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Hey yall, im a freshman in highschool and realy would like to help you with all your troubles.Im a happy go lucky guy, and i love to hang ot w/ friends, and have a blast! Im usually prety good about answering questions quickly, but bare with me, my life can get prety hecktic.

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i just figured out that one of my best friends gets beat by her dad, she says that he trys not to do it anymore and that its all ok now....but im not sure.....what shud i do?!

report it immediatly! to a teacher or Adminastrative personel at your school would probably be good. No one needs to go through that pain.

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okay i have 2 questions. 1) do you go to church and 2) i had a friend just come out and tell me he was bi i kinda knew he was but i dont really know what to say hes liek one of my best guy friends and eveything i dont support gay marrige i totlay support him because if i dont ill lose him as a friend and i dotn what that. please hurry up and answer this soon.

OK 1) im what you might call a "Christmas Christian" (goes to church on Christmas, Easter etc.). I belive i realy dont need to go to church every Sunday to confirm what i belive. 2)Im in theatre and im very comfortable arround homosexuals, Bisexuals and all that jazz. But i do support gay marrige, so we may have different opinions on what your friend is doing. But I realy think you should just support your friend. He is going to b veunrible now and will need all the support he can have. You dont have to support gay marrige to support your friend. Just be there for him ok. Hope i helped and good luck!

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and we always have a good time when we are together and he does the littlest things that are so sweet and at times he just can really gett on my nerves.. hes constantly going to this girls house named whittney. but i guess he also plays ditch and then goes there. and these 2 girls were over at his house a couple days and ago and i dont remember very much but i think he said something about them hangin in his room.. but i dont know it was jus him n them in the house and all the sudden hes breakin out street lights and gettin the cops called on him for goin on pplz property late at night and makin loud noises wen playin ditch the hole ditch thing doesnt bother me but he is eggin houses and stuff but wen i did ask him if he was doin that just to b cool and try n fit in with other ppl.. but he jus sed he hadda go.. last night i asked if people say he flirts with others and he says people do say he does flirt but he doesnt know he's flirting.. so do i trust him? and alot of people say they dont know how me and him have held on so long.. my brothers are constantly telling me that.. its hard to let go of a long relationship and you may no that

Ive never been in a long relationship. Well i have but it ended in disaster, so i dont realy count it (quite embarassing realy). But just cause i havent been in a relationship like this one doesnt realy mean i dont know what im talking about. My suggestion is to get out of this relationship. He sounds like bad news to me, almost like hes using you as a trophy. I wouldnt trust a guy who eggs houses and breaks public property itsnt the most honest guy in the world, espicaly when he hangs out with other girls in his room without you arround. As far as how to end it... ill sya the same thing i always do, be honest and upfront, say whats in your heart. hope i helped and good luck!

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i told the i i liekd him he likes me too. but i mean i dont think he respects me and i think hes aplayer i dotn know wether i should have a realtionship with him. he makes me so happy but yet he causes me so much heartache he has saved me for doin crazy things but im going crazy i liek him so much i but i dont think hes the person it haught he was. i dont know how to talk to him about eveything and liek what to say..

honesty is the best policy, just be upfront with him. and as far as what to say.. say whats in your heart. it may be hard but it sounds like it needs to be done.

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i hav a great boyrfriend, n hes really sweet n does a lot of sweet things for me, what are some sweet things i can do for him to show how much i appreciate and like him?

well i know i would like just 2 b huged and loved. mabey if he has some aftyer school activity (sports or w/e) go see it. sometimes the simple things are the best

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Theres this guy i like hes a year older and i liek hims p much like more then ive ever liked anyone.. my parenst dont really like him but they know how much i do . i see him about once evey 2 weeks and like last week we kissed and yea. i dont know how to tell him how i feel without sounding desprate...( your so cool )

ok well first if your realy concernd about how your parents feel about this guy, have a talk with them and see if that helps. and second if the guy still doesnt get how you feel after you kissed.. then well... lets say he may not be the sharpest pencil in the box. but seriously u might just wanna tell him how you feel, he may feel the same way about you. hope i helped

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hey, i hav this frend whos going out with this guy, n hes a total jerk!!! i mean i seriously think they shud break up!!! i hav told her countless times that they shud break up!! n she nos that they need to, cuz she makes up stupid reasons y she shud b mad @ him, i think shes just trying to find a reason to break up with him but she just doesnt see it, i mean, im not saying that i hav a problem with them as a couple, but i hav a problem with him as a person n brain washing her!!!!! help me!!!

Wow, i actully have a problem very similar to that.And hopefully, as it is for me, your friend is a wonderful person, but shes just confused right now. Its realy not up to you to make her decisions for her. Just be there for her when she needs it, mabey even try to push her in the right direction every once and a while. Hopefully one day she will figure it out for herself.

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i hav a problem......i like this guy, n he likes me, but he also likes sum1 else.........shud i dump him or wait n c who he chooses?!

Well it realy depends who you are talking about. If you trust the guy, realy trust him, and think he will pick u in the end with all ur heart and soul, and u realy realy like him, wait. but if this guy has commement issues (which sounds quite possible) or u arnt totaly shure he will pick u in the end, dump him. If ur askin me what to do i would say dump him, but do what you feel is right.

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