I'm Christian. I'm 5'3 i have dark brown eyes. I love to be with my family and friends. I enjoy life to the fullest. I love to go to church and listen to the word of God. And i love to give advices. The way i give an advice is what i would do if i was is that persons shoes so i hope to here from you.
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I am from India. Me and she were madly in love. the relationship continued deeply for about 8 months. There were there were occassions when she was angry with me. But, I was always nice to her and declared my unconditional love. We were very close to getting married. Then it happened ... Her mother has convinced her not to marry me due to my financial situation and my family responsibilities. She still talks to me and listens to me when I say "I love you". But, she tells me that she only wants to be friends with me and nothing more. Was I too nice to her that she got bored? Will I ever get her back? Will she marry me? (link)
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IT sounds to me that you give it your all and she doesn't tell you or says anything about her feelings. My advice is if she's for you no matter how long it takes will be with you and if she doesn't she was never for you. And if you love her just give her time and be her friend. Because is better to be her friend than have her out of your life right
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well... i was really close to this girl, we were good friends and then like one day we was planning to do stuff like goo to the movies that day then she rang back later and said she couldn\'t do anything the next day so im like oh ok.. and then i was on msn and herd from my boyfriend and his cousin that she had invited them over to her house the next day.. i was stunned coz she lied 2 me and said she couldn't do anything and that she didnt even invite me or her own boyfriend to her house instead she invited my boyfriend and his cousin... her little sister and her were only going to be home the next day and her mum doesn't let her have boys over when she isnt home...my boyfriend was at his house with his cousin and they were saying to her on msn like would you have sex with me tomorow(the cousin said that) and she was like no becoz i have a boyfriend and i wouldnt wanna cheat coz i love him and all... i was pissed off at her for inviting them over already.. anyywayz it came the next day and i was like mehh stuff it im gona go out so me and my sister went shopping.. then when we got home at like 4 my boyfriend called me and him and his cousin were going on like guess what i had sex with your friend annd all i was like wtf coz shes 13 and my boyfriends cousin is 17 annd she has never had sex before (she told me she wouldnt until she was ready and had atleast been going out with the guy for more then 4months or something) anyway i was soo shockked i was like omg wtf.. annd then there like nahh were only joking and im like ok annd didnt really believe them anymore.. annd then later on msn they go to me were sorry yeahh my cousin really did have sex with my friend and i was like noo you told me before they didnt.. and there like well it did happen.. then i decided to message my friend and ask her.. so i did, and she replieed and said no it didnt really happen i only hookedup with him as a dare and i was like wat you cheated on your boyfriend coz you hookedup with another guy (this was the first time she had met my boyfriends cousin) and she was like it wasnt cheatin it was a dare.. then i messaged and asked was that all and shes like yess i wouldnt do anything else... then at that moment my boyfriend and his cousin were like to me nahh it didnt really happen and my friend just messaged me and said sorry i take it all back it really did happen.. i had sex with him and i was soo shockked i couldnt not believe it.. and my boyfriend and his cousin still denided it and said it didnt happen.. (his cousin has a fioncee) annyways and i rang my friend and she was like crying on the fone and i go who else knows and she said my mum and im like well tell me everything that happend.. (this was her story) \"we went into the bedroom and your boyfriend (my boyfriend) and my little sister were out in the lounge watching movies and while we were in the bedroom he asked if i wanted a hug coz he said i looked cold so i said ok and then he started hooking up with me (making out) and then he asked if i wanted to hop into the bed soo it was warmer so im like ok and then we hopped in and he started un-dressing me..then he asked if i wanted to have sex and i said yes and then we had sex and after 5mins i said stop becoz it was wrong and it hurt so much\"... i was soo shocked i was like i gtg annd hunng up!! then the next day came and i woke up to a fone call from my friends mum.... she said to me that it really did happen and that she had taken my friend to the docotors and all and i was like im soo shocked i cant believe she even did that becoz its her first time and she goes and does it with a 17 yearold and there not even going out!! and it was the first time she had met him.. and her mum told me to be supportive and like stick by my friend and all and give her sympathy coz she isnt in a very good