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im 13f n ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost three weeks now and we still havent kissed. he kisses me on the cheek all the time but thats it. is this going too slow? (link)
i dont think it too slow becuse. maybe hes just waiting for the right moment.. i mean have you gys gone ta the movies... and all maybe you should hang out more one on one in a better enviroment then you both can feel the heat! lol and then you guys will prolly do "stuff" if thats wut you want


hey well me and my g/f have been goin out for like 5 months and i dont kno wat to get her for valentines day..i got herr a bear and a heart necklace already for x-mas ...plz help..
i rate high... (link)
FLOWERSS!! every gurl loves flowers! and chocolate!and just even like a purfume or maybe another peice of jewlary maybe a braclet. that would b sweet


Well there is this girl i like and we are really good friends and i want to ask her out but i dont know if her parents let her date im in 8th grade so i dont know if i should ask her out i dont want to make our friend ship all akward please help... (link)
well if you do go out with her then you should just do like things with a group of freinds like im in 8th grade too and my mom doesnt let me ONE-ON-ONE date but i can do things with a group of friends so just talk to her and then ask her out and if she says no then b like "okay its fine lets just act like nothing happend then cuz i dont want our friendship ta b all weird now" and im shua she'll b down wit that cuz she wouldnt want al that akwardness either
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ok i have a bunch of friends that are just friends but i love them to death and i would do ne thing for them b/c they are my friends. some of them are girls and i wanted to get them sumthin so they would know i care for them. what should i get for a girl that i like a lot as a friend? like what do girls like to get from their guy friends? (link)
THATS AN EASY QUESTION! lol well comin froma gurl FLOWERS!! deff! i love flowers and i think any gurl would.. or if you guys are really close then maybe something you both find funny like and insider.. or sumthing.. maybe like a good movie shes been dying for then you guys could both watch it and jewlary and even lip gloss! thats always a good gift
hope i helpd a lil
.:*livvy*:.


okay everybody,

I have a friend who is 12, but she's kinda tall, or atleast, that' what everybody says, and she's starting to hate it, czuse she think it's kind of annoying, so to reassure her, can someone tell me what the average height for someone who is 12, weighs 90 lb, is? I want to know, so I can tell if she really is too tall or not.plz help (link)
being tall isnt a bad thing.. i mean look at the models!! i would kill ta have long legs like that! shes prolly really lucky the only thing is that all the guys are smaller than you. but they will grow it all takes time.. but for now i wouldnt worry about it i would say maybe fora twelve year old... prolly 5'2 is average but at this point in your life everyone is different we're all goin threw puberty and some ppl go threw it quicker than ohters.
hope i helped
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13-m---like on a regular day, what kind of manners do girls notice the most or expect to see. guys dont care but thats not the group im aimed at. (just like when ur doing regualr things not like in front of ur g/f) (link)
well.. its always hot ta c a guy respect others and like if your walkin some where with a gurl let them go in front of you if its threw a door or maybe carry their books thats really sweet. but if you mean just like normal manners... well chew with your mouth closed DEFFINENTYL!!! and dont like SCREAM down the hall dont b like loud and obnoxious i mean gurls like to c that you can have fun and not b shy but its REALLY ANNOYING when your like talkin dirty really loud. ad i dunno maybe some gurls are into the bad boi thing but i dont think its really attractive when guys swear alot. but idk
hope i helped you a lil


13-m What clothes should be worn on a regular day when ur trying to impress people.(im on a budget so no p diddy stuff.) (link)
depends.... if your prep go ta like hollister or abercrombie and fitch also american eagle maybe even aeropostal. i think guys that dress really nice and kinda preppy are gorgeous!! or if your like sk8er go ta like pac sun maybe zumiez! them guys are hot too! just dress nice weather its a t and a nice pare of jeans or a sweat shirt and jeans.. just DO NOT!! dress like a scrub! guys who look nice and are ****CLEAN!!!!**** are always attractive.


