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So i have a good friend, we were friends since grade 5. now were in grade 8. in facebook, she tagged all her friends. she tagged me as "a good friend" and she tagged other friends including my crush as "the one you can trust on". so my friend doesnt trust me :(... what should i do? we were like sisters...really close to each other. maybe i was acting a little mean to her. thats coz she doesnt care if a guy makes fun of me ... (being racist with me).. (link)
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It's Facebook... seriously.
You can only tag a person once in each "photo" including those charts, so don't take it to heart if you're not tagged on every single one. At least you were tagged at all.
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Books that are dramatic. They need to be no shorter than a Junnie B. Jones sized book.
I already have, The lovely Bones, 2.5 Minute Ride, and Kissing Dorrknobs
I just need other books that deal with death, diseace, or any other thing along the dramatic line. (link)
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The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath
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ok so i'm pretty sure that i wasnt pregnant before october 11. I had sex once during summer without birth control but the guy was only in my vagina for a few seconds accidentally and other than that he was in my ass.. where he finished.. sounds like something that could get me pregnant but ive had a period since then. Then i had sex once right before school started (early september) with a condom... it broke but he put a new one on right after and he finished in my mouth so i'm not too worried about that. Shortly after this, I went on birth control that pretty much gets rid of my period. this lasts three months. I had sex on october 11th without protection and he finished in my vagina.. I have bled since then but idk if it was my period.. I'm now experiencing weight gain. This might be because of thanksgiving, and recently ive been eating out a lot so ive been eating more salty and more food than usual. I was thinking that the weight gain could have just been that i'm retaining more water because i'm pretty thin and can normally eat whatever i want to without gaining any weight. I was getting kinda paranoid about being pregnant so i started looking up symptoms. I'm kinda experiencing frequent peeing, a little bit of constipation (embarrassing to talk about haha) and some fatigue. All of these symptoms have other logical explanations too so the main concern is my belly. So does a "baby bump" look different than if i just gained weight around my belly? If you could show me pictures of what it would look like if it was just weight gain from food or whatever than that would be great. Pregnancy pictures are relatively easy to find but i guess people arent so excited to show off their chubbiness. Also, what do you think the chances are that im pregnant? is it worth getting a pregnancy test? I dont want to waste my money on one if i'm just being paranoid but on the flip side if i'm going to get an abortion or something, which is definitely a possibility, I should probably get on that sooner rather than later. And also buying a pregnancy test would be kinda embarrassing. Please keep comments about how i'm irresponsible for having sex or how im a monster for considering abortion to yourselves.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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You think buying a pregnancy test is embarrassing? Good lord... how would you feel if it turned out you were prego and it was too late for an abortion?! Buy a test.
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She was sleeping in a bed at a hotel for a bday party with a girl. The girl's boyfriend came in and they had sex in the same bed she was in. My friend, Julia is small. The guy turned over and raped Julia. She said she was disgusted blah blah. and the next morning the girl (who is an absolute whore and has a baby now) said "How could you do that?" to Julia!
This was a few years ago and my boyfriend wants me to tell her to tell someone. I want her to too. Her mother thinks she's a whore already and Julia says "it was so long ago. It doesn't make sense to say anything now." I don't know what to tell her. If he's done this to her I'm sure he's done it to others or is going to. By the way, I know who they guy is. I have seen him before. (link)
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If she WANTS to report this, she needs to act QUICKLY!!! There are statutes of limitations on rape and you can check to see what it is in your state.
If your friend doesn't want to tell anyone then that is her decision unless she was a minor when this occured. Really, though, this is her choice. Frustrating, I know.
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Idk if it's a yeast infection, a bladder infection, or something else.
I'm mostly a virgin.
(13/F)
I have random extreme mucusy discharge or white discharge. Like, I need two sheets of tp to clean it up! My underwear is screwed up normally.
I pee all the time and half the time it burns.
I have a rash? right below my belly button.
vj smells, bad. even if i shower.
appreciate help.
also, what are the causes of a yeast infection?
or bladder? thanks! (link)
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Girl, definitely get checked! It sounds like it could be a bladder infection because it burns and you're peeing frequently, and it ALSO sounds a little like a yeast infection because of the discharge.
It never hurts to go to the doc and don't be embarrassed... they see this stuff all the time.
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3 to 4 months and this is what happend this month on the first of december i got my period all normal for the first two days but then it got light then really dark colored and then stoped so obviously i got worried i took a pregnancy test on that thursday it came negative but i was still woried so i took another one on tuesday. that came negative. so im hoping im not or am i taking the test to early my boyfriend almost cums in me al the tiem and we have sex about 3 to 4 times a week at least. is it my birth control or me.? (link)
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Yeah I'm not a fan of condoms and birth control is way more effective than condoms, so as long as you're taking it right you should be fine. He's the only guy you're sleeping with (I take it) so you should be fine on not catching anything.
As for the period, normally if you're pregnant you'll have very light spotting if any sign of a period at all. You should check with your gyno about this.
