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My mom said sometimes I act ditzy, or dumb. but i don't. i'm just being silly. thats how i am. i make jokes out of everything, and i smile alot and talk alot. and i was telling my mom, how this one girl, got like all mad because i dno whatever i said, and she told me that i have to change how i am around certain people. but i'm having a hard time agreeing with that. like why should i change who i am, just to impress someone? or anything? shouldnt i be who i completely am, all the time. i dont think its right that i should have to, be more quit, or not laugh as much or whatever, just for someone to like me.

what do you think? do you think im being wrong about this? (link)
tell your mother that you can't change a personality just because someone tol you to it is unique any way that you see it.also tell her that you are that type of person who likes to joke around alot and kind act serious when you are around her.


Alright, so I constantly get good grades and awards, and stuff like that.. and I do chores and everything, but my mom never takes me anywhere! Whenever I want to go places, my mom will say she's too tired or make up an excuse, but then she goes off with her bf and goes to a restaurant or someplace like that.

I obviously can't drive or anything, and I'm sure none of my friends would drive me anywhere either, unless we're going together somewhere, but what if I want to go shopping or something by myself? I just want to be able to go somewhere! & I'm not allowed to take taxis either & no, walking isn't an option.. plzzz..
What do I do!? I'm going crazy being at home.. (link)
tell your mother exactly how you feel and ask your mom's bf to stay out of this for a little bit and evertime your mom wants to go out he will say no.then after that happens you tlak to your mom about what you want to do and how you have already earned it.


I really want to wear it yet at the same time I don't want others laugh at me. Individuality is very important to me, but I want to be accepted too. What can I do? (link)
if you have any magazines or someone to help you mix and match your clothes ask them how to put outfits together.


I've been friends with this girl since third grade. This year, well, let's just say I learned who she REALLY was. (She told my best friend's boyfriend that they were a lesbian just to get him to break up with her cause she liked him. She also went on that same girl's screen name and cussed me and alot of other people out.) Me and all of my friends are s-i-c-k of how she treats us, so we're all trying to just back off from her. She also drinks, so we aren't even allowed to hang around her in the first place. She keeps coming out of no where (I don't even know where the hell the stalker is coming from) and interrupting me, yells about how we didn't wait for her, then asks us what we're talking about. If we don't do something with her, she freaks out. She's been pissed off at all of us each at least once every day for the past two weeks. She was going through our purses today looking for notes when we weren't looking. Isn't that like a little bit obsessive? GAH! How do I get her to leave me alone?! (link)
tell her off and get all of your friends and say "We don't want you around here and just go away".if she does not get the point just abandon her and don't ever include her.take out all of your personal things from your purses so she doesn't get anything from it.




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