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Okay... let's say that you liked this girl about a year ago... and she liked you... and the two of you had plans to hang out the entire summer, and be to be together and have all sorts of fun. But then, for some reason, she decided to cancle and not even want to be your friend anymore... What would I do about getting her to decide to try things out? We talk on the phone every now and then and the conversations are great. I always ask if she wants to go to sleep or whatever, but she always seems to want to stay on the phone and talk, which makes me think that maybe she misses what we had?? What do you think? How would I go about asking her to reconsider and carry out the plans we had for last summer, this summer? How would I tell her that it has been almost a year and I am still madly in love with her and think about her every second of the day? How would I tell her that she means the world to me and that I want to be with her forever? Please help me out! Thank you! (link)
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Geez, this sounds too familiar. Well, her abruptness wasnt out of the blue and just because. I'm sure she had a very very good reason for the things she did and perhaps more than one very good reason. It may have been that she was interested in someone else or that she just found herself less attracted to you. These things happen, and you can't control other peoples actions and emotions. She still talks to you, so perhaps ya'll are meant to be friends and nothing beyond that for the moment. She knows how you feel, and i think she's already told you how she feels. Most importantly, if she doesn't want to do something, don't attempt to pressure her into it for that would only turn her off more to you. All in all, she obviously does not want to delve into the relationship any deeper. There are plenty other fish in the sea. Hold your head up high, smile, and try your cards elsewhere...
luv, SARAH
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