state at the moment.. i was like ok.. then yesterday i was talking to my boyfriend and he was telling me the truth that really happend.. and i found out that my friend had also given his cousin head and he licked her out!! i was shocked even more soo as she had not even done this with her boyfriend yet.. i was also told that his cousin and her had also had a conversation over the fone the day after it had happend saying that she would doo it again!! i was like STUNNED.. becoz as if she is proud of what she did.. she lied 2 lots of people eg.me she cheated on her boyfriend and she broke her mums trust... i dont think i can be friends with her after she is trying to get sympathy from people but then telling other people in a way thats like she is proud of wat she did!! i dont think i can be friends with a person like that.. she lied to me and it really hurt me and i was already angry at her for even inviting them over and telling me she couldn't do anything.. she also told my other friend yesterday that she got raped!! and that is no where near true!! she agrreed 2 have sex with him and she was happy with it becoz they were going for over 30mins (which is what my boyfriend said) annd she also did other stuff which means she didnt plann on stopping.. she also agreed to doo it again!! her and her boyfriend have broken up now and im glad becoz she does not deserve him at all!! she should be ashammed of what she did and its nothing to be proud of!! i dont no how i can not judge her even thoo she is ment 2 be my friend.. but i dont no anymore becoz i still cant get over what she did!! this is gona stick with her for the rest of her life and your virginity is not something you can just throww around you want your first time to be special not with someone that you had only met for like 30mins and that you dont even no annd your not even dating.. can you please help me and give me some advice im sorry this is so long i just wanted to give you the whole story.. please helpp i need some advice... should i still be her friend ?? or should i tell her how i really feel?? what do i doo?? 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my adive is to always tell people how you feel because that way your friendship becomes stronger and that way you'll know what really happened on your own and not by hearing it frim other people always ask the person who it is what happened other than people that were there because sometimes the people that were there intend to add more to the story
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i am really scared. (no this isnt anything to do ith 6/6/6 its just that 666 got me thinking of this) when the world ends, how exactly is it going to end? i do not have very good knowledge of the bible. i know that no one knows, but everyone says all this horrible ways like it will go up in flames. but why would god torture us like that? why can't he just make everything dissappear in a split second? why would god want to make the world end in a horrible way, and why would he even want the world to end. please explain this is a clear way cause im not good with this stuff. and pleaaaaaaaaseplease don't say "don't worry about it wont happen/it wont happen in your lifetime" (link)
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YOu shouldn't be scared just have faith in God and his son Jesus Christ. And always put God has your first because he was the one that made you and he made you for a purpose and to answer your first question God is not torturing us is because when the people that love him and have faith in him go to heaven with him. There would be a battle here because the devil is going to try to confuse people and he will have peace with the universe and he will pretend to be a believer himself and is all a lie don't let that fool you. And some people that are going to left behind are going to start believe in the bible. But the devil is not going to like that because he wants people only to believe in him. So, if you get left behind and you say you believe in God he will kill you. But you will be died in the flesh but your spirit will be in heaven partying with all those people that had faith and it as nothing to do if your good or bad it has to do with how strong is your faith and how much is it that you love God and if you tell other people about him. Do you even talk to him because even though you don't see him believe me his listening to you all the time.And i know we have moments that it feels like he isn't which that is the devil trying to tell you other wise. Pray and give thanks to give everyday for giving you what you have and read the bible once in a while and you will start to understand many things and if you need a Pastor to explain many things that we don't understand in the bible go to Bronx,New York in 2111starling ave and if you don't live in New york go to a man of God and he will explain many things to you that you don't really understand and if you have any questions about what i told you ask me and i will be very happy to help you. or if you have questions of something else i would be happy to help you in everyway that i can. I'm not an expert but I'm a believer that God is the one and only
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