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i want to get the iphone. My contract ends in september and i already have cingular. Its 400 dollars but then its 40 dollars a month for unlimited txting and stuff. is there any cheaper deals with unlimited ttxting? (link)
All of the packages for the iphone are expensive, that and you need to buy a seperate package for just about everything...internet, navi, text etc. My advice is to find a different phone, Verizon is now offering their version of the iphone with a touch screen, and an unlimited text, pic, flix, internet, navi, and IM is only 20$ a month, and that is to any other cell phone, not just verizon.


16 f
i was going out with this guy on and off for 2 years. he was like the best thing that happeend to me. now we broke up and its official. he was my first love seriously. when i had a bad day he was the only one who could cheer me up. we had a bad breakup so yeah. he confessed that he cheated on me for 8 months and didnt breakup with me becuase he liked me and the girl at the same time. i feel horrible. i dont know what to do. i cant stop crying im so depressed. in 1 day i cry like 7 times. and i get horrible headaches but i cant stop crying like the tears just come out. i cant talk to anyone i dont feel comfterable talking to anyone about this, becuase i have always been the strong girl. but now im weak and i cant help it. i lost the only thing that i cared about in this world so much. how do i deal with this? i dont want to cry anymore i dont want to be dperessed. i keep saying to myself hes not worth it you need someone better but its not working. ugh i dont know what to do. help me please. (link)
Crying about the break up is ok, but you can't live in that depression fog forever. Get out, hang out with friends go to the mall, movies whatever. Sitting and crying about it won't make it go away or make you feel any better about yourself. A good way to rebuild your confidence is to go to the salon, get your hair and nails done, and then get your friends and go out and have a good time. Don't take on another boyfriend because you need to fill that empty void in your life. At 16, you have years to go before you get married and settle down, It make seem bleak now...but it's most likely going to happen quite afew more times before your grown. I dated a guy when I was your age for 3 years and when we split up, I thought I was going to die! Luckily I had great friends to help me through it. You need to remember that you are a person in your own right and should not need a boyfriend to validate that. You'll get through it, just keep your chin up. The sooner that you realise that he cheated on you and wasn't worthy of your love, the sooner you will be able to move on.


my hamster had 7 babys she couldnt even fit through the tubes. i thought they were only suposed to have 3 or 4? the dad hamster shredded up the first baby. ther is a ball on the top of the cage and she had them all in there but its gross theres nothing in therre excep blood poop and the hamsters it stinks so bad and it happend today. what else do i do for the babys? all the babys and mom are laying in the ball and it stinks so bad do i clean it or not if so how?!? they are teddybear hamsters. my mom says their fine but i dont think so. any advice on anything for the lil babys. i have the dad ina tote no top but he can reach most of the way up i dont want him to get out and it was the largest tote. help on anything PLEASEE (link)
It's natrual for the father to kill the babies, cats do it too and in some instances dogs...you have to separate them or he will kill them all.


Ok so I have a problem with my stomach growling...very loudly.
I eat breakfast everyday...a piece of toast and a glass or milk or juice at like 6am. And by 10am. or so I feel like I am starving. My stomach growls so loudly the whole class can hear it and it is really embarassing. I'm not really allowed to snack on food during school, I mean I could if I have to, but I don't see other people doing it. I don't know what to do. And I am also going on a diet. Any ideas/help?
14/gurl/USA (link)
Your stomach is growling because your hungry...and any diet will tell you to make sure you eat a large healthy breakfast. It's the meal that gets you through the day. 14 Is alittle young for dieting, but remember that less is not always better. Instead of eating junk foods, try eating healthier and exersizing...Salads instead of burgers, that sort of thing. Not eating healthy or starving yourself can lead to hair loss, your teeth falling out and brittle bones, at your age I understand that being skinny is what girls want...but be sure not to take your dieting overboard.


When are your supposed to first start seeing a gyno? I'm 15 and have had my period since I was 12. I've only been briefly looked in my vaginal area by my pediatrician years ago. I'm somewhat sexually active (I've done oral, mutual masturbation)

I'm wondering when/how I should ask my mom to visit a gynecologist. I'm a worry wart and just want to make sure everything is okay in my life. (link)
There are plenty of free health clinics that you can go to, that are discreet and no parents involved. If you are planning on being sexually active, you should always practice safe sex and use some form of birth control. Remember that you can get pregnant without actual penetration. Look in the phone book or online for planned parenthood clinics in your area, or talk to your parents about seeing an OBGYN, most parents are very understanding about things like that (I know mine were) Don't be scared to ask. It's better to ask now, than to ask later when it's too late.




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