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ok, i have a boyfriend....lets call him..alex*. I really really like him and all... but my friend..(lets call her..mandy*)is mad at him. She said i don't spend enough time with her or anything because she is always with alex. She got mad about sumthin, and said i had to choose between her or alex. I don't know what to do. I'm really confused. I don't really wanna have to choose. Is there a way i can make them both happy or sumthin? I seem to find time to hang out with two of my friends and alex.. but for some reason i cant find time to talk to mandy a lot lately... please help!!!

Well, first off my name is Alex so this kinda makes me happy. Ok, now to the question. First off, be glad she DOESN'T like "alex" because i just answered a ? about a person in Mandy's position like "alex". So if you want to make them both happy, i say invite them both to, lets say the mall. Everyone likes the mall, right? Ok , so try to get them to talk to each other, and then once they are a little less hostile you can do those kind of things more often. Soon all 3 of you are friends and you can hang out with them at the same time!

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I really like my best friends bf. they just started dating today.. but i have liked him all summer. i hang out with his sisters all the time, so im ALWAYS with him. we have dated in the past too. Do i tell my best friend i like him? Do I tell him I like him? or do i just wait and see how things go between them and just keep my feelings to myself?

Please Help!!

Well, if I was in your place, I would just say to hell with the best friend and just tell the guy you like him. Chances are he likes you more any way. If you let them go without saying anything bad things could happen 0_o

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