My name is Ashley I am 22 years old. I love giving advice to anyone about anything so ask away. I live in california I am a receptionist.
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Well I'm 13 and a female. My friend told me that my bestfriend has said bad things about me behind my back. We've been best friends for 4 years. My best friend and I had this huge fight about talking behind each other behind our backs. Her cousin told me that she didn't say anything about me behind my back and said, "why wouldn't you believe your best friend". Well it's true but my friend told me this real bad family secret of hers so I thought if she can trust me this I'll trust her about the best friend thing. Then I tried sorting out things with my best friend but I don't think she really doesn't want too. But the thing is I don't know if I want to either now. I don't know what to do? So what am I suppose to do? Should I ask my friend if she was telling the truth or ask my best friend if she was telling the truth? I seriously don't know what to do! (link)
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Dear friend,
You should believe your bestfriend why would she lie to you. You two have been friends for 4 years. I think your friend may be jealous of your best friend because she wants to be your best friend. You and your best friend have been friends for 4 years you can't let a silly rumor ruin that. Espcially since you are in middle school and thats when all the gossiping and rumors ,and people talking behind your back start. You just have to find out who your real friends are. I hope I helped. ~MESACHICK51~
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The thing is my dad suspects me to be perfect and the thing is I'm not. And i can never be. I can never be the girl he wants me to be and i dont know what to do anymore, i'd tell him all that but he would just kick me out and i would have no where to go , can you help me please? (link)
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Hello,
My advice to you is to sit your dad down and be very nice about the situation. Tell him you love that he wants you to be perfect, but it is just not possible. Tell him that you can try to be perfect, but can't promise that you won't mess up ocassinally. He needs to know that everyone messes up at least once in there life. Hopefully he will listen and understand. I hope my advice works let me know ~MESACHICK51~
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im 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 5 months..we had unprotected sex but he pulled out before he came..im really worried that i am pregnant, and i could never tell my parents..i have been gettin pains in my stomach, but it could jsut be me worrying..or my period is coming..what should i do..i cant keep the baby..and im jsut really worried..is there ways i could get an abortion with out my parents knowing?..like the morning after pill
please give me some adivce what to do before i go insane (link)
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Hey girl,
There are ways to get an abortion without your parents knowing, but you should tell your parents what is going on they deserve to know. Trust me I am going through the same thing as you. I told my parents and everything turned out fine. Also if you tell your parents they can take you to get checked out. If you don't wanna tell your parents you have to tell someone you trust to take you to get checked out because the longer you wait the worse it will be. Espicially if you are pregnant. Well I hoped I helped you out. Sincerly Mesachick51
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