I got my cartilage pierced in august, and I didn't have a problem with it until now. Everytime I take the earring out to try and put a new one in, it seems like the back of my ear scabbed over in the 5 seconds that an earring wasn't in. I have to push the earring in, and eventually I get it in, and it's usually fine. Today I changed it again, and I tried to put a new one it-a post hoop, and I couldn't get it in cause it hurt. Then the back of my ear started to bleed a little. Does that mean it's infected? Or just irritated? Should I take the earring out and let it close up, or is it something that will go away? What should I do? I don't want to take it out. Thanks (link)
its only infected if it like hurts alot and stuff but i think that its just a bit irritated and you should prolly use some really nice earings like real gold or real silver. thats wut i use and then just try to leave that good earingin for a while and if things dont get better try to use rubbing alcohol to clean it out from infection.
but it might sting a bit but that natural.it means its doin its job!
hope i helped
Livvy


this sounds really but here it goes... how do you kiss someone? (link)
tilt your head opposite of his and close your eyes and just start with little pecks here and there and if they are feelin you then you can open your mouth up a lil and just move in! lol if the other person has more experience let them lead you it will all flow good. just try to think of it as your tounges like dancing together! lol it sounds dumb but it works! lol


I was wondering if anyone knew any web-sites where they have hair cut idea or picutes of diffrent like hair styles. Thanx a bunch! xoxo - KrIsSy* (link)
i would look in like teen people magazines you can get alot of cute hair styles that like all the stars have.


there was this girl that was pretty attractive sitting by me at the movies the other day and she goes to my school and i dont really know but ne way every time something scary popped up during she would grab my arm. So what do you think i should do. Do you think i should try to get to know her better or was it just nothing and i should forget about? (link)
okay commin from a gurl she was deff. flirting with you! i think that you should like get her sn or like her e-mail and b like "hey so did you like that movie.." then b like "would you like to go to another one with me..." and stuff like that im shua shes into you

hope i helped
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I'm turning 14 and im throwing a big guy/girl party. im just burning CD's for the party and i need some good dancing music. Can anyone list some really hot music to dance to including slow songs, rock, and hip hop/rap? i would really appreciate it. the list can be as long as you want!!! THANKS!! (link)
cierra 1, 2 step and milk shakie... its kinda old but its real fun tadance to and dip it low and salt shaker and drop itlike its hot and idk theres alot but that just my style idk if your country or oldiez od w/e but yea hope i helped a lil

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ok well i have sweaty armpit and i want it to go away i want to tell my mom but i dont now how to strike up a conversation..like hi mom i need to go to the doctor for my arm pits...what should i say??help please (link)
well if you really feel unconfertable with your mom knowing then just like go ta the store and buy anti perseperent deoderant. and dont wear shirts that show sweat


16/f
So I really like this guy and I want to talk to him about us... a lotta people who hang out with us think he likes me too... but I just don't know. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how to bring it up without sounding really forward. I also don't want to mess up our friendship if he ends up not liking me. I don't want things to get weird when we hang out if I tell him I like him and then he doesn't like me back... so I guess I just want ideas on how to bring it up and talk about it and what I can do maybe to flirt more with him and things. I already flirt a lot with him... but more ideas might help.
-Karen (link)
well how about just you two go out to a movie and when you look into eachothers eyes you will be able to tell if hes willing to move in and if he does then just kiss him and then later you can talk about it and what it meant to you. cuz then its not like your being too forward if you just ask him to teh movies as "just friends" and if he does like you then he would say yes to the movie then you would have some alone time to talk and you knoe maybe a lil more .... WINK WINK! lol

but yea good luck

lyl
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Okay I have a guy friend 'Alexander' I know Alex from my tap dance, we are in the same class together and I sort of befriended him because he was extremely nice. Well he loves to dance, and he is really gifted but all the other girls in the class are being really really mean to him. He has such a friendly attitude that he goes up everyone and says hi, even the 'In' group which he wants to be a part of so badly. I honestly don't know why he would want to be nice to stuck up know-it-alls but thats just my opinion talking there. They give him threats and say he is gay, plus all his friends at school make fun of him and call him gay also. He was so hurt when told me all this he was near tears, I felt sooo sorry for him. I feel sorry for him because I have been the only person that has been nice to him, and I tend to want to make fun of guys and call guys names.
He told me how hurt he was last week and that he had made himself come to dance that day. I do understand how he feels, My entire life I have been made fun of.

