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Okay...Im like a mad fun person to chill with. I love having fun. If you can make me laugh i automatically love you..lol! Dancing, cheerleading, and listening to music are my thing. I'm a "good" girl, but I know when to have fun and pary! I am a really loyal friend. When people want me to keep a secret for them I do, because I'm not the type to tell everyone someone else's business. I can't stand people who are two-faced. I know I'm not perfect...but I decided to make my own avice column so I could help people who are in the same kind of situation I was once in before. And that's basically about it. I hope you like my column :)

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sometimes i get real frustrated with my b/f. and i start to hit and throw things i feel that if i dont get my anger under control that i will hurt him one day and it will jeopardize our relationship. how can i get my anger under control?

When you feel like when you are on the verge of getting angry just walk away from him. Give yourself time to cool down. After you have calmed down think about the problem rationally and how it can be fixed. You obviously show signs of someone with anger management issues. I don't know how old you are, but you could ask your parents if they could take you to see a specialist. Also try doing something that will redirect your attention from being angry. Something like running and excercising. Anger is more of a serious problem than people think it is. Being angry usually means that your feelings are hurt. So you should definately talk to your boyfriend about what could make your relationship with him better. Hope you get better :)

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I like this guy but hes older then me!! He's gonna be a junior and im gonna be in 8th grade!! is that a big difference to guys? do they care how old there girlfriend is? thanks!

The age difference really depends on the guy. Sometimes older guys just go out with younger girls because they are more gullable and easier to persuade when it comes to sex and things of that nature. Some guys don't care about the age difference and are genuinely sincere. And some guys prefer girls that are older and more mature so they could talk 'on the same level.' But if you like him then go for it. You never know...you could end up going out with him. It's better if you let him know and find out what will happen than not saying anything and wondering what could have been.
Good Luck :)

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My boyfriend's away in Europe right now & he will be for another week. I'm missing him like crazy & I can only talk to him online because longdistance is expensive. What can I do to get through this time? Any ideas how to get my mind off missing him?

Well a week is so long. So why don't you try to pick up a hobby to pass the time. You should try writing poetry or reading a book. If you aren't into any of those things then just hangout with your friends to keep your mind off him. Instead of thinking of how much you miss him...think about how much fun you guys are going to have once he comes back.

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whats a site to get really cute love quotes and stuff to put in your aol profile 14/f

firehotquotes.bolt.com is really good. They have quotes and cute stuff about everything. You could also just look up quotes on a search engine by typing in 'love quotes.'
Hope I helped.

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Okay well laast week or so I was with a friend and she took me out iwth 2 of her friends andways long story short we were drinking and I ended up sleeping with this guy...I completly regret it now and I knw it was wrong that's not why I'm here....what are teh statistics and stuff on pulling out. And if we did it twice is tehre a even greater preganancy chance? Also I have a boyfriend and I think I lov ehim and I've never been in love before and I want him to know so bad but I just can't bring myself to tell him cuase I don't want to loose him....any help would be so apreciated....thanx

Sorry...I don't know the answer to the statistics on pulling out. But I do know that even if he pulled out there is still a VERY SMALL percentage of getting pregnant. The sperm can live exposed in the air for up to an hour. And there IS a greater chance of being pregnant, especially if you had sex with the guy twice. As for your second issue with telling your boyfriend, normally I would say 'don't tell him.' Because what he doesn't know won't hurt him. Then you said you really love him. If you were to tell him, he'd probably get very mad and maybe even not want to talk to you for a while. In that case you should give him space and time to think about what you told him. If you dont tell him, and he finds out later, he'd probably be even more mad then if you do tell him. He would feel like your entire relationship from when you thought you could be pregnant to the day he found out was a complete lie.
First I think you should find out for sure if you are pregnant or not bye buying a pregnancy test at any drugstore like CVS/pharmecy or Duane Reade. If you are pregnant then you should tell him right away. That way he doesnt find out by someone else later on. If it turns that you are not pregnant then don't tell him. But I think you should tell him that you cheated on him when you were drunk. If you don't than thats fine as long as he NEVER finds out. In order for that to happen make sure that whoever knows about the incident NEVER says anything.
Hope I helped! Lots of Luck :)

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