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I need advice on how to subtly kick things up a notch in my relationship with a professor. I want to let things evolve naturally, but suddenly I feel like the air between us is just charged. I'm fairly certain that he feels the same way towards me and I know him well enough outside of class to make this judgment. I want to give him clear signals that I'm into him but also want to be subtle - I want him to take the lead and know that he's not overstepping his bounds. What can I do/say that would let him know?
Also, I'm not looking to 'hook up with him' - I want an actual relationship. Please note that there's nothing unethical in this - I won't have him for any more classes and there's no conflict of interests or university policies against it.
Thanks! (link)
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Wowwwww! You're quite bold. You professor could lose his job for this kind of behavior. Why don't you wait until you're not in his class and treat him like a normal person? You know, shoot him an e-mail or something.
One of my professors got in a LOT of trouble for this sort of thing with a grad student...
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19/f
I've been dating this guy for a little over two months, we spend quite a bit of time together, and hes asked me to be his girlfriend twice. I wasn't ready then, but right when i was starting to feel like i was, something happened. I wanted to see his phone to look at his texts, because i do this a lot jokingly because most of them are from me anyway. But this time he like hid it from me and deleted all the sent folder, and then gave it to me. and when i looked in the inbox, all these texts were from his ex girlfriend (they dated for two years, and broke up sometime in July). Basically the gist of it was that he had brought me up to her randomly, and so she brought up her boyfriend but my guy got all offended and didn't want to hear about her boyfriend and how perfect he is. So obviously he's not over her..
so my question is, should i keep dating this guy? I like him, but it doesn't seem fair to me. I feel like a rebound.
Please all advice helps! (link)
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Instead of prancing around the issue and just relying on intuition, ask him. Then, next time, don't go through a guy's phone! I know I wouldn't want some guy going through mine...
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i always see like really good pictures of people on facebook with like a photographer name under it and i was wondering if any photographer needs a model? haha i kind of want to model but i just want to take those kind of pictures. (link)
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Try Craigslist... lots of students will want to add a new photograph to their portfolios.
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My friend and I are having a fight with our other friend.
Friend A is boy
Friend B is a girl
I am the third friend.
friend A likes friend B more than just friends. but friend A claims to be bisexual. friend B does NOT like friend A. friend B says that she like likes friend A but he doesn't know that she doesn't like him anymore.
they never told me about this until a little but ago and this has been going on for about two years now. Friend B told me. Friend A is pretending that nothing is going on.
How can i deal with friend B who has lied to me but came clean?
how do i remain friends with friend A and still be mad at him ?
please help!? (link)
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Don't let your friends drag you into their mess. Let them deal with it.
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I'm on birth control and have been for about 2 years. Recently within the last 6 months,I havent had sex and I've been taking the pill almost daily but not always at the same time,sometimes skipping a day etc. but recently I had sex for the first time in 6th months the other day.We did it once with a condom and once without and when we did it without,he pulled out and i saw the sperm on a towel but it might not have been ALL of it.The next day after I had sex,I got cramps as though I was getting my period and had like brownish blood etc..but not alot at all. Today ,there was actually blood clots (gross i know! sorry!) but it was still sort of brown. I'm in the middle of my cycle of birth control so this is weird to happen. On top of that,at the end of lasts months cycle ,instead of getting my period for a week ..i just started a new pack to avoid my period . I'm very confused as to what's happening! help! (link)
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Well, brown blood just means it's not "fresh" blood.
You skipped a period by starting a new pack... I'm guessing that's why the blood is brown and that's why your period is irregular. Sometimes it takes the body time to adjust to a new schedule. If you're super freaked then ask your gyno.
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I need advice quick i dont have much time till friday!!! PLS....Im turning 20 on the 12 of december but i am celebrating on the 11th. My bf works on the 12th and so i wanted to be with him on friday than go to the casino with my sis her bf and my mom and come back at like 1am or sumthing...go to my sis house, have cake sleep wake up he would leave and i would still see him ON my birthday. He doesnt like my sis and her bf very much, i dont know exactly what he has against them but he thinks they are annoying or sumthing. So he doesnt want to stay there, he just wants to drive home from the casino and me and my sis mom and her bf go our seperate way. I dont want this. This birthday has been so frustrating with plannign something SO FREAKING SIMPLE. how can i have cake with my WHOLE family together on my birthday.. Im feeling so stressed I dont even want to go to the casino anymore, i feel like my bday is GONNA SUCK. my sis bf already said, "oh casino is a bad idea but w/e we'll go leave you at the casino and go wonder the town" LIKE WTF...its MY BIRTHDAY just do what I WANT and shut up. Thats what i feel like saying. ANYWAYS, if i dont go to the casino what is something else we can all do as a family that will be a fun experience not just dinner, something a lil more..??? (link)
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Your boyfriend sounds like a piece of work. What a jerk... it's your birthday...
You can't convince someone like that to do anything for anyone else. He's selfish and there's nooooo changing that! You're 20... do yourself a favor and find someone who is willing to give you 100%.
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