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I met this girl and we instantly clicked. We relate to each other in many ways and we always have a good time with one another. Our conversations that we have are really deep and we are able to understand each other very well. Sometimes it feels like I am talking to the female version of myself. The problem is I asked her out and she told me she has a boyfriend of less than a month. She told that if she didn't have a boyfriend she would have gone out on a date with me. Fast forward a week later, she asks me to get lunch with her. We had a great time. Later that week, after work I found myself asking her to go to the park and hang out. She agrees and one of the first thing she asks me is about my past relationships and I tell her a little bit about it. Again we had a great time.
I want her to dump her boyfriend, but I am not willing to interfere. I am just thinking about telling her, that we can't hangout outside of work because I feel like it would be disrespectful to her boyfriend since she is hanging out with a guy that has feelings for her. Do you guys think I should tell her that? (link)
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My friend, you sound like a nice guy and I imagine you care quite a great deal about this girl. But if I'm being honest here, if she wanted to be with you, she would be with you. As you've said, you've already expressed how you felt about her, she said she wasn't interested by telling you she had a boyfriend. And of a month? She MIGHT like you, that could be fair to say. But if she REALLY did, she would make it happen.
It sounds like she wants to be "just friends." While it is possible, it is not painless.
I wish you the best in your decision. You're going to do what ever you want to do.
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