my problem is I like Alex and I know I shouldn't because i'm setting myself up for pain. I want to stay away from him but then I would be hurting Alex because he would think I didn't like him either. I try not to think of him because I know he doesn't like me and I will get hurt like all the other times before, Plus I'm too ugly for any guy. (link)
awe! thats a really cute but sad story well i think that you should deff like him thats wut he needs right now he needs someone to care for him and luv him and make him feel better about him self. and you should help him out with his troubles at school. like if ppl start to make fun of him stand up for him and if they all decide to b all immiture about and b like "ooo you like him!" then be like "yea yea i do! okay hes a nice boy and he is my friend! now is there sumthing wrong with that?" and if they laugh who cares! you did wut was right and alex will deff like you. and if you do start to like him its not gonna cause you n e pain. you both will b very happy in your own ways!

hope i helped
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need n e thing else just holla!! lol

p.s. no one is too ugly to get a guy. if they are real guys then they will accept you for who you are. and if they dont then they arent the kinda guys you want to b wit n e ways


when it comes to asking ppl out...am i wrong to think that guys should ask the grls out? be serious plz.. (link)
definantly not! i think that gurls should totally be the ones to make the first move! cuz guys love gurls who can b confident and ask a guy out. like i mean it takes guts to open your heart up to some one and i knoe that guys like that. so go for it!

hope i helped
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sorry! ook..here it is.. i sweat alot under the arms.. ( im a girl . 13 years.) if i try to wear a color shirt besides black or white..you always see sweat spots around the arm pits..even when its winter.. what should i do so i can wear any color shirts? .. (by the way. i wear non-presperant deodorent) (link)
well all ya gotta do is buy like that deoderant that like smells good but still drys up sweat. dont get like the gell kind cuz that wil only make it worse i mean it will smell good but it will look all wet. and wear like short sleeve shirts alot of the time so its cooler around you and like just b relaxed i mean i dont kno if your up tight about things but if your not all stressed out your less likely to get all sweaty and worked up so i hope this helps out a bit
need n e thing else just ask

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how do you get a guy interested? (link)
well normally i would just pay alot of attention to this guy and just like show him that you care about him and try to talk about things he can relate to but still try to b sexy and gurlie cuz you dont wanna just be all talkin about football and pickin your ass all day lol cuz then you would come off as more of a sister or best friend to him not like a gurlfriend. so then after you start like talkin to him more then start making more flirty contact.. like always like trying to touch him but not like rape or n e thing just like try to put your hand on his or sumthing b like "wow you have big hands" or sumthing kinda not obviouse but then that would give you a chance to hold hands with him and just lil things like that welll i hope this helps you out a bit

if you need ne thing else w/b n e time

luv always .:*livvy*:.


Okay I am 13/f and I have never kissed a boy before. Well my boyfriend and I were playing Truth or Dare online and I dared him to kiss me. He said he would but he would have to do it between two of the buildings at school so we don't get a PDA refferal. This is not what I am asking advice on. I am nervous to kiss him because like I said I have never kissed a boy before. I need to know like what to do, how to do it, how to keep myself from being nervous and stuff like that thanx.~*Never Been Kissed*~p.s.I rate, good. (link)
i remember when my first real kiss was and your prolly gonna remember this too for the rest of your life. so yea its gotta b special everyone will prolly say ..."it will come natural" and yea thats tru but it wont if your nervous and not ready. so wut i would suggest is go to myjellybean.com they have a bunch of kissing tips there its a really fun site im shua it will teach you alot more than i can preach to you about "it will come natural"

hope i helped
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my mom and dad separted and now i live with my mom and her boyfriend in missouri. my dad still lives in iowa and i want to go live with him but he doesn't have a permanent place to stay yet. and thats y my mom won't let me move with him. do u think that is fair? (link)
yea i think thats fair. your mom is just trying to protect you and if your dad doesnt even have a permenent stable place to live yet then hes prolly not even ready to take you in. its prlly best for you to stay with your mom until your dad finds a place to stay. your mom still has control over you if your over 18 then its deff not fair because when your that age you can do w/e you want and no one can hold you back.

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