Hey everyone!! Well where should i start? Well my name is Chelsey, i live in Connecticut. Ever since i was a little kid i was sort of the person that everone runs to and tell them their problem, and they knew that i would never tell anyone. Also I have a lot of experiance in helping people i am a Peer Mediator in my school and i have been one for 4 years now. I have heard probably every problem that you can imagine from little things to very very dangerous issues. I can't really say some of the things that i have herd because that would braking my code of confidentiallity but i'll tell you some of the things that i have been through. Well I have delt with a lot of love issues from boyfriends to even your family neglecting you from love. For example my Father was a great dad when i was younger but what happened is my parents got divorced because my Father used to abuse my Mother and my Mother knew that she had to get out of the relationship for me because she didn't want me to grow up to that and think that it was a healthy relationship. So at first he was a perfect dad like he was when he was married to my mom but soon he became a deadbeat father never paying child support and never caring about me. He became a criminal which is in prison right now. Well yeah thats all i'm really going to say about that. I have also had a whole lot of experiance with self injury because i used to inflict injuries on myself (a.k.a i used to be a cutter). Also i have had a lot of friends in the past that used to cut and i have helped them all quit because i have helped them through it but i didn't make them top i gave them the comfidence to make themselfs stop. Because i have always said you can never make anyone do anything you can only suggest things and try to make it happen. Only them can have the power to make themself do something. I also know a lot about abuse because my Mother used to be abused by my Father, her Mother and her Brother. And she has told me all about it. Also one of my close friends has been abused by her Father. I know a lot about friendships too and how to make them better. Well thats all i have to say but i am excited to be giving everyone advice soon!!! Lots of Luck to everyone but making their lives better!!
Lots of love xox,
Chel
Gender: Female
Location: Branford
Age: 16
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Well I have this friend. He is really nice and I can be honest with him about almost everything. The problem is there is this one thing I'm not sure I can be honest about.He thinks my other friend (one of my bestestest friends) likes him. I asked her if she really did and she said no. I know I have to tell him so he doesn't get hurt by asking her or something but I don't know how. Any tips on how to break it to him? Should I really tell him? I'll rate high. Unless youranswer doesn't help at all. If you don't have anything to say to help please don't answer. Thank you. (link)
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You really need to tell him!!!!! Your hurting him even more by not telling him!!! i know he's gonna be upset but theres other girls out there. Also imagine if you don't tell him the things he might do before he ask her out how more upset he'll be when she says no also how embaressed!!!!!!!!!!! YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM!!!!!!!
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Hey guys!I don't really know how to explain this but I'll try!Ok..there's this guy that I like and I want to get to know him more and just have a real conversation instead of a few words once in a while..well it happens like everyday.I'm kinda shy so I don't know what to do to start a conversation!I know that kinda sounds stupid but I'm asking it anyway..thanks! (link)
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i;m like so like you i like guys and i'm scared to talk to them but now i like talking to guys and i always talk just pretent it's your friend and try not to worry be yourself and relax if he really like ou he'll like the real you. and if he's checking out your friend and he asks you out and ask if you friend can go i would watch out somethings going on!!!
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Last January I told my best friend that I had made out with someone before. It wasnt true-at the TIME I thought I had made out with somebody, but then I asked my older sister and it turns out what I thought it was wasnt, and I hadnt made out with him, just kissed. I was so embaressed (I had told 2 friends and 2 guys it was a small get-together) I haven't told any of them it wasnt true. But my friends are still persisting to know who it was. I dont want to say I lied to them because thats embarressing, but its hard to keep this up cause I'm a bad liar! My best friend said she wasnt sure if she even believed me! I dont want to be like 'in 8th grade i didnt even know what making out was' not to mention the fact ive kept this up forever but its getting out of control! HELP! (link)
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ohhh!!!!...i've been there i told my friend that i made out with someone and i really didn't...and i kept lying to them and i don't know how but they found out from someone that it wasn't true and they got really mad at me for lying to them they said why didn't you just tell us the truth we would of understanded. so i suggest that you should tell them the truth if there really your friends they'll understand and forgive you.
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I got a new neighbor a few months ago, tight before school started, he's nice and sweet and loads of fun to be around. I told him i liked him a few weeks after he moved in but he said he had a gf who he loved and would never leave. so i kinda gave up, but lately we have become wicked good friends. we hang out all the time at my house or we just walk around the neighborhood. a few weeks ago he tried to kiss me while we were on my trampoline(he admited to it later) but i had a bf at that point and he was still with his girl so i just turned away and got back up. the next day he tells me that he dumped his girl. the next day i get dumped by my bf cuase he wanted to date some slut in a grade below us. so i tell him that. my neighbor and i were on my trampoline again and we are kindalike wrestling a little...and he started feeling me up then we started making out.he pushed away from me and started saying why...why...why...i was soo confused. it was my first kiss too. aparrently he had gotten back together with his gf the day before,he didn't want to cheat on her so we stopped. like 2 minutes later he is fingering me and we are making out again.when we finally stop my brother was pulling in the driveway so we separated quickly and he went home(my bro saw nothing thank goodness).i told my friend who knows everything about me and guys that he kissed me and only that he kissed me i didn't tell anyone else and she said something about it to him and he flipped at me. he didn't want anyone to know cuase then his sis would find out and she would tell his rents then his rents will tell his gf who will start cutting or something again. he stopped talking to me and then one day last week i was sick from school and the next day he asked me if everthing was okay and we started talking again. we started hanging out again. but now we include my friend a lot cuase she lives down the street and we were down at her house and we were watching a cartoon thing on her comp and she was sitting at her computer desk and i was sitting like right next to her on the piano bench and he was sitting behind me. during this cartoon thing he started tickling my side so i grapped his hand. i let it go after i moved it away and then he tickled me again so i grabbed his hand again and he laced his fingers in mine. he just plays with my head like that all the time. should i tell him to stop or no? i really like him and everything but nothing can really form with his gf still there.What do you think i should do? (link)
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I know that you really like him but it's up to you. But i think that you and just him should have a talk about this and how you feel. Also you have to question is it really worth giving up your boyfriend for him? Will you be happier with him. Also he might ( which i highly dought) that he just wants to be really close friends with you be cause i have a boy thats a friend that i hug and kiss and he tickles me and stuf but we just to that cause were really close friends and we love eachother as friends and my b/f under stand and his g/f understand we just don't make out and u kno that kind of stuff like we only kiss o the cheek and a kis son the lps if like were not going to see eachother for a really long time and sometimes i think about would i be happier with him instead but isay i love him but i love my b/f to i i think i am happy now and things are oing great so why ruin it? that what you have to ask yourself.
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Every body at my school has a boyfriend ir girlfriend.. I act myself and every thing.. What I am getting to is What do Guys look for in a girl!! and plz nothing Gross (link)
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well i know how it feels like not to have a boyfriend and all your friends have one it's happening to me right now! and what i've learned is that your supposed to be yourself and your doing that even though you might be desperate don't act like someone your not. But really there are all different types of guys some are nice and are romantic and not perverted. others boys can be the grosest and digusting guys on earth that are just looking for sluts to have sex with them. But i know your frustrated and i know your sick of waiting but thats the only thing you can do is wait for that speacial someone that will love you for yourself.
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