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I'm new to this... anyway. I had a dream about my best guyfriend (me and him had a little dissagreement a week or 2 ago). His name is Iba.
So I looked in Iba's Profile in my dream and it said- STATUS:ENGAGED. (iba isnt really into girls yet but hes NOT GAY and i know it for a fact. We're aged 15/16). I asked him what his profile ment and he said that he met this fantastic girl and stuff. I was shocked that i didnt know about it. He told me how wonderfull she was and then he said to me: "I love her" (Iba has never in real life said he loves anyone... with an acception of religious stuff and family and stuff (We're Muslim)) So when he said that he loved her i lost ALL hope in ever having him as my own. Deep down inside i knew they were perfect for one another but i couldnt admit it. I told him i was happy for him and i was in a way. I was happy that he found someone so wonderful but i was sad because I wasnt the one who made him happy.
Iba and I are complete opposites. Hes shy, quiet, funny,nonchallant and very religious whereas I'm outgoing, spontanious, over dramatic, sensitive, and paranoid.
my question is: what do you think my dream ment? and WHY do you think i had this dream? and any other advice?
(Age: 15.5 EXACTLY SEX:FEMALE)
Lol Sarah, Iba? I think your dream meant that YOU really like him and that you're afraid to lose him. Sometimes during the day when you think about something so much, or so little, they end up popping up in your dreams that night, I don't know why, but it has happened to me tons of times. Usually when I think about something I don't know let's say cheese for like a second of my day, that night I end up dreaming about something to do with cheese. Weird, yes? But it happens. Maybe for a second you thought, 'oh my god what if Iba found another girl?' So maybe that's why you dreamt about it. Other than that there's not really a reason for him being in your dream except you're in love with the kid and don't want to see him with another girl.
Hey I have something called excema and its realy bad and it puts white spots on my back and arms and whenever i go somewhere public people stare..what can i do :(
Well there's nothing I can really tell you to do except see a doctor and he'll prescribe medication to you. Basically you just have to know that it doesn't matter what other people think, and besides it's none of their business. If you see someone staring at your back or arms, give em' a dirty look and they'll know to back down, otherwise you'll probably go on feeling hurt and sad a lot of the time. Hope I helped, also you can put moisturizer on your arms and back, which can also help.
Does anyone know how to figure out your bra size at home? I hate going into the stores and having the people measure you.
There's two different ways you can measure yourself at home. One, take a measuring tape and right under your bust measure there, or two, you can measure on your boobs, whichever is more comfortable for you, they're going to be a little off, but measuring underneath your bust gives you a better-fitted bra. Hope I helped :)
My boyfriend likes to grab my butt when were standin upp and kissing.. he later told me that it makes me kiss more when he does that.. [ there was a joke involved but you wouldnt understand] anyways.. i sorda wanna get him back.. so where should i touch him that he'll kiss more? =).
Lol, well I could tell you a place, but it would kind of be inappropriate. You could either touch him 'there', or grab his butt back. Those are about the only places I know of, good luck ;).
ok i am really really pale. and no matter what i do i dont get tan i burn and get more freckles. i have the darkest freckles you will ever see and theyre EVERYWHERE!! on my legs, arms, face, etc. any advice on how to get more color? i dont want to use the summer glow crap cuz ive heard it makes you look orange. please help im like the palest person at my school!!
Well there's not much we can tell you to do besides going tanning at a salon or sunbathing using sunscreen. Not all of the summer glow stuff turns your orange, the kind I use works great and looks real. It's called Touch of Sun by Olay, seriously try it because it's the only thing I know of that really works. They have two different bottles, one's smaller and used for your face and the other one is larger and is used all over your body. For like two days I used it on my body and it looked like I had been sunbathing both of those days because the tan looked so real. Try it, please, I know you won't be disappointed.
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Tonight I am going to try to have a lucid dream (where you control what you do in a dream and realize that you are dreaming) to practice french kissing.
If I successfully have this lucid dream will it give me decent practice with french kissing? I only have a couple of times in real life but last night I realized that when I kissed this guy that it seemed very real (in a lucid dream). I just want to be more experienced for when it comes to french kissing this guy that I really like (and he likes me) so that it will go well.
Thanks for your advice! I rate. :)
Yupp, it's really possible. I used to have a friend who told me that at night she would try having lucid dreams about making out with her boyfriend and then in real life when she was kissing him, what she did in her dream is what she did in real life. So, I guess anything is possible.
P.S: Supposedly, she said it really helps and made her more experienced, I haven't seen her in over a year, but on the phone she talks about it all the time.
Okay. I'm 14 year old female and I chinese. Normally, chinese aren't suppose to have curly hair and suppose to have fine hair, but I don't. But that's not the question.
