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ok well....i have a friend who like backstabbed me or w/e and she kinda talked behind my back to other friends about me and i dont want her to do it again...but i kinda sorta told her that i didnt want to be friends w/ her nemore and now i DEFIANTLY want to take it back! im just scared that she wont listen to me and be a bitch about it and im soo freaking confused!
b/c then she might go behind my back again! and say she didnt when we all know she did.... (link)
hey... appologize and tell her that u really didnt meen it and that u were so caught up in ffrustration that the words just slipped out im sure shell understand i mean it mite take her a while to acctually forgive her but give her a note or talk to her one on one i mean it ccant hurt n e thing and look all ppl made mistakes everyone so if she backstabs u again disscuss it with her and dont get into a fit and just work it out its that simple!


Ok. I am having what I think is a morale problem. I am the lowest man on the totem pole at work, hence I get all the crap. I have to keep up with where my coworkers are if I want them to help me. All of the extraneous stuff falls on me. Our schedule is so tight for the next two weeks that I am only getting one day off a week. The good news is that I am getting overtime pay. So now every little challenge that comes across my desk other than what is scheduled is driving me nuts. I can't talk to my boss without being argumentative. I bitch and moan every day. I do like my job most days, but it hasn't been fun lately. I know its a job, but do I have to make myself miserable? What are some techniques on making work easier with the knowledge is the only thing that is constant is change? And there are like 26 million I's in the question, how do I turn my focus outward?
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Get used to it if your going to have a job! I mean please, everyone goes through stress in their life its like totally wrong if u dont... so just plain out get used to it i mean try to rearrange somethings if u can so that u dont have to constantly going from this place to this... but hun...its just a part of life... grow up and live with it!


my boyfriend and i have been going out for about a year now, and we decided to have sex for the first time 2 or 3 weeks ago....
i was really worried about getting pregnant so i took a home pregnancy test... it didnt work because it didnt give me an answer! it like broke after the time was up!
i dont want to go and get another test, i definately cant tell my mom i may be pregnant, i have no clue how to tell my boyfriend, i cant go to the doctor because i cant drive... and like im gonna tell the gossipy counselours or the nurse at school... oh please....

i have no idea what to do... who should i tell? where should i go?? and if i am pregnant (if so, i will tell my boyfriend at that point)
what am i gonna do with the baby??
PLEASE HELP! (link)
wow...thats a tuff one... i think you should tell your mom and go to the doctor and find out i mean its worst if in a few months she sees you just rapidly getting fatter and fatter she would get even more mad that you havnt told her and if you wait to long it mite be too late o get an abortion f thats the path ur headed on...tell your boyfriend... if u were a mother wouldn't u like to know? there is always the option of getting an older friend that can drive that you trust to take u to the clinic... but i mean they have to have a parent signature and ur insurance and all that so u would have to get ur mother n e ways.. so the est bet is to tell ur mom the worst that can happen is ull get grounded but its better than having a baby and getting grounded for life


me and my friends are in a HUGE fite and i know its all my fault but i dont want to admitt that to her what do i do? (link)
well u could just slip her a lil not to her saying u no u wer wrong i mean shes not going to go announce it to the hole school or something is she? just tell her your sorry and ull try not to do it again... it usually works everytime but it mite take a while for her to forgive u bnut let her have her time and space. but dont worry im sure that yall will be friends again real soon!


ive had sex and im known as the school slut now how do i get my old reputation back? (link)
well...reputations are hard to get back for a starter you could stop sleeping around and maybe u mite need to hang out with different friends but once rumors start they are sometimes never ending but dont worry there is much hope... but if u wunt ur reputation back... u have to work hard to get it back... and everything ppl say bnout u behind ur back is tottally up to what u say and how U act.




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