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Gender: Male
Location: Boston
Occupation: Advice Columnist
Member Since: November 7, 2011
Answers: 21
Last Update: August 29, 2015
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I dated the perfect guy a while back but had to let him go cause i'm not ready for a serious relationship. Of course he did what he had to do and moved on, so now he has a girlfriend. For some reason, we started hanging out again "as friends" but lately I felt like we both still have feelings for each other. We'd see each other 3 times a week, hang out at his apt alone, take me to dinner and flirt non stop. This has been going on for three months now. He asked me if he should break up with his girlfriend.. I told him no, because I know i'm still not ready so he is better off with her. Now he won't talk to me!! :( What the heck did I do? Why did he stop talking to me? Did I make the right decision of telling him to stay with her because i'm not ready, even though i know deep inside I wanna be with him? What should I do? And technically, we didn't cheat did we? cuz we aren't hooking up with each other!!
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I think he was veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery wrong. He's just being a jerk, and as somebody said before, he crossed all the lines. I would never do that to a girl. I totally agree that you didn't do anything. He obviously doesn't care about his so called "girlfriend" because he offered to let her go for you. disgusting.
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