I have curly, frizzy hair and I want to tame it down, so it isn't so frizzy.
What are some good products that can kinda make it less frizzy. What can I do to make it let frizzy.
-Thanks
Take it from someone who knows what wicked frizzy hair is like, mine is THE WORST. What I use it Herbal Essences None of Your Frizzness shampoo & conditioner (orange bottles). They also have a leave-in cream you can use with the other products. They work AMAZING, they don't make your hair unbelievably flat and straight, but they help A LOT. If you use a flat iron to straighten your hair, you can use another one of their products called Dangerously Straight Flat Out Finishing Spray (in a purple spray bottle). It really helps when you're trying to straighten your hair. Also, I've heard of Sunsilk shampoo & conditioner, and I hear it's really good. Their products also come with a cream to use after you've showered. Go to Sunsilk.com and you can order free samples, they take a while to get to your house, so you could just go out to Walgreens or CVS and pick some up. Hope I helped :)
ok so here is the deal. i shave down there region. but i always get razor burn and ingrown hairs. is there anyway to prevent this from happenes. becuase i just dont like my boyfriend looking at it after i shave becuase i think it liiks ugly. please help. oh yeah i am 19
Well what you can do, if you still want to use a razor, is trim the hair till you can get it as far as it will go, and then shave, but shave downwards. Also use a lot of shave gel. Another thing you could try using is called Bikini Touch, it's a little machine used for hair removal 'down there'. It's harmless and it prevents razor burns and ingrown hairs. It works awesome, and it's cheap too. You can buy it at Walgreens for $4.00, or you can order it online but there's a $5.00 shipping fee. You could also try other hair removal machines, but Bikini Touch, for me, is the best one to use. Hope I helped :)
Hi, I'm fourteen/female and weigh around 180/190 pnds, what are some good clothes stores where I can find things that are stylish, but are my size? Thanks everyone [:
Some nice stores are Old Navy, Torrid, Sears, Hot Topic (sort of like Torrid), & Walmart. Hope I helped :)
What are some of your favorite songs? I need lists, I just bought an iPod and I don't have many songs just yet and I have no clue what to buy/put on from CDs. Also, I know tons of songs but I can never remember the name or the artist. Any help is appreciated!
Hey, here are some songs that I LOVE, so I hope you will too:
Show Me the Money- Petey Pablo
So Sick- Ne-Yo
Hear You Me- Jimmy Eat World
Show Stopper- Danity Kane
Canned Heat- Jamiroquai
4 Ever- The Veronicas
We're dancing- P.Y.T
Gimme That- Chris Brown
Say Goodbye- Chris Brown
Gallery- Mario Vasquez
Do I Make You Proud- Taylor Hicks
Me & U- Cassie
Letter From A Friend- Novice
A Public Affair- Jessica Simpson
In My Pocket- Mandy Moore
Life Is a Highway- Rascal Flatts
What Hurts the Most- Rascal Flatts
Over My Head- The Fray
How to Save a Life- The Fray
If I Was the One- Ruff Endz
What's Left of Me- Nick Lachey
Ridin'- Chamillionaire & Krayzie Bone
Walk Away- Kelly Klarson
Save Me- Remy Zero
Hope I helped :)
is it possible to be born without a hymen because i've never had sex of any kind and i dont have any sort of covering over my vagina
Well the hymen is something that's sort of hidden, you can't see it. It is possible to be born without one, or to just be born with a smaller one than others. But it's totally normal. Don't worry, whether you were born with or without one, it won't hurt you in any way. If you have anymore questions, just go to google.com and type in hymen. Hope I helped :)
I have a problem, and my problem is my hair. It is WICKED frizzy, but when I tell people that they're like well mine's worse. HAHAHA I laugh at them because no one's hair is worse than mine. I can barely get a comb through it without tearing up and rip atleast 30 hairs out daily, unless I use my flat iron. My hair looks like someone electricuted me and then decided hell, let's give it another go. So I need help. Can anyone tell me what kinds of products they've tried that work really well (like creams and such) and also, what is the best flat iron out there (doesn't matter if it's $100-$800, let me know) I have a Vidal Sassoon one with the ceramic plates it works really good, but I want one that works even better. Thankyou guys so much, any advice that's given will be rewarded ;)
Try using Herbal Essences None of Your Frizzness (it's a new product line) it works great, it really keeps down the frizz. They also have a leave-in cream to match, I also use their other product called Dangerously Straight Flat Out Finishing Spray (the flat iron spray) and it works amazing. For the flat iron I recommend using the Chi, they've gotten great reviews and they're around $100-$150. Hope I helped :)
okay well sorry if this is the wrong category butt
i have very thin/fine hair its about shoulder length and blonde on top black underneath and i always have to backcomb and put tons of hairspray in it to make it look normal I HATE IT IT TAKES FOREVER, so i was wondering if anyone knows any thickening shampoo or creams or hairstyles that would help?
