving advice and i have a problem and i hope you can help me. i hope your not upset or anything but i had sex with someone tht was really close too you .. and well now im pregnant. I dont kno wat to do. How should i tell my friends and my family tht this has happened? please dont hate me. i hope we can still be friends. Please help !!
- Pregnant at 13
well listen.. i am not close to anyone so i guess thats impossible... unless you had sex with my brother then you have nothing to worry about.. but nice try to be funny ;)
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Jess, there is this guy who is older than me, not by much.. and he goes to the highschool. I've liked him for a while now, and he just started going out with another girl.. i'm so upset, what can i do?
awww hunnie..well first of all im taking it your still in middle school. or maybe just a year behind him. eather way it will be ok. right now i know you are hurting. believe me i know heartbreak is the worst pain. if he started going out with another girl, that doesnt mean he doesnt care about you. maybe he just can't be with a younger girl right now. in highschool theres alot of pressure from guys friends. maybe he just thinks he wont look "cool" if he dates another girl. just trust me if its ment to be it will happen. just give it time hunnie. and if he is not going to spend his time on you, then he is not worth it. just stay strong and hope for the best. always remeber there's a guy out there whoes ment for you, sometimes you gotta go thro a bunch of jerks before you find him.. i hope i helped you.. love jess
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dear jess...wat should i do if teachers always pick on me?
alright hun.. i'm sOrry yOu feel this way. to believe it Or nOt i think yOu shOuld talk to the guidence cOuncelor abOut this. you should always give teachers respect, but if they are not respecting you back then there is something seriously wrong with that. if you already talked to your parents and they didnt help, then you should go to the guidence couselor at school. i hope things get better.. lOve jess
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dear jess why dont girls like anal sex?
okay first of all every girl is different. and i can not tell you why girls do not like anal sex because i do not know enough about that topic. also this is not the place to be asking me things like that. you should really be asking the girl who you want to have anal sex with ok ? ... -- jess
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ok, well i have a lot of frends, id say i am pretty popular i gess. and like they never wanna hang out with me anymore, and they only call me when other frends are not around. and i dont want to confront them because then i will losse my best frends, and they will talk shit about me and like hate me i gess. omg i dont know what to do, please help me jess!!!!
awww alright hunnie...
this is a very hard subject to deal with, but believe it or not it is common when you are a teenager or a pre-teen. if they all of a sudden they dont want to hang out with you then maybe you should approuch them and ask them about it. i dont think you will loose them as friends if you ask nicely. you can just say to one of them .. listen you are my really good friend but lately i feel liek you dont want to hang out with me anymore. i mean if u say that who can get mad at you. you are just speaking your mind. if they do get mad then they aren;t your friends. also if they only want to hang out with you when other friends aren't around then they might be using you. you dont need bad friends like that in your life. you are strong person who deserves better friends then this.. thanx for writing to me .. i hope i helped..anything else i can do just post one.. love always jessica
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dear jess..wat should i do i fi rele rele like like my best friends who is a girl but idk if she likes me back
alright..well when ever you need to know the truth from some one the best way to find it out is to ask them how they feel. if you want to know if this girl likes you, you should jsut straight out ask her. and if she likes you and you like her then you two will probably be together. and if she doesnt liek you back dont sweat it. theres so many girls out there and one day you will find the right one! i hope i helped you.. love jess
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Dear Jess,
there is this girl in my school who thinks all the guys love her and she is sooooo ugly and has a big nose she keeps trying to take every1's boyfriend and loves away .. i want to beat the shit out of her.. do you think that is the right thing to do .. ?? please helpp !!
alright hunnie, first of all take a breather becuase you are obviously very upset. chances are that the reason this girl is all over all the guys is becuase she is not getting love from other places such as her home life. sometimes girls who come from families who are broken, and do not have a father or mother dont get the proper love they need to be normal. so if they are not getting love from there mother of father they look for it in other places. they realize that if they act a certain way they will get guys to notice them.. they like this attention beucause it makes them feel good. even though you are angry with her, beating her up could just get you in trouble in the end. instead dont let her even waste your time. completly ignore her. if a girl is a "slut" eventually guys will talk about how dirty she is and gross. you are obviosuly above this girl beucase you do not act "slutty" so do not sink down to her level by hitting her, becuase then she will know that she got to you. i hope i helped.. love always jessica
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tiink --
the other night when my boyfriend and i had sex everyting was going wonderful, until i started getting really into it. like i was humping him so hard and all i wanted was to feel it ya know, like feel it down there. i just couldn't get enough of his dick. does this mean he is too small for me? please answer seriously cause i am worried.
wow!
okay i don't really know how to answer this becuase i am still a virgin. sorry .. maybe you should try talking to your partner about this.
lOve jess
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hey jess there is this girl i like thats younger than me but she has a boyfriend but i like her alot but i dont kneo fi she lieks me what should i do?
alright well this is a hard one. it depends how much oler you are from her. if she has a boyfriend then chances are that she likes her boyfriend right now. maybe the time isnt right for you and her to be together if she is already with some one. if you like her then tell her how you feel and see what she says. anything else i can do..... post one
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dear jess.
i like this girl. she is much younger then me but i think i am fallin in luv wit her. i want to ask her out, but i herd she still loves this other kid. i am also afraid that ppl will think i am weird for likin a girl so much younger.
( iam 17 and she is 13) ..wut shuld i do
ok well, you being 17 and her being 13, to be honest you are a little old for her. but if she likes you and you like her then i guess love has no age limits. you should tell her how you feel and see how she responds. you shoulnd't rush to asking her out if you dont know how she feels becuase you dont want your heart to be broken.
if she still loves this other boy then maybe the time just isn't right for you and her, i hope i helped you
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jess -
ok, well there are bunches of kids at my school(the middle school at seymour) that tease me and say bad stuff about me..but one of them i really like, i dont know what to do..please help me..thank you
hunnie,
i am so sorry this is happening to you. the people who are teasing you have nothing better to do with there life then to tease you. thats wrong. the boy or girl you like who teases you if obviously breaking your heart. you should really avoid him or her so you don't get hurt even more. i know it is so hard to say goodbye to some one you like even if they are hurting you. if you don't want to completly ignore him or her heres another idea. if he or she is saying something bad to you, pull them aside and just ask them one on one why they get pleasure out of hurting your feelings. believe it or not but when u confront a bully with words like that, they usually back down. no one should make you feel bad about youself. i hope i helped, if you need anything else you can im me. or leave another post.. love always jess
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um this is really hard to talk about but latly i have bin gettin these red bumps all over my pussy and i dont kno why this is happening i mean i shave all the time and then all these itchy red things come that burn sumtimes..please help me
um.. wow.. this is rele like hard to answer.. cuz im not rele hear for advice like that. um maybe you should ask your doctor, sorry i cant help you with that .. -- jess
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Jess...
everything in life right now is going down hill.. theres this boy who likes me and i like him but lately it just doesnt seem like it.. i wanna find ways to let him go but it is just too hard.. should i talk to him or what should i do
alright hunnie, jus calm dOwn.. things will get better .. if its hurting yOu tO hOld onto him, then maybe yOu should reconsider wut is better fOr yOu. sOmetimes it is sO hard tO let a bOy gO even if they are hurting yOu, in that case yOu shOuld approuch him and try and let him nOe hOw yOu feel. if he cares abOut yOu he will let yOu knOw. bOys are sOmetimes scared tO just gO up to a girl and tell her hOw he feels, sO they dO things that girls may find weird. but it might jus be his way of telling yOu he cares. yOu shOuld definitly gO up to him and try and get yOur feelings out if yOu want tO make things better... ii hOpe it helped, if anything changes post me another comment
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dear jess...
i am soo upset .. my boyfriend just dumped me becuase he thinks i cheated on him, i really didnt cheat on him and i dont know how to make him understand..please help me..
alright,
well hun first Of all , in a realatiOnship there needs tO be trust.. if theres nOt trust then yOUr realationship is rarely able to work out. yOu shOuld sit your ex-boyfriend down and explain to him hOw you feel. explain to him that yOu wouldn't cheat on him because you care to much about him. make him understand that he should be able to trust you..
thanx fOr writing tO me.. i hOpe i helped..
Love always Jess
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