- thanks.
Actually there's these products called Sunsilk and they have different kinds for different types of hair. Since you're hair is this, I suggest using the one called Anti-Flat, they have a shampoo and conditioner, plus a leave-in cream. Here's the site:http://www.sunsilk.com, also you can order free-samples of the products, but they take a while to get to your house so I would just go out to a Walgreens, Walmart, or a CVS and pick some up.
hello! i finally had my little daughter 2 days ago... and i need some good names. she has blue eyes... and blonde hair. i want unique names... not like lizzie,.. or emily... or jessica... and i like names that begin with C's. i dont know why haha.
Congrats, some names I like that start with a C are:
Candace or Candice
Cassandra
Cailey (only I'd spell it Kiley)*
Caleigh or Caley*
Cameron*
Clarissa
Carley*
Caroline
Chelsey
Carrie
Caitlyn
Catheryn
Cecelia
Celeste
Chana (pronounced like Shana)
Chanelle
Christina
Charlene
Charlotte
Cherie
Cheyenne
Chloe
Christie
Crystal
Cecily
Claire
Chleo
Cydney
Sorry there are so many, hope I helped :)
"down there" it smells all fishy and nasty and theres white stuff or w.e. i dont think of anything sexual and i wanna know what it is and WHY.
Well there's nothing you can do about the fishy smell (except wash it), that's normal, and there's nothing you can do about the white stuff, or discharge w.e you wanna call it. If you've started your period or are about to, white stuff called discharge comes out, it's your "down there's" way of cleaning itself. It's normal, trust me. If you have started your period, discharge comes before you get it and/or while you're having it, but if you haven't started your period, then you're going to get it soon. Hope I helped.
last night i made out wit two guys and both times we went to second base. i dont even like them but i dont regret it? was this a slutty thing to do? i need honesty cuz my friends say i am being a slut.
No, I don't think it was slutty. That happened to my friend, but I don't think she's a slut, other people might, but I don't. Don't listen to your friends because they're not such great friends if they're calling you a slut.
I finished school early today and I went to meet my mum outside the school. As I was getting into the car, I noticed the most popular guy in school walk past and he goes "Thanks for last night! See you tomorrow"
I don't get it. What exactly did he mean by this? My mum said he was trying to make me laugh. I'm..err.. not so popular so I have no clue why he would talk to me. He blew me a kiss once when I was in the car with my mum too. He is a major flirt and does get a lot of girls so I'm not sure if it means anything.
What's going on here? Was this just a joke or did he have some hidden agenda?
thanks.
Lol I think he was trying to make your mom mad as if you guys had sex or w.e the night before, trying to get you into trouble. I hate people like that all popular people are jack asses so don't listen to them, no matter how nice you think they are, they're not.
does anyone use jergens natural glow and does it work well? im not super pale but im not all that tan either. [http://myspace-687.vo.llnwd.net/00942/78/66/942156687_l.jpg // http://myspace-988.vo.llnwd.net/00942/88/94/942084988_l.jpg] how long does it take till you start noticin a difference ? thx
I'm not sure if it works or not, but I do know that Touch of Sun by Olay works because I've tried it and after two days I had a nice sort of tan/glow to me. Another one you could try is Neutrogena Build-A-Tan, that works really well also. Hope I helped.
where can I find the DVD Byou that has dancing on it? ThX!
Best Buy has it: http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=7614352&type=product&id=1505738 or you could try ebay or amazon.com. Also Circuit City has it: http://entertainment.circuitcity.com/Movies/Movie.aspx?v_id=V+++339147&search=BYOU&sec=All%20Movies&prodid=BMGH75696DVD
Umm this is kind of hard to explain, but on my chest inbetween my breasts there are two small circles that are red and kind of feel like dried skin, but I'm not sure what they are. They've been there for a least a year, and everytime I scratch at them with my nails some white stuff comes off of them. First there was only one, then another one came. I have no idea what they are or how to get rid of them. Any ideas?
It could just be dry skin, but it also could be psoriasis. My mom has psoriasis and when she scratches them white stuff also comes off. Here's a site incase you have any questions: http://www.psoriasisconnect.com/explained/what_is_psoriasis.jsp, but if you need more info. go to Google.com and type in psoriasis. It could just be dried skin, but it wouldn't last for at least a year, so there's a good chance that it isn't. Try moisturizing it and if it is psoriasis, letting the sun get at it makes it fade. Hope I helped.